Chapter 168: Sprinkle salt in the oil pot again
What is a house fight?
The struggle of family members living in a house for the sake of profit and loss is a house fight!
Why do family members fight each other?
Because, not all family members make you feel "home", so not all family homes are happy.
Unclear family property disputes, love-hate entanglements that are constantly untidy, deceitful battles for favor and merit, ruthless killing and abusing children who are not favored, this is a house fight...... (The one who kills and abuses the child is really not a beast or a human anymore!) Murder (⊙o⊙), it's terrible to think about! I can't stand watching the chengguan beating dogs and killing dogs on the street, let alone killing...... )
Oh, wait, I almost forgot, there is one more important thing in the house fight, that is: scumbag!
Regardless of whether this man is Lao Tzu, Lao Tzu, or Lao Tzu, or a son, or a grandson, there must be at least one man who is a scumbag.
But fortunately, there is not much son-in-law mixing, the ancient social system is not like now, basically the daughter who marries out becomes the water that spills out, there will hardly be a woman who has been married for many years, with her own husband, and then go back to her mother's house to rob the family property, rob the house, grab the land and other things, and it is unlikely that the son-in-law who eats soft rice dominates the father-in-law's house, eats for nothing, drinks for nothing, lives in vain, and by the way, let the father-in-law's family raise their own children to save their own money in this house (of course, except for the upside-down door), so, in ancient times, the shadow of the son-in-law was very small.
Otherwise, when sons and daughters-in-law, grandchildren and daughters-in-law, daughters and sons-in-law, granddaughters and sons-in-law all start a fuss, wow, you can imagine how spectacular that scene is.
Moreover, in ancient times, there was a place that was stricter than the modern legal system, that is, "filial piety", as long as no one called the police in modern times, as long as the circumstances were not very serious, basically the comrades of the people's police came to persuade them patiently, and then re-educated the children of the abused, and then ...... Then there is nothing to do, how to live, how to live; But in ancient times, the abuse of the elderly, almost such a thing, could not have happened!
Let's not talk about the Great Heavenly Empire, even the Great Zhou Dynasty, where Liu Yunyun is located, doesn't know what planet, is also governed by "filial piety"!
This is a national policy! It is a policy to guide the people for good!
How can the state turn a blind eye in a daze? If there is elder abuse in any family, first, the criminal law is seriously cruel; Second, not only will the abuser lose his life, but even the children will not be able to hold their heads up for the rest of their lives, and their future will be completely ruined.
Therefore, from the position of the children, it is aggrieved, because you have to listen obediently to what the elders say, and you dare not have the slightest resistance to be exposed, let alone any disobedient behavior, but the imbalance in their hearts is also real! My grandparents' money, house, and social connections, why don't I fight for it? Why should I give it to someone else? Therefore, this has derived a series of disputes, wives and concubines, and concubines. I don't dare to resist the elders, but the juniors or even the juniors, I can always be lewd, right?!
Don't say that everyone can abide by the law, the status of concubines or concubines is very low, and they are not qualified to compete with the main mother or the children of the concubines, and men are also law-abiding, and they dare not spoil their concubines and kill their wives, if they really don't dare, where does this word come from? Since there is a system of concubines, such words as spoiling concubines and destroying wives shows that there is such a phenomenon in society, so the phenomenon of elder abuse must have existed in ancient times......
This is "people"! The thing of inferior roots, whether ancient or modern or in the future, exists, because they want to "live", and they want to live well, live a nourishing life, "greed" to enjoy, and "gnaw the old" is the way to go!
Heart, motivation - that is, people's thoughts from nothing, from there to chasing, from chasing to seeking, from seeking to seeking or not seeking! Therefore, I will hear people complaining all day long, I want to "......", I don't want to "......", all grievances are "thoughts", and all worries are "thoughts".
Maybe one day, you don't want to think about anything, you don't have to be led by the nose by "ideas" anymore, maybe you can really be free......
However, it is too difficult, because it is impossible to see through, because "thinking" requires one, two, three, four, five......
Cao Xianxian's mother Lin, her maiden family is the former right prime minister's house, and she is the eldest daughter of the former right prime minister Lin Zhiye, the former right prime minister Lin Zhiye is shrewd, especially good at the integration and management of social resources, but helpless, poor health, coupled with years of desk work, the body is seriously lacking in exercise, resulting in the death of the grandson with regret. The younger brothers of the Lin family, because they want to keep filial piety, so everyone in Prime Minister Lin's mansion helped Prime Minister Lin's coffin to return to their hometowns.
