3. About parents
There isn't much to say about parents.
Like most children in the world, Jinling also has a father and a mother.
Jin Ling's father's surname is Jin, his name is Jin Yiming, he teaches at one of the most famous universities in the city, and has been an associate professor for 5 years, and is currently crossing the threshold of professorship, so he is very busy and does not care much about family affairs. Most of the things that Jin Ling told her mother were.
The 40-year-old father is thick and sturdy, and if it weren't for the very elaborate glasses on his face, he would look like a football player, not a scholar. Jin Ling's body shape was inherited from his father. Jin Ling sometimes looked at her chubby appearance in the mirror, and couldn't help but complain to her mother: "Why didn't you find a beautiful husband like 'Zorro' at that time?" Mom quipped, "Isn't that you?" Jin Ling's answer was very confident: "No, I will appear in another image." Jin Ling's mother didn't dare to tell her daughter any more. She sometimes feels that Jin Ling knows too many things and thinks too many questions, which is one of the reasons why Jin Ling can't concentrate on studying.
Jin Ling's mother's surname is Zhao, and her name is Huizi. For those who are not familiar with it, it is easy to hear it as "Huiko" and think it is like a Japanese name. In the past, Mr. Wang asked Jin Ling: "Does your mother have Japanese ancestry?" "Actually, my mother is tall and big, and she doesn't look like a Japanese woman at all.
Zhao Huizi works at a very profitable magazine in the city that mainly targets women, and is responsible for editing several literary pages. Many of her former college classmates are now writers, screenwriters, directors, journalists, and the like, so it is not difficult for her to make a manuscript, and she makes a few phone calls at home every month, arranges the manuscript after receiving it, and hands it over to the layout editor, and basically it is fine. The magazine implements a flexible work system, and it doesn't matter if you go to work or not, you said that you went out to compose a manuscript today, who can know if you really went out or the cat is doing housework at home?
Back then, Zhao Huizi was also ambitious when she was a student. The girls in the class once discussed the issue of "background color" for a long time: in a family, only by ensuring that there is a person who does business, such a family can be stable, and the so-called safflower must be supported by green leaves. So who is the wife or the husband? In other words, who retreats to the family, takes care of the housework, and manages the children, and who is dedicated to the career and the future, and who will win the Nobel Prize and become a minister and prime minister in the future? Zhao Huizi announced in front of her classmates: Find a husband who is willing to be the background!
As a result, she married Jin Yiming. In more than ten years of married life, she has served Jin Yiming as a background.
Zhao Huizi didn't complain, life is like this, she has the intention to plant flowers and flowers, and she has no intention of planting willows and willows. You can't predict what will happen in a decade or two, you can only go step by step.
In good conscience, Jin Yiming is not a father who does not work hard, but he is too serious and devoted to everything, and often makes a mess of things in turn.
Let's give an example.
Jin Ling ate milk powder when she was a child. Once the milk powder at home ran out, Zhao Huizi couldn't get out of her body, so she asked Jin Yiming to go to the street to buy it. Jin Yiming is also willing to obey his fate. After going for 3 hours, Jin Ling was so hungry and crying at home, but she couldn't see Jin Yiming's shadow. It turned out that he went to more than a dozen stores, carefully compared dozens of Chinese and foreign milk powder packaging bags listed on the ingredient formula, felt that this brand has the advantages of this brand, that brand has the advantages of that brand, weighed and weighed, how to decide, finally decided to report to Mrs. He ran home empty-handed, so angry that Zhao Huizi rolled his eyes and couldn't say a word.
When Jin Ling was almost 1 year old, it was the height of summer. At noon one day, Zhao Huizi wanted to go to the editorial office to deliver the manuscript and ordered Jin Yiming to take the child to take a nap. Jin Yiming is also meticulous in completing this task. His daughter was asleep, and he himself was asleep with his daughter in his arms, until he slept in the dark. Zhao Huizi rushed home after sending the manuscript to take a look, and almost laughed so much that she couldn't breathe: Jin Ling had soaked the shorts of the father and daughter wet with a soak of urine, but the two of them were snoring from head to head.
Another time, when Jin Ling was a little older, she clamored to go to the zoo to see the sika deer, and her father volunteered to take her there. The weather was not very good that day, and as soon as I arrived at the zoo, it started to blow very windy. It stands to reason that in such weather, you should go back quickly if you take your children to see the sika deer, but Jin Yiming thinks that since he came, he should carefully read all the animals. After watching it for two hours, Jin Ling froze so much that his mouth was blue, and when he came home, he had a high fever and had a pneumonia.
Since then, Zhao Huizi has been completely dead to Jin Yiming's housework ability, and she no longer expects him to help hold up half the sky. It's one thing to want to do it but not have enough ability, and it's another thing to have the ability but don't want to do it, there is an essential difference between the two, so Zhao Huizi has no complaints about Jin Yiming.
Regarding their family's economic income, the situation is like this: Zhao Huizi's magazine has good benefits, in addition to paying wages on time every month, it can also pay some bonuses more or less, and it is paid in kind during the New Year's holidays, which is passable. Jin Yiming's salary is slightly higher than Zhao Huizi's, but there are basically no bonuses and in-kind bonuses. In the past, when Jin Yiming was a graduate student, his family's financial situation was very tight, but in recent years, Jin Yiming has taken graduate students in turn, and the situation has improved greatly, because some of the projects they study can be linked to practical applications, so that teachers can get commissions. Although a sum of money is mentioned in the department, it has to be handed over layer by layer, and all aspects of the second-line employees have to be taken care of, and there are few in Jin Yiming's hands, but it is better than nothing. Then there is Jin Yiming, who publishes papers from time to time. In the early days, he had to pay for the publication of scientific papers, and later Jin Yiming applied for scientific research funds, and the sponsorship fee for publishing papers could be withdrawn from scientific research funds. Jin Yiming can often hand over one or two green remittance slips to Zhao Huizi, and the family is happy.
Generally speaking, the economic situation of this family is more than enough than the top, which is similar to Jinling's learning situation in school.