Chapter 177: The Concept of Marriage or something

"I heard that there are now three little ladies in your house who have made you a roommate, they are all women, I am also a woman, I understand them, although their status is indeed low, but they are people, flesh and blood and thoughts, they have feelings, have their own dreams and hopes for the future, have a vision of life, I know you, after them, they know you earlier than me, and they know you more than me, understand you, why should I step between them and you? To be honest, my status is not high, I am just the daughter of a six-grade official, I don't have an advantage over them, why should I destroy their dreams and aspirations? ”

"You...... ...... are you? Alas......! How can you think that? They are just girls in the room, just serving my girls, and when you marry me and enter the door, they also have to serve you, if you don't serve well, isn't it your words? What do they dare to do? What do they dare to think? ”

"Shiziye, my biological mother, the aunt who gave birth to me, is my aunt!" Liu Tingting came from her heart, looked at Zhao Enhao, and said very seriously: "Before giving birth to me, my aunt was just a girl who served her father and mother!" ”

She felt that she couldn't tolerate that she would become an arbitrary "unreasonable" bully or send a girl away in the future!

In the Liu family, although Aunt Yan's status is only that of an aunt, everyone respects her, and because of these respects, she is sincere to everyone and treats everyone sincerely, but what about outsiders? What about someone else's house? She can't be mean to any of her future husband's girls, but it is also indescribably awkward and uncomfortable to let her watch them serve "diligently".

After all, her biological mother is an aunt, only half of the master's "girl", she can't despise and look down on them; But what about herself?! can't be like Fang Ci, the mother of the Liu family, to treat her aunt as well as a child like herself, and you can even treat yourself as your own like Yunyun.

Our Lady of Fangci? Possibly! If she is really the Holy Mother, then it is also good for the Fang family to "educate" her daughter! If she is not the Virgin, then she does not love her husband Liu Wentao, but ...... She doesn't seem to be able to live without him again!

"I'm sorry, don't be angry...... I said the wrong thing! I'm sorry! Zhao Enhao realized what he said, and inadvertently teased the thorn in Liu Tingting's heart, and hurriedly wrapped Liu Tingting's slender and weak little hand tightly with his big palm, and apologized in a sincere and somewhat stammering tone.

"It's not your fault, I'm not angry, these are discussed by our sisters when we are at home, it's not your problem, you don't have to do this." Liu Tingting looked at Zhao Enhao with a smile, and wanted to pull her hand out, it was really too hot, Liu Tingting was most afraid of the heat, "That, can you let go of your hand first?" I'm a little hot......"

Zhao Enhao was stunned for a moment, reluctant, but still let go of the hand holding Liu Tingting, Liu Tingting pulled out the handkerchief from her waist, and wanted to wipe the fine sweat on her hands, but she felt that she would just wipe it like this? It didn't seem to be very polite, smiled at Zhao Enhao, and said: "I'm not the same as my sister, she likes summer, as if she is not afraid of the heat, I can't, I'm afraid of the heat, oh, you see, my hands are already sweating." ”

Zhao Enhao looked at Liu Tingting for fear of misunderstanding, and did not hesitate to spread out his palm to show himself, he remembered hearing Zhou Minhao say once, someone spread out his palm to show you, that is, subconsciously trust you and believe in your meaning.

Zhao Enhao was in a better mood, took out his handkerchief directly from his arms, dragged Liu Tingting's fingertips, and wiped her carefully, in fact, the sweat was only a thin point, and it was not sweating at all, but Zhao Enhao was still very meticulous in helping Liu Tingting "wipe her hands".

Liu Tingting didn't expect that Zhao Enhao would do something to serve herself, but after she reacted, she hurriedly withdrew her hand, put it on her waist and bent her knees to thank Zhao Enhao.

"Your aunt...... In the Liu family, how are you doing well? Zhao Enhao helped Liu Tingting weakly, and didn't pull her hand again, but his hand couldn't find a good position for a while, so he had to put it behind his back, making himself look as warm as jade as possible, looking at Liu Tingting and asking.

Liu Tingting thanked her again, straightened up, put her hands on the railing of the painting boat in front of her, looked at the beautiful lakes and mountains in the distance, and said with sighs and sighs: "My aunt is very good, she thinks that her life is good, she can be so lucky to follow her mother, and accompany her mother to marry into the Liu family, when my grandfather is still alive, it is really happy and happy, although according to the rules of our dynasty, I am a concubine girl, I can't go out of the house easily, but my mother loves me, and I also love my aunt, my mother always says, girls have to go out to make more friends, If you have more handkerchiefs, you will naturally see more, and you will not get sick, let alone raise the vulgarity of a small family. ”

"Huh." Liu Tingting smiled, turned her head to look at Zhao Enhao, and said, "Do you know how your mother understands vulgarity in her heart? It's all influenced by those strange theories! You don't know, Yun Yun has always grown up with her grandfather, when she was a child, she was not in good health, I was born a month and a half earlier than her, and I was my aunt's first child, my mother said that I was born by my aunt, so let my aunt take it, which is also in line with human ethics, otherwise my aunt is too bitter, in case I think of the child again, it is not worth it, but, mother...... Almost all of them are big brothers in their hearts, and they ...... Grandfather likes Yunyun, so he hugged him to his side and Chenghuan kneeled, and then we grew up, Yunyun let my grandfather raise him like a tomboy, jumping up and down all day long, looking at everything fresh, once ......"