Lin herself is not very well treated by her husband Cao Taibao, and her own temperament is too pampered, she can't bear a little hardship, can't suffer a little sin, and has no strong maiden family to rely on, so she only gave birth to a daughter and never came out again.
It is impossible for Cao Taibao to let his family's great cause Dalian son inherit it, no, Miss Cao Wu's mother-in-law, and also the third aunt of Cao Taibao, Aunt Li, who is the sister of the little Li beauty in the palace, as soon as she entered the house, she gave birth to a son to Cao Taibao, Cao Taibao was the master, and forcibly suppressed the angry Lin family, and insisted on hanging this concubine's son under her name, who made Aunt Li's father a scholar of the dynasty.
You say, with this kind of competition, and the value of fighting for his father, how can the Lin family shake Aunt Li's status?
The Lin family didn't think about it, and took the concubine son born to Aunt Li over and raised it himself, but Cao Taibao said that his son's maternal grandfather was a scholar of Dongge University, and when his son was older, he was directly sent to follow his grandfather for enlightenment.
Lin heard the little girl's report, quickly got dressed and got up, held the hand of the nurse who was close to the age of the sixtieth year, and ran to the yard of his own daughter Cao Xianxian with anger.
Because she walked too fast, the old nurse couldn't keep up with Lin, who was much younger than herself, so the nurse fell, and Lin glared at her irritably, but years of affection made her even if she was cold and hard-hearted, she couldn't speak viciously to the nurse who married her and depended on her for her life, she sighed fiercely, and ordered to follow behind, and the little girl who was reluctant said: "You send Mother Han back first." ”
The little girls responded in unison, and the two girls who walked in front jointly helped Han's mother, who was almost old, and Han's mother was supported by the girl with her arms, raised her head, and looked at Lin with guilt and worry in her eyes.
Seeing this, Lin couldn't help but feel sour, and hurriedly stepped forward, took Han's mother's hand, as if he was a child, and shook it while comforting: "Mom, I'm not a child anymore, don't worry, take care of yourself first, and we have to enjoy happiness together...... I'll go over and take a look at Xian Xian first, let's talk later, you go back first, it's so late, don't hurt anymore, let me worry, okay? ”
Mother Han held Lin's hand with her backhand, patted it, and said, "Don't calm down, don't lose your temper again, the eldest lady is frightened again today, what's the ...... I'll talk about it tomorrow, alas...... Listen to your mother, don't lose your temper with the eldest lady. ”
As a beloved junior, you may sometimes lose your temper with your elders, and sometimes quarrel with your parents to pursue your freedom and power, but when you see your parents full of distress and worry about their own eyes, who can be indifferent?
Don't wait for the person who loves you the most in the world to go and regret it......
"I see." Lin forced himself to smile and nodded, and ordered the girls to send Han's mother back to the courtyard, and when she couldn't see anyone, her face changed, and she turned around angrily and continued to walk forward.
The little girl bent down slightly respectfully, hung her head and didn't dare to look at the angry Lin, and lightly opened the curtain, where could the Lin family take care of the look of a little girl, she didn't even look at this girl, raised her foot and stepped over the threshold, stepped into the door, and just collided with the doctor who came out inside.
Lin immediately looked at the doctor and asked, "How is the injury?" ”
The doctor's surname is Chang, is the old doctor with an excellent reputation in Jinjing City, at this time he is dressed in a green robe, and he has an extremely tough body, but he really has some real sense of fairy wind and bones, and when you see him, you have to admire, this person hangs the pot to help the world, saves countless people, and accumulates a lot of good deeds, which will really exude a light of humanity, so that you can't help but feel very secure, and like to be close to it. In terms of the law of "temperament" in later generations, it is this person who makes you see the first time, and you have a good impression, which is also what our school teachers often teach us, we must know how to be polite, to love clean, so that it is easy to leave a good first impression, the first impression is very important, and so on, but in fact, we all know that it is not to make yourself clean, dress up well, it is easy to make a good impression on others, this is actually very related to temperament.
Doctor Chang's temperament is surprisingly good, approachable and at the same time, it makes people feel that he is very skilled and professional, Lin was originally annoyed that Cao Taibao did not invite the imperial doctor to treat his daughter, but when he saw Doctor Chang, the anger dissipated in an instant, leaving only the mood of wanting to know how his daughter was doing.
