Fan Jingjing thought for a while, and it was really the case, so she opened her mouth and asked, "Will your parents agree?" ”

"If my parents don't agree, then I'll split up from the family, and let my younger siblings inherit the title, and I don't need to worry too much, now it's possible that I will have the title when General Li returns.

Although it is not a high-ranking title like an earl, it is just a baron, but it is also a title and a noble.

What's more, my lady is an earl, who would dare to bully me?

It's just that you have to help me find a new home, or I live in the barracks and go home when I need to go home, or you have to run a small family for the two of us, and this small family can't be in the Fan family manor.

Men always want to save face. ”

Niu Shijin found that Fan Jingjing was finally moved, and hurriedly put forward his conditions, if he didn't mention it now, it would be very embarrassing to mention it in the future, so when he said his conditions, Fan Jingjing's face did not change.

But it seems to be mired in deep consideration.

Niu Shijin waited, waited, Fan Jingjing never said her opinion, Niu Shijin was a little anxious, so he couldn't help urging:

"What do you think?"

"I don't think the Niu family can bear it, now the Niu family is still too weak, and one day the Niu family can be fearless of the threat of the royal family and can show loyalty to the royal family!

If I marry you in a hurry now, maybe it will cause or find something, and when things have slowly eased down, I will talk about this matter again.

Will you wait for me to get old in the future, or if you are used to looking at my face, and forget to marry me, when a man marries a wife, if he does not have much interest, he doesn't seem to care about women.

In fact, a man's greatest achievement seems to be to conquer a lot of women, taking care of women is not important to men, but taking care of his wife to achieve the purpose of continuation, it will be what they like. ”

"What are they, I am also a man, do you treat me as a woman, and after you marry me in the future, you will be able to enjoy my majesty again. Of course, if you want to now. ”

"I don't want to enjoy it." Fan Jingjing said this paragraph a little against her will, as for whether she wants to enjoy it or not, only God knows.

For women, most of the needs in this area are not the same as men's, and without stimulation, there will be no strong feelings.

Fan Jingjing also knows that if the marriage problem drags on, many people will not be able to stand it, and it seems very difficult to be a lonely woman in Datang.

Instead of looking for a random man, it's really better to find Niu Shijin, at least Niu Shijin has gone through this period of discipline and is already more like a man than most men.

Of course, the man in Fan Jingjing's heart is different from the man in the man's heart.

For a man, he who can obtain three wives and four concubines, and make a woman obedient, is a man, but for Fan Jingjing, a man is the one who can support his family and take care of his own family and comfort his children.

The difference between men and women is very big, after all, men are a kind of dependence for women, although Fan Jingjing does not need to rely on a man at all, and even feels that another person can control his own life, which is a very big burden.

The most important thing for a person is to be able to freely manipulate the fate of others, so there is still a master between husband and wife, but it will give up part of the power, so that the other person feels that he is not a completely manipulated puppet, so that he can feel happy.

Because when the other half doesn't feel happy at all, even the controller can't be completely happy. Because the happiness of some people can only be satisfied by looking at the happiness of the people around them.

Fan Jingjing is such a person, if she is not happy, she will make the people around her feel unhappy with her, and there is a tendency to be a destroyer.

But when she is happy, she will let the people around her feel happy with him, even if this person has a lot of difficulties, she will try to help solve them, as for how many people's difficulties can be solved, it depends entirely on how much ability she has.

She will not do things beyond her ability, because doing things beyond her ability is tantamount to hitting herself and hitting herself, and the people who could have helped her will also be dragged down by her, it is better to take good care of the people around her, so that after the people around her have the ability, she will find a way to take care of more people.

What Fan Jingjing wants to do is to publicize the idea that taking care of people is a kind of kindness and a kind of welfare, and make it acceptable to others.

Niu Shijin was already satisfied with Fan Jingjing's approval, Niu Shijin knew that Fan Jingjing would not be so afraid, so he ran to the man's arms.

If the Fan family manor does not have a way to deal with it, it is too weak, you must know that even if it is under the pressure of the emperor and empress, the Fan family manor does not need to walk in full accordance with the orders of the emperor and empress, and there can be reasons and excuses to act not according to the emperor's instructions.

Because the Fan family manor can say that they themselves are incapable, after all, the Fan family manor knows what ability the Fan family manor knows best, even if people outside know that the Fan family manor may be particularly strong in some aspects, but this is also the guess and judgment of others.

The Fan family manor can come forward to deny this claim and put forward another claim.

After all, the Fan family manor has gradually formed an emerging force in the Tang Dynasty, if it does not have the ability to resist the royal family, it is not an emerging force, it can only be squeezed by the emperor at any time, or wiped out by the emperor.

To the emperor, the forces that can be killed at will are nothing in the eyes.

But obviously, the emperor attaches great importance to the Fan family manor, because what the Fan family manor brings is something that the Tang Dynasty does not have, and the appearance of every new thing is a surprise, and even many objects have flowed into the palace, and even improved the emperor's life.

The life of the emperor can be improved, and the life of the common people will naturally have the opportunity to improve, but the cost of these things is still relatively high after all, after all, this is the product of the workshop.

The salary of the workshop is so high, and the emperor can't give an order to let the salary of the Fan family manor workshop drop, because the emperor is the emperor of the Tang Dynasty, that is, the emperor of the common people, for the emperor He really has to bow his head, that is, the voice of the people, if there is only one of the people, the emperor can ignore it, but if the people have thousands, hundreds, they can form a force, so that the emperor will care about their voice.

Or even change yourself to complete the instructions of the voice.

The voices of hundreds of people, especially those with the ability to disseminate literature and books, are easier to disseminate, after all, the ability to print can be transmitted more than what the mouth says.