Chapter 4: The Happiness Rift
After going down to the basement, Feng Nan asked Li Feng angrily: "You two are embarrassed, what kind of code words are you fighting?" ”
"What does it mean to be embarrassed? The wording is inaccurate, and at best, it is empathetic. Li Feng settled the two of them in the back of the car, and summarized it in very concise language: "Once Tianding is as deep as the sea, harmony is a passerby from now on." ”
After the car started, Li Feng told Feng Nan how he met Wang Kun and how he talked to Wang Kun, and Feng Nan finally got a rough idea:
After Li Feng and Li Xiaoman were "kicked out" of the ward, Li Xiaoman shouted to see the baby. Li Feng relied on his memory to find him to the newborn care room of the hospital. Wang Kun was just waiting for the child.
It turned out that Mother Lin knew that her daughter couldn't endure hardship, and she was reluctant to suffer from it. I contacted the best obstetric knife and anesthesiologist early, and planned to dissect the child on an auspicious day. But Lin Cen himself was not sure whether it was shun or section. After all, I have read a lot of parenting books, and I also know the benefits of natural childbirth for children. After Lin Cen was admitted to the ward yesterday, the family started a discussion on this issue, which was originally a discussion, but it ended up being a dispute:
Mother Lin blamed her daughter for not saying it sooner, and she owed a lot of favors to find someone in her relationship;
Father Lin blamed the young couple for not being hairless and not doing things firmly, and they had to discuss what a big deal was coming to an end;
Lin Cen was so angry that he stood down from the bed, ready to go out to blow the wind and breathe. As a result, the action was too big, and the amniotic water actually broke, and if you don't give birth, you have to give birth. Halfway through birth, the amniotic fluid value is too low, and it is pulled out for caesarean section at zero hour.
Tossed and turned, Lin Cen was exhausted, and finally finished giving birth, feeling that he could live in peace.
Father Lin was furious because his in-laws had not come until now, and Wang Kun, who was scolded, was disgraced. Cry to Lin Cen's grievances.
Feng Nan was stunned when he heard this, and said that Lin Cen had been wronged, and he would go to her after two days when she recovered to comfort her.
Lin Cen and Wang Kun are both graduate students at the best university in City A, and when the two fell in love, Feng Nan was already at work. Every day is either on a business trip, or on the way to a business trip, it has long passed the time when it acts as a shield for Lin Cen's love. With those ex-Lin boyfriends who were blinded by the light of her light bulb and had to use milk tea to dissuade her, Feng Nan's familiarity with Wang Kun was relatively low. But Wang Kun and Li Feng are still relatively close to each other, and the two of them can often chat together.
Father Lin was very dissatisfied when he first learned about this relationship, and he was furious and directly moved with Lin Cen. even ignored the fact that Lin Cen had a boyfriend, and introduced her to a group of heavyweight blind date male guests: such as the extracardiac doctor of the ** hospital, such as the secretary of the municipal party committee, such as the police officer of the criminal police brigade, etc., in an attempt to bring her back to the track set by Lin's father. Helplessly, Lin Cen was iron-hearted, and after Father Lin completely retired, these introductions stopped. In addition, her daughter's age has also come up, so she had to passively accept it.
Although Wang Kun worked hard, he stayed in school to teach and achieved the basic definition of social class. But when Father Lin proposed that the wedding house should be placed in a well-known high-end community in City A, Wang Kun still broke out in a cold sweat.
Back then, Wang Kun's parents were holding iron jobs in the system, but because they violated the family planning system, they restricted the development of their careers. After giving birth to Wang Kun, the queen mother Guo Lan retired and concentrated on raising her two children. It is also a hard life, the royal father earns wages alone, and the four of them eat, which is already tight. When Wang Kun was a teenager, his father fell ill and died. The burden of the whole family was on her mother alone, and Aunt Guo later relied on her old skills in the accounting industry to account for others, and she raised both children by herself. Thinking about those years is also a bitter tear. Fortunately, the children are still competitive, the eldest daughter Wang Lei is also a college teacher like Wang Kun, and now she teaches in a higher vocational college in Hangzhou, with a harmonious family, and gave birth to a boy, who is about the same age as Li Xiaoman.
Faced with this request of the Lin family, Aunt Guo loved her son and sold the old house in her hometown in the provincial capital, but it was only enough to pay the down payment for a repair. In the end, their marriage room, Lin Cen's parents came out with most of it, and Wang Kun's family status was settled from then on.
Once again, life perfectly confirms the famous saying in Capital: the economic base determines the superstructure.
Now I'm afraid Aunt Guo is on her way from Hangzhou. Feng Nan imagined the scene of Father Lin and Mother Lin fighting Ms. Guo Lan, and couldn't help but have a cold war.
