Chapter 142: Pain or Relief
Initially, the divorce was a relief for Li Meng, and she finally got rid of Cao Mingjun's clutches.
However, after a long time, she fell into the fear of reality and worries about the future, and suffered the pain of divorce.
During this period, many people introduced her to the object, but she was not moved at all.
She doesn't want to marry anyone again, people won't think it's Gao Pan her, but they will think that she can't find a good one and can't get married.
Good people have to be matched with the same people to be happy, don't they?
Moreover, after suffering so many injuries, Li Meng no longer believes in love, and is even ready to be lonely for the rest of her life.
No matter how tenacious a person is, he can't withstand the heavy blows again and again!
One night, Li Meng dreamed that there was a man who cared for her in every way, but died of illness. In her dreams, she felt that this life was worth it, at least someone loved her.
I woke up from the dream, and everything went back to the way it was. In short, she is still alone, and no one is with her.
Man is born a lonely individual, and in this modern era, even if he is lonely for a hundred years, there is nothing that he can't bear.
Is the movie not good? Are web dramas not good? Are genuine books not good? Isn't it fun to travel the world?
Rather than living the second half of a life without quality with a devil, it is better to live exquisitely by yourself, and pass alone and alone.
Everyone has the right to choose their own lifestyle, and there are so many unmarried people and dinks!
Raising children does not necessarily prevent old age, otherwise, there will not be so many children who raise their children into scum.
Li Meng also envies the life trajectory of most people, they can complete all the tasks that should be completed step by step, get married when they should get married, no matter how good or bad they are, and have children when they get married.
However, if you want to pursue true happiness, you should not have a timetable in your life.
True happiness is not the appearance of happiness in the eyes of others, but the kind of happiness that makes your own heart feel warm like spring.
Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and everyone just knows it.
"There are times in life when you have to have it, and there are times in life when you don't force it." Those mistakes, those who have passed by you, do not belong to you, and they should be given up in the end.
Something as hard to find as hard to find as love, shouldn't Yue Lao be given more time to prepare and find the person who matches each other?
If there is no such person, doesn't that mean that you are too special, that you are the "chosen one"?
Some people, relying on luck, can also meet their other half smoothly; Some people, desperately trying to find it, can only run into walls everywhere, blindfolded by rotten peach blossoms.
Why do we have to stick to a happy obsession? Why should we be afraid of ridicule?
Regarding love, Li Meng also needs someone to calm down and cultivate herself.
Just like JJ sings in the song: long-distance appreciation, close-up confusion, who said that the sun will find the moon? The love that others have, we cannot imitate.
During the period of divorce, Li Meng went to chase several idol JJ concerts alone.
From the high stands, to the front row of the infield, she just wanted to be closer, closer.
When she sat in the audience and sang with the idol she had liked for many years, all the pressure was released in an instant.
JJ has a different meaning to her. How many days and nights did she hold back her tears after listening to his songs.
Those songs, word by word, entered her heart.
The idol effect is amazing!
Li Meng, a thirty-year-old woman, is still like a young woman, willing to spend money on chasing stars, not because she is naïve, but out of a love for art and respect for singers.
JJ actually represents her entire youth! From secondary school to university, to work......
His singing voice has always grown with her, and after so many years, he is the only one who has not changed.
Fans love idols, so they are willing to spend money to support idols, buy tickets, buy albums, buy peripherals, buy support, no matter how far it is, no matter how expensive it is, it is not too expensive.
On the contrary, if you are not a true fan, then you may not be willing to spend a penny more.
The same is true of love, if a man loves you, then he is willing to spend nine cents on you even if he has a dollar.
Therefore, people say: a man who is willing to spend money for you may not love you, but a man who is not willing to spend money for you must not love you.
The most hated people who like white wolves with empty gloves will marry a good wife who doesn't care about it without spending a penny. No one is a fool, do you think that others will never be able to see your calculations?
Some men are obviously not short of money, and they are even very rich, and they are calculating with women even a penny, and they are greedy for even a penny of cheapness. Such a person is even more terrifying than the phoenix man who is clearly displayed.
Li Meng's heart was very tired and tired, she thought back to the more than ten years of youth she had wasted on men before, and felt that it was not worth it.
She thought: If I keep my distance from men and don't fall in love, I may be happier than I am now.
I've had bumps and bumps along the way, and other things have already been very unsmooth, and I have to add a little more blockage to my feelings, and I will be ruined by these bad men!
I want to hug my current self, how have you survived all these years!
Li Meng, you have finally grown up and matured, but you are no longer young.
The label of a divorced woman may be more ugly than the label of an older leftover woman, perhaps, the two are also each other!
The label of an older leftover woman can be torn off when she gets married, but a divorced woman remarries and is replaced with the label of a second-married woman.
Either way, a divorced woman is a failure. At the same time, divorced women are brave again. Because, some women are actually not doing well after marriage, but they don't know why, and they will never be able to get out of the siege of marriage.
As women, they actually envy leftover women and divorced women the most in their hearts, but on the surface, they pretend to disdain them and always think that they are higher.
They use their children as an umbrella and always feel that they have their back.
Who can say for sure what kind of life is better?
Man lives for himself, not for others, and there is no one better than the other.
It is natural to have a warm home, a husband who knows cold and hot, and a filial and sensible child.
However, these are just things that add to life, and it is better if you have them, and you should not force them if you don't.
Japanese minimalists can finally simplify their lives to the point where they can save even their husbands and children, which is also a trend.
Li Meng just prayed that God could open his eyes and one day give her back the happiness she deserved.
A pure and harmless girl like her should have a kind man to cherish her, instead of a bunch of scumbags to bully her and calculate her. Take a hundred plating to read the latest chapter of "Love This Dead Cycle Claw Book House" for free for the first time.