In later generations, women with a little insight understood that men were reliable, and sows could climb trees. A woman can only rely on herself and improve herself to have everything she wants.

Many women have lost themselves in the face of so-called love and become vassals of men. They used to be beautiful and talented, but as they became housewives, they slowly became ordinary in the crying of firewood, rice, oil, salt, and children, and the men who had made a vow to them to be inseparable from each other changed their minds, and the reasons were even more sufficient, and their wretched wives were not worthy of them.

It's not that they forget that behind every successful man there is a woman who pays silently, or that they don't understand their success, it's because their wives have relieved them of worries.

Rather, men are fickle.

Liking the new and hating the old is a common problem for men.

Xia Shu has never experienced marriage, but there are many such women around her.

They paid silently, watching their husbands become famous, and they themselves became yellow-faced women, and then they were ruthlessly abandoned by their husbands.

There are many such tragedies.

There are also a few women who can rely on their perseverance to get out of the predicament and live a more wonderful life. But more women are ending in tragedy.

Women, be self-reliant.

Love is beautiful, but no matter what the circumstances, a woman can't lose herself for a man.

When a man says that he raises you, you must be as beautiful as a flower.

And when you get old, nine out of ten men will ruthlessly find a new love, and the remaining one will just be unproductive.

Of course, most men in this world are unproductive.

They want to find a young and beautiful new love, but they don't have the ability, but life has long lost its original beauty, only quarrels and silence on the other side.

In the time and space of this Great Qin Dynasty, there are relatively few divorces, that is, divorces. Because successful men can take concubines as much as they want. And the original wife had to put on a virtuous appearance and take the initiative to take the initiative to take care of her negative Hanna concubine.

Why is this happening?

In the final analysis, it is because women are dependent on men.

If it is a woman here, everyone can have their own job and career, and when a man wants to take a concubine for pleasure, he directly kicks him and gives him the opportunity to pursue a second spring.

Xia Shu's words, Mo Qin didn't understand very much, but he could also understand the meaning of that.

"Sister Xia, do you mean that even if you marry my eldest brother, you will still do what you want to do. Like opening a food hall with me? ”

"That's right!"

Xia Shu nodded.

Of course, she doesn't just open a food restaurant, she has a lot to do.

She comes, she sees, she conquers!

"Not just to open a food restaurant, I also farm, you know, I love that!"

"Watching the seedlings break through the soil little by little, watching the crops grow day by day, watching the harvest, the joy is really fascinating!"

Mo Qin looked at Xia Shu blankly, she didn't feel the beauty of farming described in Xia Shu's words at all.

In Mo Qin's view, isn't farming a very hard thing? Among them, is there really so good?

"You haven't farmed, you don't understand the beauty of this. Forget it, I won't tell you! ”

Xia Shu glanced at Mo Qin, who was in a daze, and stopped talking.

In fact, she has never experienced these things and these beautiful emotions that she said. It's just that in order to allow herself to continue farming, she is really hard.

Such a painful thing as farming was so affectionate and poetic as she said.

"Sister Xia, why do I think you seem to be lying to me!"

Mo Qin looked at Xia Shu intently, and always felt that the situation described by Xia Shu did not seem to be the truth at all.

"That's why I said, you don't understand!"

"There's a lot of things that you can never have fun if you just watch them and don't get involved. Even if you force yourself to do these things for the sake of this kind of fun, when you don't understand the essence of it, you will still be bothered by superficial hardships. ”

Xia Shu smiled slightly, and simply blocked Mo Qin's thoughts that he wanted to get involved in.

"Still, you're young, and you'll always find something you like. Then you'll get the joy you've never experienced before! ”

"Sister-in-law, according to what you said, those farmers should be very happy. But why don't I see even a little bit of the beauty in them that you say? ”

Mo Qin is not stupid, he is not so easy to fool.

Xia Shu smiled faintly and said, "If you have to give more than half of your year's harvest to others, will you still feel good?" ”

"No!"

Mo Qin gave an answer without thinking.

If someone dares to rob her of her income, she will definitely fight with the other party. Besides, with the eldest brother as a backer here, who would dare to rob her of her income? Is it really a merchant's son to be an ornament?

"That's it!"

Xia Shu shrugged his shoulders slightly, and said softly, "Most of the farmers are tenants, they are cultivating other people's fields, and they have to pay half of the rent of the fields alone, and they have to bear all kinds of taxes and servitude at this time. ”

"Even if it's a pleasure in suffering, there must be a reason to be happy!"

Life is not easy, a year of hard work, only one survival back.

Thinking about such a life, who can feel any joy from hard work?

Feelings or something, when trying to fill their stomachs and struggling, who is still in the mood to take care of it?

"Qin'er, you know too little about this world. When you can understand my experience, then you will probably understand why I think the way I do. ”

Xia Shu's words were full of philosophy.

Mo Qin didn't understand, but she knew a little about Xia Shu's life and knew how Xia Shu used to live. Of course, what Mo Qin knows is only the life of his predecessor.

The predecessor was tortured in the Qi family, and finally returned to the underworld with a wisp of fragrant soul, which led to the arrival of Xia Shu.

Xia Shu was a bastard in his previous life, he became the king of the game, but he became the bronze of life.

Thankfully, God gave her another chance.

"Sister Xia, I probably understand!"

Mo Qin didn't understand.

However, this did not prevent her from making up the answer in her own brain.

In life, many times, it becomes wonderful in the brain.

"It doesn't matter if you don't understand, it's all because you're still young, and when you're older, you'll always understand."

Xia Shu said it very lightly, anyway, it was just a fool.

And, more importantly, Mo Qin doesn't understand this. If Mo Dong came here, it would be impossible for Xia Shu to convince him with this kind of words.