Chapter 373: Let Them Understand
It turned out that in the Fan family manor, they took care of the two little masters of the Fan family wholeheartedly, and for them, as long as they took care of the two little masters, it had nothing to do with them what other people did.
What's more, they didn't treat others particularly harshly, because he knew that Fan Jingjing treated everyone fairly, so they also wanted to treat them as fairly as possible and not make themselves look particularly proud, although they still had a little pride in their hearts.
When Fan Jingjing came out, women still felt that they didn't need to pay much attention to children, but there were a lot of children, and they seemed to be full of anger towards them.
It's that she knows that Fan Jingjing will definitely be partial to these children.
Fan Jingjing is fair, but fairness is unfair to everyone, because there is never fairness between people, whether it is strength or gender.
Women who feel vulnerable can easily cry out and state their grievances.
People's emotions may be very stable for a long time, but an event will often break out, some people say, appearance is born from the heart, but people who want to do bad things, there may not be a bad face, although there are many bad people in it, all have a bad face, or are particularly beautiful, but it will always make people see what is missing in his appearance.
But in actual life, people's life, no matter how touching the face is, a person is often sad in his heart, there will be a sad face, and if a family is happy in his heart, there will be a happy face, but if a person is sad or a person is happy, it does not necessarily mean that his life is in line with social rules.
What is a good guy and what is a bad guy?
A person who has most of the benefits may also be considered a good person, because he is the so-called rich person, and is willing to share his wealth and let others get a little benefit, so that he will be considered a good person, but some people will take it by force and try to get a little more, so that they can eat a little more, so that he will be considered a bad person, as long as people do not realize that his benefits are taken away by others, the people around him will be good people for him.
More people than good guys and bad guys are strangers.
In people's minds, the real big bad guy doesn't have to be bad and cunning, he can smile at people with a very decent smile. Doing business with a cold face.
It shows that he is a reasonable and upright person, but there may be a fanaticism in his heart, and this fanaticism makes him want to be full of experimental psychology about the world, and his experimental psychology may be on the human body or other objects.
Children naturally cannot look like bad people, in their minds they are just a wronged person, and when they are wronged, they must naturally punish the person who has wronged them.
Some people get along with most people, and they may be harmonious and beautiful, but for a certain person, he can't wait to put the most vicious thoughts in his heart on the other party, so it is particularly difficult to locate a person's positioning, but if you position a person, many people position a person, and the direction of positioning is not good, this person is likely to be affected by the portrait to become a bad person, you position a person as a good person, but it will not necessarily make people become a good person, but it will make this person, Find a way to put the best foot forward in him.
But in private, where people can't see, he may still have some bad thoughts coming to him.
Human nature is inherently evil, seeing the child's aggrieved face, Fan Jingjing knew that she couldn't just take care of her child, nor could she give the woman of the Fan family's manor a special advantage.
She must be reasonable, and in the child's mind, take and dispose of the matter with a fair thing.
After understanding the situation, Fan Jingjing separated the four children from the other children and put them to play beside her, and when Fan Jingjing sat on it, for the other children, she was actually separated from the other children.
Four children moved at Fan Jingjing's feet.
It is also high in front of others.
Fan Jingjing is not a person with a bad temper, but the behavior of throwing stones still makes her very angry.
She brought out the child with stones.
It just so happened that the incident happened under the noses of many people, and there was no way to hide it or deceive it.
If the deception is concealed and the facts are sought to be revealed, perhaps the lesson may not be effective.
The physical and mental development of these people has been transformed.
"Do you know what you did wrong?"
The child was actually very unwilling, bowed his head and did not speak.
"The stones you threw hurt four children. Even if the parents of the four children are not me, how do you think they would feel when the child is very seriously injured?
Can you afford to cause permanent damage, or even death?
What's more, these children who are crawling on the ground have no way to deal with them in a fair way with you.
They are a group, and you are a group.
Some people say that fairness is the biggest unfairness, and I want my children to be fair to you in the future, so let them play with you.
This is the greatest injustice to my children, but they have no choice but to be with you as I wish.
With you comes a lot of risks. ”
At this time, Fan Jingjing turned to the two women who were responsible for taking care of the four children and asked them to come to her.
"You know what? You are also at fault, and these children find your mistakes. ”
"What's wrong with us protecting our children?"
The people of the Fan family manor obviously understand Fan Jingjing's attitude better than these children, Fan Jingjing is not afraid of the people below making mistakes, but they are worried about making mistakes but they don't know where they are wrong, at this moment, they obviously don't know where their mistakes are.
Not knowing what their mistakes are and silently bearing them will be even bigger mistakes for them, so they ask.
"You are dealing with the child's affairs, it is not fair to them, and when the child is not harmed, only fairness can allow them to live in harmony and bear some grievances."
"They're not sensible yet, we think ......"
"You think, why I let my children play with other people, is to let them experience what is called fairness, in a group of children, how good they can do, that is their ability. When they make mistakes, you have to find them all and tell them why they made mistakes. ”
"But they don't understand anything......"
"They don't understand anything, so we have to make them understand ......"
Perhaps it was Fan Jingjing's attitude that made the children who threw stones also begin to reflect on themselves.