Liu Tingting said this, she couldn't stop laughing, holding a handkerchief to cover her mouth, and kept laughing, Zhao Enhao was a little inexplicable by her laughter, he actually didn't like to listen to Liu Yunyun's affairs, it was better to tell him something about Liu Tingting's childhood, which could make him more interested, but, out of politeness and the habits he developed, when others talked, he would not interrupt.

"Once, after we had dinner together, my mother persuaded my father to find my aunt, and Rong Rong was ...... Before her, Yun Yun stared at her big eyes, looked at her mother in a daze, and then said, "Mother, don't you want to sleep with your father?" Did your father beat you at night? At that time, we were all stunned, fortunately my father was not there, otherwise I would be embarrassed, hehe, my mother was very angry, and said how could Yun Yun talk to the elders like this, and then Yun Yun said: 'I am concerned about you, in case your husband and wife are not in harmony, and you can't stand to reconcile with your father because of your father beating you again, I can also talk to Aunt Yan and let her take care of me more. Just because of this, my mother was really angry, and she had already taken out the ring ruler to beat Yunyun, but the two aunts dragged her mother alive and didn't let her beat Yunyun. ”

Liu Tingting looked at Zhao Enhao and asked, "Do you know what Yun Yun told me afterwards?" ”

Zhao Enhao shook his head, but he also had a hunch that Liu Yunyun's girl couldn't say anything "human", that is, a black pepper in his head, even himself...... They almost fell into the trap she made! Thinking of the events of that day, remembering that Liu Yunyun almost pushed herself into a back mountain with a push, Zhao Enhao was angry!

Liu Tingting doesn't know him very well yet, so naturally she can't tell that he is angry, who let Zhao Enhao's classmate cover it up well!

"Yun Yun asked me, 'Sister, does my mother like my aunt more than my father?' Every month, my father had to rest in my aunt's house for half a month, otherwise, my mother would be angry with him! You said that Aunt Sun wants to take care of her second brother's enlightenment, and she is not particularly interested in her father, but it stands to reason that whoever your father likes, she will go to whomever she likes, right? But his mother always stopped him from entering his house, what was he doing? At that time, I also thought that maybe my mother didn't like my father, so she always asked him to go to my aunt. ”

Liu Tingting shook her head and smiled, "But, now that I'm older, I slowly found out that my mother doesn't actually dislike my father, but feels sorry for my aunt, and wants my aunt to have another boy to be a good body, probably because of this, my aunt respects my mother so much, but I can't be like a mother, maybe I was influenced by Yunyun, or maybe I didn't learn the rules well, so I ......"

Zhao Enhao was already in a mess of Liu Yunyun's words, and when he heard her say "so" at this moment, he immediately answered: "No, no!" It's not that you don't learn the rules well, it's that ...... It's human nature, I know, I understand! ”

"Shizi Ye, I am really boring on weekdays, Yun Yun told me, let me have something in my heart, try to say it in advance, so that it is not easy to misunderstand because of poor communication, which is both sulking and meaningless, so, I am telling you this today, just to tell you, I am not suitable for your house, and it is not suitable for you, if you don't dislike it, we can make friends, but, marry you, I am indeed ...... Unwilling! ”

"Don't talk about this yet, let's go, let's go fishing, have a cup of tea and ...... first" Zhao Enhao hurriedly said, his mind was very chaotic, he had to let himself slow down, he couldn't be in a hurry, he told himself.

Pulled Liu Tingting to the tail of the painting boat, Zhengbei and other small servants had already packed up the things they needed, Xiao Tao saw Zhao Enhao pulling Liu Tingting over, and the boss was unhappy in his heart...... Thick-skinned! Too thick!

Xiao Tao, who dared to be angry and did not dare to speak, was instructed to make tea, and served it on the small few children who were already sitting in the rocking chair, and dared to be angry and dared not speak to be pulled away by Zhengbei, Zhengbei knew that his master had something to say to Miss Liu, and it was obviously inappropriate for them to be here.

The fishing rod and bait are placed on the edge of the guardrail on the deck, and the fishing rod looks very tough, Liu Tingting asked with a smile: "This fishing rod is carved from golden silk bamboo?" ”

"Hmm," Zhao Enhao combed the messy lines in his head, and at the same time chatted with Liu Tingting about inconsequential topics.

was so silent, blending into the tranquility of this mountain and this water, Zhao Enhao finally figured out a rough idea in his mind.

In fact, it's hard for him, a young master from a family, although he has seen a lot of intrigues since he was a child, and he has also suffered a little grievance, but compared to the children of poor families, it is simply a honeypot that is used to raising him, and the grievances he has suffered, the children of poor families can't understand it, and he can't understand the kind of grievances suffered by the children of small families......

