The emperor has helped you, but at the same time, the emperor will also want to get something from people, this kind of exchange of benefits should be a normal interpersonal relationship, but Fan Jingjing can't accept getting along with others too awkwardly.

When Fan Jingjing left the Fan family manor, almost all she could see was an exchange of interests, no one talked to her about feelings, and no one wanted to give Fan Jingjing benefits without asking for anything in return, and the real people who didn't ask for anything in return basically had a deeper pursuit.

Fan Jingjing is very helpless, but this is how others live, because everyone has to struggle to survive in this world, but people want to live alone in this world, and it is very difficult, so they have to ask for help.

In the absence of interests, it is difficult for people to believe in each other, so in the case of a combination of interests, people can believe.

But once the interests collapse, this belief will disappear, some people's humanity is better, even if the interests collapse, he will still pull you, so that you have something to eat, so that you will not starve to death on the road, but for more people, the interests collapse, that is, there is no value in associating with you, he will immediately turn his head and walk away.

Because he may be very selfish, or it may be because he can't bear too much pressure, and can only try to move forward under his own pressure.

Aren't these people soft? It's just that others are not soft enough for him, so he doesn't dare to show his softness in front of others.

Showing his softness in front of others is tantamount to letting others hurt him, but how much harm he can bear, he himself doesn't know, it's better to protect himself, since you use benefits to me, I will use benefits to you, and naturally there is no warmth in the world.

However, in the environment of Datang, people will throw a little warmth and give more warmth to the people around them who can get along for a long time, so gradually people will have a greater recognition of their village and the people around them.

Although these recognitions are not necessarily positive, some are negative, because some people just want to press others to climb up, and they can command others to live happily.

However, if the person being commanded does not have any desire to command, it is okay, and if he also has the desire to command others, he may feel very uncomfortable.

But there is also a possibility of self-esteem, feeling that you should be respected by more people and standing in a higher position, but you don't have this ability, so you will feel very uncomfortable.

In fact, it is very easy to respect others, but it is very difficult to gain respect.

Respect others, others will not necessarily respect you, but will trample on you.

In such a situation, people will retract the trampled respect and become apathetic.

In several interactions with the emperor, at the beginning the emperor gave and did not ask Fan Jingjing for anything, but after Fan Jingjing gradually showed his own talent, the emperor began to have respect.

Although the emperor will also give something, but the more he gives, the less he wants, the more and more he needs, and it seems that the investment in the early stage has brought him unlimited benefits.

The land of Qinling, if Fan Jingjing has no way to develop it, in fact, the emperor will soon take it back, because he has a lot of people who need to be tested, many people need rewards, and if the test is successful, of course, he earns it.

If the test is not successful, he will also find a way to withdraw the reward and give.

Fan Jingjing is a successful example, and Emperor Li Shimin is also very proud, often telling others that his vision is good.

No one knows what Fan Jingjing thinks in her heart.

Fan Jingjing actually met Li Shimin when she needed it most, and Li Shimin gave her the land she needed the most, in fact, Fan Jingjing was very grateful to Emperor Li Shimin.

It's just that he can't accept the emperor's arrangement for marriage.

In fact, there are not many things that Fan Jingjing can't accept, but others will ask Fan Jingjing for what she can't accept.

Although life is good, I feel very depressed.

This is the feeling of being like a tiger!

Then again, if one stands in front of others, not behind others, one must enjoy all the rights and wrongs that one has experienced in front of one.

Although there are all kinds of rights and wrongs, some are right, some are wrong, and some are helpless, but in summary, there are still some rights to speak.

Hiding behind people can avoid these attacks on you, but it can still be a barrier to supporting groups.

Therefore, if you want to live and get along with others, there will inevitably be conflicts, and you can only find ways to turn big things into small things and small things into nothing.

What's more, there are only two people for her, isn't it simple for one person to deal with two people? It's enough to use the entire Fan family manor to deal with it, why fight alone?

Fan Jingjing thought of this, looked at the four children and thought, yes! There are also four children who can help themselves, maybe the four children will be able to show a rejection reaction, so that they don't have to marry Li Chengqian.

After all, she is a mother, and a mother must feel the needs of her child. If you can't even take care of the needs of your child, you are not a qualified mother, so the child is also a supporter.

However, the relationship between the child and Li Chengqian seems to be good, and I don't know how to tell the child.

If the child really likes Li Chengqian, will he be like this?

To be honest, there is only one kind of mercy for Li Chengqian, and the rest is to avoid danger.

Speaking of which, Fan Jingjing feels that she is also very interest-oriented, if it weren't for Li Chengqian's very dangerous situation, it would probably make her head unsafe, maybe Fan Jingjing would still appreciate Li Chengqian a little.

Although Li Chengqian has some flaws, his behavior is generally very good.

What's more, in front of Fan Jingjing, he tried his best to show his better side, and for fear of his bad reputation, he also worked hard to learn how to face things better.

Speaking of which, he is even better than Fan Jingjing, because Li Chengqian already knows how to deal with some adults, rather than living purely without conscience.

Fan Jingjing is really living without conscience with her four children, and I don't know if the children will feel depressed or even rejected when they see so many people who have a bad attitude towards them when they grow up?

However, if the child feels rejected in the future, it doesn't matter, just go to the mountains and forests.

Fan Jingjing is definitely capable of supporting the children's life in the mountains and forests, so that they don't have to worry about others.

It's just that in the Tang Dynasty, it was also very troublesome to not have to care about others, because water conservancy projects could not be built by one person, and if you barely wanted to make a super small house, you might be able to, but if you want to rent a big house, it is impossible.