Chapter 585: Critical Education
Zhao Qingluo paused, looked at her mother-in-law who was standing opposite her without saying a word, and felt that what she said today was a bit excessive. But these words have been held in her heart for a long time, and she feels that if she doesn't say these words today, she will not have the opportunity to say these words in the future. After all, the longer she spent with the woman in front of her, the more she felt that she couldn't open her mouth.
If the time is not ripe enough, there are some things that can be said and some things that cannot be said, and she is also very clear. But today, because of the child's crying, this woman has spoken to this point, and she feels that if she doesn't fight back, she is afraid that she will be bullied to death by this woman in this family in the future.
"And you said that I paint my eyebrows and phoenixes at home every day, just to go out and seduce other men. Then I want to ask you why at your current age, you are still dressed up so carefully at home every day, and you can't wait to walk out of Fashion Week, you yourself are such a beautiful person, but you are now talking about me. With only a light makeup, you slander me like this, have you ever thought about how uncomfortable your son would be if he heard this? ”
Zhao Qingluo said completely ignoring the grandmother who was pulling him behind her, and decided that she must say all these words today, otherwise there will always be something choked between their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which is not good for everyone in the family, everyone is suspicious of each other, slanders each other, and even fortifies each other, after stepping down, then it can only dilute the relationship between her and Yue Tingcheng, after all, letting a man choose between his wife and mother is simply a more uncomfortable choice for him than death.
And if he comes home after a busy day of overtime, he finds his woman arguing with his mother. What would he think when he saw it? He only feels that he is a failure, and he can't even adjust the relationship between his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in his own family. So today, no matter what, Zhao Qingluo decided to solve this matter completely.
"Mom, let's compare our hearts to hearts. When you wanted me to marry into the Yue family like this, did you also feel like this now? Do you have to do everything you thought you had been through to do it all over again? Do you think that I deserve these treatments when I marry into the Yue family? At that time, you only married into the Yue family. The more Cheng also told me, I didn't mean to look down on you on the four, but do you think you are really doing this like today? The two children just cried for a while. What's wrong with crying for a while? Whose children don't cry? Could it be that they are crying? I had to pounce on them a little bit, coax them, and then wait until they stopped crying, and then I went about my own business. How old can I coax them. They are now one and a half years old, and they already understand everything, and they are not the babies who don't understand anything anymore, right? If you feel it until now. I must stay at home and take care of these two children, so I'm sorry to move out now. ”
"Qin Luo, your mother-in-law didn't mean that, how can you talk to your mother-in-law!" The grandmother who had been standing behind Zhao Qingluo had been secretly pulling the corners of her clothes when she listened to Zhao Qingluo's words, but it had little effect. This child was grown up by her, and she clearly knew the temperament of this child. But after that stubbornness came up, even nine cows couldn't pull it back. Although she did do something wrong today, she didn't let the two children stop crying in time. But this mother-in-law's words are too ugly.
How can anyone say that their daughter-in-law is not clean outside?
"Grandma, don't worry about this matter, my mother just doesn't like me, she thinks I should stay at home, she thinks I put on makeup and goes out to embarrass his son, she thinks I should be disgraced, I don't comb my hair every day, I don't change my clothes, I don't wash the bath, and then I cook honestly at home, clean up the room, clean the house, and take care of his two grandchildren to grow up. I just want to ask why? Can't the Yue family afford to hire a nanny? Although you treat me like this, I haven't told Yue Tingcheng that the two of us are going to move out since I came to this house, and we both know that one day you will be able to look at me squarely. But now it seems that this is a difficult matter. ”
Zhao Qingluo wiped the tears from her face as she spoke, she has never been so wronged as she is today since she was a child, she has been bullied by others, slandered by others, ridiculed with cold eyes, and maliciously harmed. She has experienced all of this, but she never imagined that one day she would not get a recognition from her mother, the person she loves the most.