Doctor Chang made a gesture towards Lin, and said slowly in the professional tone of a senior expert doctor: "It's that the calf bone is a little sprained, and the head has been hit hard, but there is already a slump, and it is not in the way, please rest assured that the old man has prescribed medicine for the eldest lady, as long as you take it according to the hour, it will not be in the way." ”
Lin thanked Dr. Chang and motioned to the little girl to seal a big red envelope and give it to him.
Doctor Chang did not refuse, he was to make money from rich people, and then go to make up for the poor and poor people who were tortured by illness, Lin naturally did not have this great humanitarian feelings, she just acted according to common sense, gave the doctor a few more big red envelopes, and gave you more gifts, so Lin smiled and thanked him, and then personally ordered someone to send him out of the house politely.
I have to say that no matter how hypocritical and despised the people of the aristocratic family, (provided that the real nobles are not nouveau riche) are extremely self-contained in terms of politeness and etiquette, which is incomparable to the small citizen families in the market, as the saying goes, that is, the more high-end people, the more hypocritical! Politeness is a side expression of hypocrisy. (Note: It's the side!) Politeness is something that everyone should talk about, it is a kind of respect for others, we have to respect all the people around us, all animals big and small. )
Cao Xianxian's head was pasted with a thick ointment, in order to be afraid that the ointment would be rubbed off by the pillow, Dr. Chang wrapped her with several layers of gauze and wrapped it around her head.
Hearing her mother's voice, she instinctively trembled with fright, and hurriedly let the butterfly wait for her to lie down, shrinking into the quilt and pretending to be delicate, in this way, the mother will come in for a while, and she will not still roar at her lioness, right?
The original anger turned into sadness when she saw her daughter's pitiful appearance, she ran to the bed in a few steps, looking at her daughter's weak appearance, her bloodless pale face, and the thick gauze on her head, tears spurted out of her eyes.
This is what motherhood is, love is selfish and great! No matter how vicious and brainless she is, she can only fight back and forth, but she also has the softest side in her heart, and when she touches it, she will feel real sadness.
"My Bao'er, how did you get ...... How could it be...... Say, tell your mother, who did it? Mother avenges you! Even if your mother is desperate, she will get justice for you! …… Whining...... Tell your mother, does it hurt? Where else does it hurt? ”
Cao Xianxian heard her mother's words of sincere concern, and she also cried with wow, how could she not feel wronged? When she heard that she had been taken to the Qinglou today, she was ready to bite her tongue and commit suicide, and the feeling of despair at that time was still fresh in her memory, and she would tremble uncontrollably when she thought about it. On weekdays, she disguises and pretends to be noble and dignified, but after all, she is a person, a girl who will be afraid, panic, and despair.
"Don't cry, don't cry, child, don't cry yet, everything has a mother, and the mother is the master for you! Tell your mother first, does it still hurt? Lin took the handkerchief and gently wiped the tears of Cao Xianxian, who was full of grievances and fears, and comforted.
"It doesn't hurt...... Cao Xianxian shook her head, she enjoyed the feeling of being loved by her mother at this moment.
"Well, have you taken any medicine?" Lin asked, looking at the butterfly that had been standing beside the bed with his hands down.
"Mrs. Hui's words, I have already taken it, and Dr. Chang personally watched the medicine boiled by people." Butterfly replied respectfully, after speaking, hesitated for a moment, glanced at Cao Xianxian who signaled to herself, lowered her eyes, knelt on the ground with a "bang", kowtowed three times in a row, and then straightened up, raised her eyes and looked at the stunned Lin and said: "Madam, the eldest lady doesn't let the slave and maid say this, but the slave and maid are really ...... I can't stand it...... The eldest lady has such an unexplained grievance, madam, you have to make the decision for the eldest lady. After saying that, he kowtowed again.
Cao Xianxian seemed to be a little panicked, and hurriedly supported her arms and wanted to sit up, but her arms and wrists were bruised, and the wrist of her right hand was twisted.
Lin glanced at the butterfly kneeling on the ground, turned his face, and hurriedly helped his daughter to half-lie and half-sit on the pineapple wooden bed (because there is a "bed" in the sensitive word | on", so, everyone understands), opened his mouth and reproached: "They are all injured, and they are so inattentive, and the subordinates are not sensible, how can you, as everyone's sister-in-law, be so careless?" ”
"Mother, I was wrong...... Cao Xianxian rarely showed the embarrassment of her little daughter's family, pouting and admitting her mistake in a low voice.