What's more, it's still a woman! The grievances suffered by women, in his opinion, only need a man to coax and send something to comfort him, and it is time to settle down, where do you have so many thoughts? Women are all men for the day, at home from the father, married from the husband, even his mother, so lively and alternative women, are based on his father as the sky, his father Jian'an Houye, only accepted five concubines, almost all of them were accepted by the mother to Zhang Luo, just like that, the mother also regrets, there are too few men, how can no aunt give birth to a son, at the beginning, the mother wanted to give Jian'an Hou Ye a concubine, the Jian'an Hou Ye was frightened, forced to escape from Jinjing City, this is almost the city's famous lively thing.

By the way, why didn't I think about it, why didn't my father want to take another concubine? Why can't a mother give her father another son? What did he think before? Ever thought about it? Does he care or doesn't care about his parents? And his sister? So why would my mother not need her to say goodbye? Why don't the aunts in his house have to make rules in front of their mothers? Why did my father resolutely stop taking concubines after the birth of that sister-in-law? …… Why is that?

Zhao Enhao shook the fishing rod, and his heart became inexplicably irritable, with self-blame and puzzlement!

"What's wrong with you? But tired? Why don't we go back? Liu Tingting was considerate but politely concerned.

"What do you say......" Zhao Enhao turned his head, looked at Liu Tingting, and asked very seriously: "If a woman is married, do you want her husband to guard her wholeheartedly?" ”

Liu Tingting blinked, laughed, and said: "It depends on what kind of family it is, for example, in our house, if it is really only my mother-in-law, her kind of thinking will force her to become distorted. It is not a virtuous behavior, it is a bad style, there is no idea of a family education, it is absolutely not possible, and, with my understanding of my mother-in-law, she will also feel lonely, she is soft-hearted, if it weren't for the grandfather's pressure, she can put the girls around her who she thinks are good, all to her father, first, so that these girls have a good home, and second, all the sisters can always be together, no need to separate. Yun Yun has said before that probably her mother really likes these sisters more than her father. ”

"Then you say me...... What about my house? Zhao Enhao has already understood and understood the way of thinking of the housewife of the Liu family, that is, a model woman from a family who strictly abides by women's moral education, not only learns the rules well, but also learns in blood, flesh, and bones. But what about his mother? In any case, it's not like a woman who can learn the rules in flesh and blood.

"Your house? Do you mean Lord Hou and Mrs.? Liu Tingting looked at Zhao Enhao and asked with a little surprise.

Zhao Enhao nodded very seriously, afraid that Liu Tingting would come up with some excuses, so he said without waiting for her to speak: "Don't think about it, don't worry about it, I just want to hear your opinion." ”

Liu Tingting looked at Zhao Enhao's expression carefully, and found that there was still a trace of distress and helplessness in his serious expression, thought about it, sighed, and then said slowly: "When I was a child, I heard some things about Lord Hou and Mrs. Hou, and even my aunt admired Mrs. Hou, saying that she was a strange woman with courage and courage, not like an ordinary weak woman from a family. A temperament like Mrs. Hou probably has a strong assertiveness, because when she is assertive, she is naturally ...... I guess I won't be too pushy on others. ”

"You mean that my mother will not force my father to take a concubine?" Zhao Enhao's brows furrowed, he didn't understand what Liu Tingting meant.

"Uh...... No, how can you say it......" Liu Tingting tilted her head and thought for a while before she said: "If what I said is offended, I hope the prince will not blame him." ”

"Well, I won't blame you, you can just say whatever you want." Zhao Enhao said in a gentle voice and looked at her. Although I was worried about the relationship between my father and mother, I was also a rare feeling of satisfaction, just talking to her quietly, the wind and the sun were beautiful, and I felt ...... That's nice.

"Mrs. Hou has her own thoughts, and she is proud, naturally she will not interfere with such a thing as Hou Ye's concubine, she can't pull down her own shelf, and she doesn't have that position to interfere, in terms of rules, the housewife of the family is to give the concubines to the masters, this is the rules and customs in society, Mrs. Hou will naturally not openly contradict this kind of rules, but she is also observing the actions of the Hou Ye, man, if he doesn't want to, he doesn't have the heart of the concubine, and moves the idea of collecting the room, naturally, No matter how you shove him in front of him, you stuff it into his bed...... Well, I mean, no matter what you do, he won't be willing, if he doesn't, he won't give in. But...... Back then, Master Hou may have really had such a heart and moved such thoughts, so Mrs. Hou was ...... This is also a kind of tough attitude of hers. ”

Zhao Enhao: "......"

"What Mrs. Hou probably thinks is, I don't stop you, I don't force you, I don't manage you, and I won't change you, but my thoughts are also my own, what I can change is my attitude towards you, and I also have the right to change my attitude towards you, and in the same way, you can't interfere and manage my thoughts!"

Liu Tingting thought about it and said it. These are all told to them by their grandfathers when they were alive, men are sometimes a group without opinions, especially in the face of the temptation to let them take advantage, most of them can't resist the temptation, think about his father Liu Wentao, probably when his mother asked him to accept Aunt Sun and his aunt, he was also willing and happy......