Chapter 102: The Initiative of Love

In the early morning of the next day, Lin Yao woke up to the sound of stir-frying.

Not long after, she heard Ms. Wen calling out to her outside, "Yao, get up for breakfast." ”

Lin Yao hurriedly got up, "Get up!" ”

When she cleaned herself up and came to the restaurant, she found two bowls of hot porridge, a large chives egg cake, and two plates of vegetable stir-fry already on the table.

She couldn't help but sigh, "Wow~~~ It's so rich!" ”

The corners of Ms. Wen's mouth raised slightly, but what she said was, "What are you doing stupidly?" The dishes are almost cold, why don't you hurry up and eat? I've never seen anything as grinding as you! ”

Listening to this disgusted tone, it is definitely my own mother.

Lin Yao, as usual, came to the company early.

Unlike usual, the atmosphere in the office was a little weird this morning.

As for the reason, everyone knows it.

At this time, Lin Yun hadn't come yet, and Lin Yao's colleagues hadn't entered the working state.

Maybe it's because they're too idle, their eyes always sweep towards her, intentionally or unintentionally, as if they want to ask something, but they're too embarrassed to ask, they seem to want to laugh, but they're too embarrassed to laugh in front of her. In the end, they got together in twos and threes and whispered, which seemed to be a bit of a way to exclude Lin Yao from the small group.

Lin Yao was not surprised by this, she slapped Liang Chen in front of them yesterday evening, and she didn't know what bloody plot they had made up in their brains.

Lin Yao was indeed worried that Liang Chen's appearance would misunderstand her colleagues, but since everyone had misunderstood, she didn't care.

A few months ago, when she was still in Tianfeng Company, Qin Wenyuan split Zhou Meilin's leg more bloody than this dog, didn't she come over too?

Interpretation? She didn't bother to explain!

Anyway, she explained, people may not believe it, she doesn't explain, and people are just talking behind her back.

Therefore, they can say whatever they like, and they can think whatever they like!

Lin Yao knew at this time that it turned out that this kind of thing could also be born once and cooked twice.

The most important thing is that they are bored, but Lin Yao is not bored, and there are jobs waiting for her to deal with!

Lin Yao turned on the computer by herself, she checked her email first, and then sorted out today's work plan according to the customer's email, and then started the day's work in an orderly manner.

Lin Yao has been in Lingyun Industry for three months, and she has completely mastered the work matters. She knows which orders or samples need to be tracked, and which new inquiry orders need to be quoted, and she doesn't need to wait for Lin Yun to show them.

In the following time, Lin Yao kept her head buried in work, Jian Wen flipped through the files on the table, and several other salesmen pushed me, got together and whispered, talking and laughing.

When Lin Yun walked into the office, he saw such a picture.

As soon as they saw Lin Yun, the salesmen who were originally chatting hurriedly returned to their respective seats, making a busy pretense, and then, as if they had just seen her, greeted her with nonsense.

"Mr. Lin is early!"

"Good morning!"

……

Lin Yun tugged at the corners of his mouth and said expressionlessly, "Early." ”

Lingyun Industrial occupies the entire 26th floor, and after she got out of the elevator, she could see the office area when she turned a corner, and her ears were good, her eyesight was better, and she didn't miss any details.

No matter what Lin Yun thinks, it has nothing to do with Lin Yao, she has already devoted herself to work.

When the work at hand was over for the time being, she got up and went to the pantry to pour water, where she met Jian Wen.

Jian Wen just finished receiving the water, she held the mug and asked indifferently, "What happened to that man yesterday?" ”

Lin Yao didn't expect Jian Wen to ask her, and replied casually: "I went on a blind date a while ago, I didn't fall in love with the other party, but the other party fell in love with me, and then it was just like you can see." ”

Liang Chen's matter is very simple, he can be finished in one sentence.

Jian Wen laughed out loud, "You can make trouble like this, that man is really the best." ”

Lin Yao was a little relieved and a little remorseful, "Yes, I shouldn't have gone on a blind date!" ”

Jian Wen leaned against the door, smoothed her long hair with her fingers, and said very pertinently: "Blind dates are a very normal thing, but the people you meet are too abnormal." ”

Lin Yao thought about it, isn't it?

