"You don't have to feel how sorry you feel for me, it's just that I feel that there is a psychological problem, and I need to deal with it in time."

Zhao Qingluo knows that she has postpartum depression, and she doesn't want to bring this depressed mood to her own people and affect their lives.

And she has never been a person who is willing to trouble others, and she should not let the people around her worry because of her psychological problems, which is the last thing she wants.

But Yue Tingcheng changed his mind, what he was thinking about was postpartum depression, to be honest, it wasn't that serious, and he also hoped that Zhao Qingluo could adjust it by herself, and it wasn't serious enough to go to a psychiatrist.

"Actually, I suddenly remembered, it's not so serious, and there's no need to see a psychiatrist, I can take you to relax or something, I don't want you to come into contact with these, thinking that you have some psychological problems."

At first, when I heard Zhao Qingluo say this, I didn't think carefully about the reason for this, but after thinking about it clearly, I didn't want her to think that she had a psychological problem.

After Zhao Qingluo heard him say this, she seemed to understand, he didn't want to let him go.

"I know, in fact, you feel sorry for me to a large extent, and you don't want me to think about it, and you don't want me to feel sick, but I really feel that for the sake of the children, I am willing to see a psychiatrist." As he spoke, he looked at him as if he had made up his mind, and generally no one was allowed to stop him.

After Yue Tingcheng saw her say this, he still didn't understand what it had to do with the children, and besides, the children now have so many children, and they won't feel their mother's attitude.

"The children are so young now, it's impossible to feel your attitude, I think if you can regulate yourself, don't go to a psychiatrist, maybe he will make the problem more serious."

In fact, he also understands more or less, sometimes he is not sick, but after seeing a doctor, it is like he has a serious illness.

This will not be beneficial to the treatment, so I hope he can think clearly and not act rashly.

But after Zhao Qingluo heard him say this, she felt that since she had already made up her mind, she would not compromise easily.

"Maybe you still don't quite understand how serious this postpartum depression is, sometimes I am very depressed, and I can't lift my spirits when I see my children."

This is the most tangible thing for her, and sometimes she doesn't want to see the children anymore if she can't lift her spirits, which is really detrimental to cultivating feelings between them.

Therefore, she hopes that by seeing a psychiatrist, she can adjust her mentality and get along with the children, so that they can feel that their mother has always been by their side and will not leave.

When he saw her say this, her attitude was very sincere, and when she was very resolute, Yue Tingcheng was also very helpless and agreed to her request.

"Don't worry, I will let my assistant find the most reliable and authoritative psychiatrist, and I will accompany you when the time comes, and the two of us will face this difficulty together."

After the two hit it off, they called his assistant and asked him to contact the most authoritative psychiatrist in the city.

"Yes, help me contact this most authoritative psychiatrist as soon as possible, I need to take her with me."

He was relieved when everything was settled.

looked at Zhao Qingluo, who was teasing the child in the room, and found that her expression was very relaxed now, but between her eyebrows, it still seemed that something was going to press her.

walked over and hugged her and the child into his arms, and said, "Don't worry, I've already settled everything, and when we go over tomorrow, tell him everything, don't hide anything." ”

Until he solved everything, to be honest, I was very grateful in my heart, and I also thanked him for being by his side when he was in the most difficult time and never giving up.

"Thank you for being willing to do so much for me, and I am willing to work with you to overcome this difficulty so that our children can grow up in a healthy and happy environment."

But after hearing her say this, he scratched her nose and said teasingly, "Don't think it's such a big problem, as long as it's adjusted by the psychiatrist, everything will pass, don't think about it, did you hear it?" Children are still growing up like us. ”

Zhao Qingluo smiled lightly after hearing this, and always understood that when he was by his side, he really didn't need to spend much time to have him.

When it was time to see a psychiatrist two days later, when the man accompanied Zhao Qingluo to find a psychological clinic and entered, he saw that he was a very young psychiatrist, and he was very skeptical at first.