After getting out of the car, Feng Nan's head seemed to turn a corner, and he suddenly said to Li Feng: "You just said that you empathize? ”
No matter how low Li Feng's emotional intelligence was, he sensed the murderous spirit, and replied with a desire to survive: "I am not good at language, so I use idioms indiscriminately." ”
Holding the child and running, Feng Nan followed behind and poked him in the back to remind him to be careful when he spoke.
When I got home, as soon as I entered the door, I could see a calligraphy work by Feng Nan's grandfather hanging on the porch - "Lisao" by Flyhead Xiaokai, in addition to this one, there are many pairs of calligraphy and painting works in the house, and many relatives from Feng Nan's parents' generation highlight the bookish atmosphere at home. At this time, Feng Mutong Yingjie was making lunch. The TV was on, and Feng's father, Feng Zhaohua, was sitting on the sofa watching news programs on both sides of the Taiwan Strait.
The Feng family's house in the city was moved back when Feng Nan was just in college. After more than 10 years of development, the surrounding facilities are mature, popular and convenient. It's just that it is not the core area of City A, although there are schools around, they are not famous schools. The public kindergarten is unreliable, Feng Nan stared at the bilingual private school in the neighborhood next door, which is said to be a good kindergarten.
After Li Feng entered the door, he greeted his parents-in-law, and the old couple responded politely. As soon as Li Xiaoman saw that the TV was on, he climbed on Feng Zhaohua and shouted: "I want to watch Xiong Da Xiong Er." ”
Father Feng hugged his baby grandson, and naturally began to adjust the stage, and said in his mouth: "Okay, let's find Xiong Daxiong Er for Xiaoman." ”
Li Feng stood next to the sofa and said, "Hey, Xiaoman, don't watch TV, come and play with Dad." ”
The child didn't seem to hear Li Feng's words, half lying on his grandfather, his eyes just staring at the TV, his eyes moving with the search arrow of Feng's father's remote control. After a while, the music of the cartoon sounded, and Li Xiaoman clapped his two little hands, giggling happily.
Feng Nan changed his clothes and joined the army of watching TV. As soon as she sat on the sofa, she heard Li Feng standing up and saying, "Children should watch less TV, it's not good for their eyes." ”
Feng Nan turned his head to figure out his expression, stuffed a biscuit into his mouth, and shouted at Li Xiaoman in a fake way: "Xiaoman can only watch for fifteen minutes!" Dad and mom supervised. ”
Twenty minutes later, Feng's mother announced that it was time for lunch. Li Xiaoman was reluctant to turn off the TV. So Feng's mother was about to come over with a rice bowl to feed Li Xiaoman. Feng Nan saw that the momentum was not good, his eyes were quick, and he quickly grabbed the remote control and turned off the TV. said to Li Xiaoman: "Xiaoman has to talk about it, it's overtime, hurry up and eat." ”
The child was quite well-behaved, did not say anything, and was very accustomed to climbing up to his dining chair and sitting down.
The meals prepared by his grandmother for him were really careful enough, the vegetables were chopped, the rice was the softest in the whole pot, Li Xiaoman loved meat, and his grandmother prepared two big meatballs.
A year ago, when Li Xiaoman was 2 years old, Feng Nan bought him this children's high chair that could be lifted. He said that he was going to start training his children to eat by himself. Now that a year has passed, Feng's mother is still used to feeding her children one bite at a time, saying that she is afraid that the food will be cold, and she can eat more when she comes to feed.
Li Feng has the biggest opinion on this, and argues with Feng's father: saying that the time period when the child is two years old is suitable for learning to eat by himself, and he is interested in doing it himself, and his younger brother's children have already started to eat by themselves.
Father Feng activated the debating skills he had cultivated in the special era, and said angrily: Do you still need to study when you eat? When he was one year old, you said that you wanted him to learn to walk, and he had to learn to walk? Now the merchants make you half-baked money! What to eat and learn by yourself, isn't it just to sell a broken bench to you? The money is spent unjustly, and the child cannot suffer with it. We bring, now it's feeding. You have the ability to take it yourself!
Feng Nan was a meat bun for half a month, and the good words on both sides eased up.
Now as soon as Feng Nan saw Tong Yingjie standing next to Li Xiaoman with a bowl, he felt like a man on his back. She whispered to Tong Yingjie: "Xiaoman eats by himself, eats by himself." ”
But Feng Mu didn't let go as if she had an order, and said, "He eats it himself!" While stuffing the food in his spoon firmly into Li Xiaoman's mouth.
Feng Nan could only give Li Feng a look, Li Feng received her signal, which was quite reliable, and he endured it without saying a word during the banquet.
If there is a happy weekend reunion, there is no moment that is the most unhappiness. Feng Nan must say: Only lunch and dinner, not looking at it directly.