Ruqing smiled faintly, "Today, the palace sent someone to the palace, this Bi Tao was ordered by Bang Xue to let me go to the front hall to entertain guests, brother, do you think my sister should go to the front yard to greet people?" ”

Zhiyi frowned, "Why don't you go out and see it?" ”

Ruqing was stunned for a moment, but she thought that Tunyi had stayed at the border for eight years, and she had already forgotten the rules and etiquette in her hometown, so she was not angry, but explained: "Grandmother has taught her sister since she was a child, and a girl who has not been out of the cabinet is not allowed to consult with men outside the house." What's more, no one who knows a little bit about the rules will let me go out to meet a foreign man as a girl who has not been out of the cabinet. Do you know what I mean, brother? ”

Zhiyi was silent, "It seems that my sister has a point." After a pause, he frowned again, "But this is Shanxi, and the set of rules and etiquette in Beijing is much looser here, and my sister doesn't need to abide by the old rules anymore." ”

Ruqing smiled and said, "This is what King Jing told you, right?" ”

This time it was Zhiyi's turn to be stunned, he touched his nose, and his face was unnatural.

Ruqing snorted lightly, now she finally understands why Li Xiao always disdains her for no reason, and looks down on her, she originally thinks that she is a tacit observance, just a puppet puppet who guards everyone's beauty and is bound by etiquette and religion, just like the daughters of all families in his eyes, although it is everyone's ladies and style, it is also boring, and it is even a humanoid puppet educated under secular etiquette. It's no wonder that he doesn't like the girls of all families.

Ruqing thought about it, it is estimated that Zhiyi, a stupid wood, has also been brainwashed by Li Xiao, so she also feels that it is really unnecessary for her to abide by the rules of etiquette, and she is even rigid and inflexible. So, she cleared her throat and said slowly: "Brother thinks I really like the set of ladies and etiquette under the constraints of the world? ”

Zhiyi looked at the disdainful smile on Ruqing's lips, and the grievance that had never appeared on his face, he was surprised and a little uneasy, he coughed: "I know your temperament, since you don't like it, why are you still stubbornly guarding?" Why not let go and do whatever you want? ”

Ruqing sneered. "Let go? How does my brother want me to let go? Like you men, the lights are bright and green, singing day and night? Invite friends to drink and feast today, go to the restaurant tomorrow to drink three glasses, and by the way, summon a few more servants to listen to small songs, and even prostitutes? ”

Zhiyi's face was so pale, he couldn't help but say with a straight face: "Sister, this is serious." I mean, you don't have to tie your hands and feet anymore, you can go out and walk around properly, and it's good to relax. There is no need to stick to the training of the boudoir anymore and suffocate yourself for life. ”

Ruqing sat down quietly, not looking at Zhiyi, just looking at the cold wind whistling outside the window, and her tone was flat, "What my brother said is right, in fact, my sister really doesn't need to be so stubborn to follow the rules." However, has my brother thought about it? Since ancient times, the words of the parents of the matchmaker's life. If the elder brother wants to ask someone to be a matchmaker, the matchmaker comes back and tells the elder brother that one girl is knowledgeable and respectful, and the other girl is informal and often meets foreign men, which girl will the elder choose as his wife? ”

Zhili was asked, speechless for a while, and his eyes were gradually replaced by a touch of deep thought.

Ruqing smiled softly, and said: "If this girl is favored by the man's parents, but the other party inquires around and finds that this girl often goes out to play and often gets along with foreign men, then, my brother thinks that this girl is still likely to be looked down upon?" ”

"----" Zhiyi was asked again, and his eyes gradually became ashamed.

Ruqing sneered again: "What's so good about everyone's girlfriends?" The door does not go out, the second door does not step, all day long in the house embroidery to make female red, since childhood was taught De Rong Industrial and Commercial Bank, in addition to cautious words and deeds at home from the father, marry from the husband, the husband dies from the son, if there is a out of line, it is not virtuous. The ladies under the guidance of the female precept book, to be honest, are indeed undoubtedly with the wooden puppet. I don't like any of the outstanding ladies in Beijing who are widely praised by the elders. But so what? It is these rules and regulations that determine a woman's reputation that determines her reputation. If you don't respect it, you are not virtuous, and if you don't have a relationship with the lady, you will be rubbed on your back. Those men who look down on everyone's ladies all day long, why should I look down on them? One by one, their horizons are higher than anyone else's, and they say that they don't look down on these cautious ladies in their words and deeds, but why don't they dare to rebel against their elders and marry a wife who is not everyone's ladies and lives as they please? Hmph, these people say it nicely, but in fact, in the end, the wives they marry can't be more regular. ”

Zhiyi was said to bow his head, and he didn't dare to refute a word.