"Can you solve the problem at such a young age? Now that we've found it, we have to get rid of the problem, you know? Standing in front of the psychiatrist, looking at his words condescendingly, his tone was flat, but the people who listened to it seemed to feel that the pressure was very high.

But in terms of psychology, he is definitely an authority, don't look at his young age, but he is very experienced and does not allow others to question his profession.

Nodding his head again and again, he said reassuringly, "Don't worry, a powerful person like you must be looking for an authoritative doctor, and he actually found me, do you still have to question my level." As he spoke, he took out all the instruments, wanting to test what kind of psychological problem Zhao Qingluo belonged to, so that he could prescribe the right medicine.

Zhao Qingluo sat down, and after a series of tests, the psychiatrist said. "The problem is not very big, as long as you cooperate well, I can definitely solve it, as long as you can adjust it yourself, everything is not a problem."

After Zhao Qingluo heard him say this, she breathed a sigh of relief, she was afraid of hearing a bad result, which would affect her mood.

Nodding, he was very cooperative with the doctor and said, "Since I have chosen to see a psychiatrist, I am ready to cooperate." ”

Seeing that she was so conscious, the doctor nodded and said, "Then let's talk about it, what kind of troubles do you have or what kind of worries do you have, now that there is no one else in this place, you can completely treat me as a confidant." ”

Zhao Qingluo was also very relaxed physically and mentally at this time, and regarded this place as a pleasant place to chat.

"It's just that I suspect that I have postpartum depression, and sometimes I can't lift everything and think about it too much."

After hearing her say this, the psychiatrist nodded and said very agreeably, "Many people like you who come here are in this situation, this is a common disease of postpartum mothers, but I can help you adjust it here, is there anything else?" ”

I always felt that he didn't look like a person with postpartum depression, as if more things were pressing on her and making her breathless.

I knew what the psychiatrist meant, so I slowly said, "I always feel that after I give birth, everyone's attention is on the child, and they won't notice my attitude, which makes me very irritable, and I know that this is very undesirable." ”

Saying that this is like he shouldn't fall into such an emotion, he lowered his head and looked annoyed.

The psychiatrist was also able to understand her when he saw him like this, why there was such an attitude, so he persuaded her to say, "Most parents must be like this, and they have not been exposed to cases such as postpartum depression, especially after the child is born, and the attention will definitely be on them." ”

And looking at the woman sitting opposite her with elegant movements, she is definitely a rich and noble person, not like she will be troubled by ordinary life.

Just as the two of them were talking, Yue Tingcheng, who was sitting on the side and didn't speak, spoke at this time, "May I ask how this family member should cooperate?" I want to make her feel a little happier. ”

Only then did the psychiatrist look at Yue Tingcheng, who was sitting on the side, who was very formal, and found that his identity was not ordinary, and he was very precious everywhere.

But he didn't think that if you were in good condition, I would have to say good things to you, and he also gave his advice truthfully.

"That's right, there are more or less things about her postpartum depression, but more often than not, her own pressure is too great to make her breathless."

As soon as Yue Tingcheng heard what the psychiatrist said, he hurriedly walked to Zhao Qingluo's side and put his hands on her shoulders to comfort her.

"Then what kind of methods do you say we should use to help her relieve it, I also know that she is stressed, about the children, about the studio, so I want to do my best to help her."

After hearing him say this, the psychiatrist nodded and understood very much, and his statement was a suggestion, "The only thing that can solve this problem now is that you and I cooperate together, and it is good to adjust her psychological problem, but the main thing is to cooperate with the family, do you understand what I mean?" ”

After Yue Tingcheng heard this, he nodded and said, "Don't worry, I understand what you said, so I'm looking for a way to help her now." ”

The psychiatrist looked at Zhao Qingluo's medical records again, and gave a very compromise solution and said, "The mood is very depressed now, and at this time, we need to take her out for a walk and see the beautiful scenery to distract her." ”

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