Shen Sanjiang's identity was there, many leaders came, and the memorial service was solemn and solemn for a long time.

The memorial service ended, and everyone left with a heavy heart.

On the return trip, Jiayuan and Qiaolian sat together, and the two of them had to chat a few words.

"Uncle Cousin's Xingye went on a mission and couldn't come back, Xingwei Xingcan is two years younger, and Xing Wei and Jia Sheng are the top beams in the younger generations, and they worry about everything everywhere.

Alas, it can be seen from here that it is really not good to have fewer children, and how can it be enough to have fewer people in case of major events? Jiayuan sighed on the road.

The Shen family is thin, with only two cousins, Shen Jingan and Shen Jinglan.

Shen Jing'an only gave birth to one child, Xing Yi, although Shen Jinglan has three sons, but one can't come back from a mission outside, and the other two are still young and don't understand anything.

In charge of the funeral, he pointed to Starburst and Justsun. Jiasheng's half-son has contributed a lot this time, no worse than his own son.

"Yes, I don't think it's like anything in ordinary days, but I can see it when something happens, and it has to be that there are more brothers and sisters who have helpers.

You see, this time, Xinyue's grandfather died, just in time for Xinyue to have another child.

If it weren't for the fact that we have a lot of people here and can help, what would Xinyue do? Is it to take care of her and the child, or to take care of the funeral over there? ”

Qiaolian couldn't help but sigh, saying that raising children was too much, but when she really encountered something, she found that it was really not in vain to raise more children, and it could be used.

Of course, the children have to be sensible, and if there are a few bastards at home, then don't mention it, I'm afraid you can't count on anything.

"It's a pity that now they don't let them have more children, and Garsun and their next family will be one.

Fortunately, there are many cousins, and they can help each other with anything. Qiao Lian sighed.

Jiasheng both have jobs, and they are both public officials, they don't want a second child, otherwise they will lose their jobs.

In the next generation, these estimates are also one by one. In the future, Minghui can still catch up with the policy, and he can ask for both.

However, at that time, the cost of raising a child was too high, and it was estimated that many people could not afford to have children even if they wanted to.

In the future, there will be several children like the Qu family, and there will be very few lively scenes of the big family during the New Year.

"No matter what time it is, you brothers and sisters, the seven, must get along well.

Our family is harmonious and beautiful, and your father and I will be content in this life. Qiao Lian couldn't help but sigh.

"Mom, don't worry, not only will our brothers and sisters get along well, but the relationship between the next generation will not be bad.

They have been playing together since they were children, and they will not forget this love when they grow up, and everyone will help if there is anything. Jiahe, who was driving, answered.

The group returned to the city like this, first went home and changed their clothes and packed up, and then went to the hospital to visit Xinyue.

Jiasheng has been busy with the Shen family yesterday, Xinyue gave birth to a child, he came back to take a look, and now he finally came back, and when he entered the ward, he picked up his son for a long time.

"Daughter-in-law, I'm sorry, I was too busy yesterday.

I wasn't able to be there when you gave birth, and when you came back, I took a look and left. Jiasheng apologized first when he saw Xinyue.

Yesterday, Shen Sanjiang's body was cremated, and the men were busy with it, but fortunately, the female relatives didn't go, and Jiayuan happened to be in the hospital.

If Jiayuan also followed, then Xinyue couldn't find Jiayuan when she called, and it was really possible that she would be born at home.

"It's okay, you're also busy with the Shen family's affairs, how can I blame you?

I couldn't fulfill my filial piety when my grandfather passed away, thank you for doing my filial piety for me, and I was busy with it. ”

How can Xinyue blame Jiasheng? Jiasheng is doing things for the Shen family, and the Shen family can have such a son-in-law and be content.

"A son-in-law is half a son, there is something at home, I should be busy, how can we be so polite as husband and wife, you don't need to thank me at all."

Justsun scratched his head, a little embarrassed.

"By the way, is our son named? Our children are all named by our mother, otherwise let our mother give them a name. ”

Jiasheng was too busy to take care of this side at all, and he couldn't say a few words when he saw his parents today, and until now Jiasheng didn't know that his son already had a name.

"It's up, our mother gave her son a name, our son's name is Minghao, and Hao is a notice next to the Japanese word.

It's very good, it's very smooth and not awkward, but I'm afraid that when our son writes his name in the future, people will think that our son wrote it wrong. ”

This word is not commonly used, and those who don't know will think that Haoyue's Hao is missing a stroke.

There is no way, there are only those words that are good and commonly used, all of which have been snatched away by the first seven babies, and the latter can only find words that are not commonly used.

"Minghao, yes, it's still our mother who will name it, the names of these children in our family are very good."

Here in Jiasheng, the mother is right about everything, and the name that the mother gives the child is also the best.

The little couple coaxed the child to talk very lively, and others were not easy to disturb, but the baby in Jiasheng's arms peed, and they felt uncomfortable and cried.

Qiao Lian couldn't help it, and hurriedly picked up the child. "Look at it, let you hold the child just by holding it, and when the child cries, you have to see if he is peeing or hungry."

Men are all tendons, and it is not good to expect them to take care of children, Justsun is quite careful, and the children will only hold them when they cry, and they don't know how to look at the situation.

Justsun is the first time to be a father, how can you understand this? So hehe smiled and scratched his head, watching his mother change Minghao's diaper quickly.

Over there, Jiaying washed milk powder, and after changing the diaper, she fed the child milk and burped.

"Mom, I'll hold him, I'll sleep with him." Jiasheng likes children, and when he saw that his son had eaten and drunk enough and urinated, he wanted to hold his son and coax him to sleep.

Qiao Lian sighed again when she heard this, "You, have you ever seen someone who coaxes a child to hold it all the time?"

You sleep with your arms at such a young age, and get used to it, what will I do when I see you? When the time comes, you will still sleep with him every day? ”

Why don't you say that men are unreliable to coax babies? They only come according to their mood, they will sleep with their children when they are in a good mood today, and they will not care where they throw it if they are in a bad mood tomorrow.

"Xinyue, you also remember, the little baby is not used to smelly problems, it's not that you don't want to hug him, but when you are young, try to hug him as little as possible, and you will let you hold him whenever you are used to it.

Try to train your child to sleep on his own, he will learn to sleep by himself, and you will not be so tired. ”

Qiaolian is also for Xinyue, after all, Xinyue still has a job.

After a busy day of going home, the child still has to let him hold and not let go, and it is enough to collapse when he thinks about it.

It's better to develop good habits from an early age, and you can hug them properly.

"Mom, I know, we'll pay attention to it later." Xinyue knew that her mother-in-law was doing this for her good, so she nodded and agreed.

Here, Qiaolian put the child in the crib and patted it gently, and the child fell asleep in a short time.

"This baby is so coaxing, look at it, how obedient it is, you can sleep with a pat.

Don't destroy this good habit, you will know in the future, the baby can fall asleep independently, and the parents are really much easier. ”