Ruqing said a lot in one breath, and suddenly felt so tired, and smiled bitterly: "Brother thinks that my sister is guarding the etiquette of the lady, so it's not necessary at all?" ”

"Okay, sister, it's my brother's fault. Don't be angry...... Zhiyi couldn't see Ruqing's sadness, endured the discomfort all over his body, and hurriedly accompanied him.

As if she hadn't heard, Ruqing continued, "I really hate these stinky rules that bind people. I can't wait to burn the book of the female ring. But I didn't dare, and despite my reluctance, I had to learn. I told myself that I learned these things not for men, let alone for my future husband, but for the in-laws who would decide my future fate. Brother, do you know that if a woman has a bad reputation in the boudoir and marries into her in-law's family, will she not be looked down upon? Brother does I know that the mother and son of the Jiang family have put me together, how much hatred do I have in my heart? Outsiders say that I am really unlucky, full of sympathy, but behind the scenes, I don't know how many times they have laughed at me, they think that if I don't meet Jiang Yunran in private, there will be nothing. If you really want to count it, it's not because of my indiscretion. The housekeeper of that generation of the palace, no matter how the prime minister's door is a seven-rank official, but I, a girl raised in the boudoir, why should I go to the front yard to see him? I did go, and I don't know what will come out again. If you don't go, I'm afraid that at this time, it will be said to be a shelf again. Oh, although the girl is restrained everywhere in the capital, she is not as human as she is today. In the end, Ruqing couldn't cry anymore, and was put on the spot by the Yun family, she was bitter and couldn't speak, she hated so much that she dripped, but she had nowhere to redress her grievances. And today, she was actually stumped by a subordinate, but she will not be like before, knocking out her teeth and swallowing blood.

Zhiyi clenched his fists, stopped talking, fought between heaven and man in his heart, and finally took two steps forward, took Ruqing in his arms, and said in a deep voice: "Sister, don't say it." It's my brother's fault, and it's your brother's fault. My sister did the right thing. That damn Bi Tao, how dare she destroy you like this. "Zhiyi is murderous, and I can't wait to eat the peach that provokes trouble for no reason.

Ruqing sneered: "Brother thinks that a third-class girl can enter and leave her brother's outer study at will?" ”

Zhiyi's eyes immediately narrowed, he is not an ignorant person, he has lived in the Fang Mansion where Xiao Li and Aunt Zhang fought since he was a child, and he has already had a deep understanding of the competition between women, hearing Ruqing say this, he immediately thought of something, his eyes narrowed, and he said coldly: "Bang Xue?" It's so daring. At first, he was angry because of Li Xiao's presence, and because of Li Xiao's words, he didn't think deeply, until now he suddenly understood that this Bi Tao was specially waiting for Bang Xue's side, and it was impossible for ordinary people to enter his outer study except for his right-hand men.

Ruqing said again: "Before, the subordinates in the house of my wife and the third sister looked down on me as a concubine. But I didn't expect that in my brother's place, even my brother's roommate disliked me so much. That night, I said in front of my brother that I was a concubine, and I thought that she was from my brother's house after all, so I put up with it. Unexpectedly, today, I actually summoned the two ladies of Lucha in a big way, for fear that others would not know that I was a concubine. What's even more hateful is ......" Ruqing's face showed grievances, "The dishes made by the cook are not appetizing, so I thought about splitting a small kitchen in Linlang Garden, so I don't have to trouble the kitchen anymore." But Cheng's mother actually said that it would only be done if Rin had to get Bang Xue's consent. There were guests in the house, and Bang Xue actually asked me to go to the front yard to entertain guests, and asked the girl to tell me that Mrs. Xue was entertaining guests in the front yard, so I had better go to the front yard to entertain guests. Ruqing said the last few words very seriously, looked at Zhiyi's Tie Qing's expression, and a wry smile appeared, "I also blame my impulsive temperament, and I can't bear it, so I ordered someone to reward Bi Tao with a few mouths." This is really too deceitful. ”