Lin's heart immediately softened again, turned around and sat on the edge of his daughter's bed, looked at the kneeling butterfly and said, "Okay, this time I won't care about you hurting the eldest lady, let's say, what do you want to say?" ”
The butterfly quickly glanced at Cao Xianxian, and sighed in her heart, sighing, alas...... To be a subordinate is to be cheap! It's just that she has no choice but to be helpless, and she still has to complete the instructions she received.
"Back to Mrs. Hui's words, the slave and maid are also a temporary situation, and after the report, the slave and maid will go to receive the punishment! It's just that this matter, no matter what, the slave and maid have to say. Seeing that Cao Xianxian was pretending to stop herself, the butterfly hurriedly shed tears and said aggrievedly for her: "Miss, why are you so troubled? ……”
Lin Shi was given a headache by the two of them coming and going, and shouted angrily: "Don't hurry up and say it!" ”
"Yes, madam, the eldest lady went to Jinlan Lake to play today, and they were all little ladies who had befriended us in the past, but why are the little ladies of other families all right, but our eldest lady was kidnapped? The slave maid returned to the house today, and found that only the eldest lady was missing, and wanted to go to the front yard to report to you, but as a result, she was stopped by the fifth lady, and the slave was anxious, but she did not dare to disobey the fifth miss, and later, the fifth miss was called to the study by the adult, and the slave and maid were brave, and kept an eye, so they followed, and the result was ...... Whining...... As a result, Miss Fifth personally admitted that it was the eldest lady who she had kidnapped...... Woohoo......"
The Lin family's anger is almost able to lift the sturdy and stubborn tile roof, okay, okay, it's not that good, she hasn't let that dead girl marry into the prince's mansion, she hasn't been so arrogant before she has been favored by the prince?! How dare you do such a rebellious thing to the crown princess and concubine who was personally ordered to marry by the emperor?!
Cao Xianxian has been paying careful attention to her mother's expression, seeing that the Lin family did not only care about her father's partiality as before, but was really thinking about the problem, she glanced at the butterfly obliquely, and almost didn't high-five her to celebrate, great, if her mother can find Concubine Xian, then she will definitely be able to have a good time!
Liu Yunyun listened to Liu Dalang's report to herself the next day, thought about it, looked at Liu Dalang and said, "You go and tell His Royal Highness, the sister of the Lu family has already made up her mind, if you can, push her......"
Liu Dalang nodded and retreated.
"Alas......" Liu Yunyun sighed, this is the only thing she can do, since ancient times, women have been helpless, especially women who have righteousness in their hearts, family members and "love", this may be a kind of relativity, stupid people have stupid blessings, smart people know more, and there are more troubles...... I hope that Lu Fangfei can really get her wish and get her own happiness......
Lin has really become shrewd this time, maybe she was just spoiled from childhood to adulthood, and she was too lazy to use her brain, but now, because of the laziness of her brain, she let her daughter suffer such a big loss, which naturally inspired her to have the advantage of reading a lot of books since she was a child.
Early the next morning, she waited for Cao Taibao to have breakfast, and in Cao Taibao's suspicious expression, she respectfully sent him to the morning court, and then, calmly, without waves, accepted Cao Taibao's concubines, concubines, concubines, etc., chatted for a while, and then took the teacup and sent them back to their respective courtyards. She herself, with Yunqi, the eldest girl who married her, entered the palace with the post.
Cao Taibao was reprimanded by the prince yesterday, mainly accusing him of not taking care of the prospective princess for himself, but fortunately, Dr. Chang came in time, proving that Cao Xianxian was robbed and suffered several skin injuries, and there was no trace of being bullied, and the anger of the prince Zhou Minchang dissipated a little, Cao Taibao naturally patted his chest and promised that he would investigate this matter thoroughly, and would not let the princess suffer any grievances, even the slightest grievance, so the prince was willing to give up and returned to the prince's mansion, which had not been built yet, but it was almost done.
It's not that Zhou Minchang cares about Cao Xianxian so much, but that he has been assigned to get married, not to mention the entire Jinjing City, even the whole world, and everyone knows that his prince Zhou Minchang's quasi-crown princess is Cao Xianxian, and he is about to get married soon, and if something happens in this stall, isn't it obvious that he was slapped in the face of the prince? How can he wear a green hat and let people taunt him behind his back?!
Concubine Xian was already worried about the dominance of the Cao family, and her prince's son had been particularly disobedient recently, which made her very distressed......
Concubine Xian's eyes lit up!