She originally thought that she and Yue Tingcheng lived by themselves, so she didn't have to think about what others were like. Yue heard Chengtong say the same thing at the beginning, and he didn't have to think about what his mother thought? But from morning till night, she was under the same roof as such a woman. Listening to this woman's comments on herself, how could she not care?
Could it be that she is the little stone left by Sun Wukong? Won't her heart hurt? Is it so difficult for a fatherless child to get a little maternal love from her husband's mother?
Zhao Qingluo wiped the tears from her face, turned around and returned to the study, and began to work on the design drawings that she had not finished just now because she was a little emotional.
She now wants to give up this mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship for him, even if she is desperately trying to maintain it, this woman does not approve of her words in her heart, and everything is in vain. Well, she doesn't have to care about this woman anymore.
She really might as well put all her energy on these design drafts, and save herself from worrying about such people.
But it's still the same as just now, after a quarrel, she didn't have any better work efficiency, the computer was just on, and the design drawings still didn't move, and then she thought that she might as well go back to the studio early after dinner, and discuss the things that the design decided with those few forgetful guys.
But just as she was changing her clothes and preparing to go out, her grandmother suddenly dragged him to her room from the side.
"What's wrong with Grandma? I'm going to work, I'm going to work. Zhao Qingluo said that she put her grandmother's broken hair behind her ears, looking at him with an angry look, thinking that she was also angry because of what happened just now.
"What's wrong? You're embarrassed to ask me what's wrong, I'm really going to make you angry, do you know? How can you talk to your mother-in-law like that? Do you know that you talk like that, if it were in our time, you would be poked in the back by those who don't know things! No matter how wrong she is, it's your husband's mother, if he goes back and tells your husband about today's events, what do you say you should do? You go and tell Xiao Yue that she made the first move. Do you think he will believe it? ”
Zhao Qingluo helped her grandmother sit on the rocking chair, and sighed happily, she also realized that what she did today was indeed a little ill-considered. But she thought about the grievances she had received since she got married, and she couldn't suppress the fire in her heart, and in that situation, if she didn't vent it again, she felt that she would definitely drive herself crazy.
"Grandma, I know that today's incident is my fault, but it's too ugly to speak, you also know my temper, if I still endure it, I'm afraid I won't be me, I haven't been listening to you all the time, and I haven't quarreled with her. I don't know what she said today, but you heard it. Zhao Qingluo squatted in front of her grandmother and looked at her with a look of hatred for iron and steel, her mouth pursed, and her face was full of grievances.
"Grandma knows that you are wronged, but you can't quarrel with her. Even if she doesn't do it again, you can't quarrel with her, right? The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a long-term goal, and the relationship between your grandmother and my grandmother and your grandmother in the same year is not very good, although your grandfather adjusted it at the time, but after all, he can't say a good thing between the two of us, and after the last few days pass a little bit and get longer and longer, she also thinks that my daughter-in-law is very good. At least it's much better than the unreliable. You have to change her opinion of you with a given action. She doesn't want you to go out to work, that's what she's thinking, and he doesn't have your legs tied and doesn't know you to go. You come back early, don't work too late every day, and come back to accompany you two little more. Look at the time before you, you worked overtime faster than Xiaoyue. You can't blame your mother-in-law for being suspicious, after all, how she achieved this position back then, she knows it in her own heart. She was just worried that his son would follow her husband's old path. ”
After the old lady finished speaking, the hatred on her face became even more serious. She really doesn't know how she taught a granddaughter who is so inflexible and straightforward, and her temperament is not like this!
"He doesn't want you to wear pants that are too short, so you don't wear them. Where does this extra energy heat go? Besides, your company is air-conditioned, lukewarm, you have to dress so cool, and dangling in front of such a conservative old lady, do you think she can not be angry? How can I be nice to you? ”
Zhao Qingluo thought that her grandmother would scold her when she called her over, but she never thought that her grandmother would say such a thing. It seems that her grandmother seems to be much more enlightened than her mother-in-law.
This may be the difference between the mother's family and the mother-in-law's family.