Zhiyi was so angry that he was so angry that he almost smoked above his head, and his fists clenched and gurgling, "This damn slut, dare to be so arrogant, sister Mo is angry, for my brother, I will go and tie her up and let you fall." ”

Ruqing was happy in her heart, but hurriedly stopped him, "Brother, my sister knows that you feel sorry for me, and you are the master of my heart wholeheartedly." However, my sister has only been here for less than two days, and my brother is about to shout and kill the people around him, what will others think? It's not that the girl is arrogant and rude, and she is mean. ”

Zhiyi froze, lowered his head and thought about it carefully, and felt that Ruqing was indeed right, so he frowned, "What about my sister's opinion?" ”

Ruqing sighed lightly, turned around, walked a few steps, sat on the pineapple wood hooded chair, sighed and said, "Before I set off to Datong, my grandmother handed me the deed of sale of Chaoyun and Bangxue. Her old man told me that these two have waited for their brother for many years, and they have no merit and hard work, and if they are in peace, let the sister give her brother a reminder, and if the brother likes it, she will give them a name and raise them to be the aunts of the eight masters. If the elder brother doesn't like it, he will give enough silver taels, return the deed of sale, and let them not match people. If you are restless, you will find a mistake and sell it far away. Brother, grandma has lived in the inner house for most of her life, and she has a deep understanding of the ability of the concubine to flutter in the inner house, and she is also afraid that these two people will cause a big mess if they leave the control of the elders. It's good now, it's only been less than two days since I've been here, and I've made such a big mess. Outsiders know that I am a concubine, and the subordinates in the house also know that I am a fancy man who has no identity but still has a shelf and is pampered, and now, he also let Li Xiao know that the girl of the Fang family who is married to his cousin is actually a mean and vicious woman. Oh, heh, heh, the so-called family ugliness should not be publicized, this is good to save the snow, and now the reputation of the sister's mean and arrogant is probably spread far away. ”

Under the surprised and admiring eyes of Agarwood Linglong and others, Ruqing secretly lowered her head, feeling a little proud, don't worship me too much, it's not easy to beg for food by Li's side. The mother-in-law and girls around Li's side, all of them have their eyes on the top of their heads, and they often sulk with her, if she endures them all, won't she bear to be internally injured? So, at this time, a complaint is necessary.

However, Rumei also often likes to sue, but unfortunately it is rarely taken seriously, let alone redress grievances. The reason that she did not have the art of sueping.

Again, she herself is not very good at character, so it's no wonder that she won't be accepted.

But Ruqing is different, Mama Hua once taught her that women suffer losses, don't bear it, the more you forbear, the more people will gain an inch. Therefore, I am more aggrieved first, please the most important people, be well-behaved and cautious in ordinary times, give people the image of being well-behaved and sensible, and if my character improves, the probability of accepting the complaint is much greater.

If the complaint is artistic, it will get twice the result with half the effort.

And this art can involve all aspects. First of all, the person who defends his or her grievances must be truly capable of making decisions and be fair and authoritative. Second, there must be real evidence. Again, it's a good student to embellish the complaint rhetoric. You have to play to your strengths and avoid your weaknesses, and hit the core.

The two generals, who also lost the battle, repaired the book and the court respectively, saying that they had been defeated repeatedly, asked for support, and were beheaded by the angry emperor on the grounds of "uselessness". Another general wrote that he had been defeated and fought repeatedly, and after reading it, the emperor praised him and said that his courage was commendable.

The same words, but in a different order, play the role of life and death. Ruqing is deeply impressed by China's 5,000-year-old writing art. Therefore, this time the complaint has also put a lot of effort.

She brought outsiders (Lucha's two wives) and Li Xiao in, according to normal people's thinking, no matter what kind of people with five poisons in the family, for the sake of the family façade, they will not publicize it, but hide it as much as possible. This is the opposite of the snow. Ruqing and Xiangjia have made a family affair, if Li Xiao knows Ruqing's true face, won't he go back and publicize it, and when the time comes, it will be more serious, and Xiangjia's marriage to Ruqing will collapse...... Bang Xue's style is indeed harboring evil intentions.

Sure enough, Zhiyi's face turned blue.

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