She thought about it repeatedly, and repeatedly confirmed that there was no misunderstanding in her words and deeds, but why did Liang Chen entangle her?

During this period of time, because of Liang Chen's entanglement, others have either ridiculed or scolded her, or simply watched a good show, and there is really no one like Jian Wen who thinks from her standpoint.

Lin Yao was a little moved, "Oh, you're so right!" ”

She couldn't help but stretch out her hand and clapped Jian Wen with a high-five, smiling knowingly.

Sometimes, friendship is as simple as that.

Lin Yao was not in a hurry to return to her seat for the time being, she took a sip of water and asked, "By the way, how did you and your boyfriend meet?" ”

Jian Wen chuckled, "How else can you meet, blind date." ”

Lin Yao was stunned, "Blind date? ”

She thinks it's normal for others to go on blind dates, but Jian Wen is different from others.

Lin Yao has always admired and even admired Jian Wen, not only because of her talent and beauty, but also because of her character. Jian Wen never takes the initiative to please anyone, and she never falls into the trap, in today's society, such a quality is too rare and precious!

Lin Yao really couldn't imagine that Jian Wen, the goddess of coldness, would also do such a LOW thing as a blind date.

Jian Wen glanced at her, and said lightly: "I'm a few years older than you, what's so strange about having a blind date?" ”

Lin Yao nodded, "That's the same." ”

Lin Yao is currently the youngest in the company and the least qualified.

Jian Wen raised her chin slightly, "I can tell you responsibly that I have been close many times, sometimes even several times a day. ”

Lin Yao was shocked, "Can it still be like this?" ”

Wait, people are still comfortable with several kisses a day, and she only met one in total and made a mess, is this because IQ is in arrears, or does EQ need to be recharged?

No, no, no, Jian Wen said that it was the other party's Tai Chi product, not her problem, so it was definitely not her problem!

Jian Wen smiled meaningfully, "Of course, if you don't compare, how do you know which is good for you and which is not good for you?" And how do you know which is true and which is false? ”

Lin Yao was eye-opening, and she gave Jian Wen a thumbs up, "You cow!" ”

Jian Wen has always been unconcerned about herself, but this time, she rarely has the interest in preaching.

"And I advise you, at the beginning of a relationship, never date only one man, find more than several. Because only then will it be possible for you to take the initiative into your own hands. When you feel like you can truly trust a man and are ready to give yourself to him, it's too late to turn down other men. ”

Jian Wen left after speaking, but Lin Yao stayed in the pantry for a long time.

Jian Wen's words were absolutely deafening to her!

First of all, as Jian Wen said, blind dates are very common, the key is how to go on a blind date and who to go on a blind date. She can't think that a blind date is unreliable just because she met an unreliable Liang Chen.

Secondly, there should be a comparison between the blind date, there is a comparison to distinguish, and there is a comparison to distinguish who is good and who is bad.

Finally, and what shocked her the most, was the "initiative" that Jian Wen said.

The so-called initiative is the power to act according to one's own intentions!

Lin Yao has never really had it in her life, but it is what she has been pursuing.

The initiative in love is something she didn't even dare to think about in the past.

Jian Wen's words, especially what she said about dating multiple objects at the same time, she didn't agree with it at first, isn't that just playing with other people's feelings?

But when I taste it carefully, I think it makes sense.

In the matter of feelings, the initiative is generally in the hands of men, and in the end it is to the point of breaking up, and there is always more resentment of the woman than of the husband, why?

This is because men are inherently more rational than women.

If a woman wants to take the initiative in love, she must maintain rational thinking.

How can you be rational in a relationship?

It's hard to say, but it's easy to say.

The essence of love is exclusivity, as Jian Wen said, dating multiple people of the opposite sex at the same time, and balancing these people well, that means that she must not love any of these people!

Because I don't love, I can remain rational.

Just like at the beginning, the forgetful dust of the Hangzhou Forum lost his mind and did a series of stupid things because he loved and he cared.

On the other hand, Xiao Gu Liang, she was able to seize the opportunity to bite Wangchen in the case of derailment, and brought him into the abyss of public opinion, precisely because she was rational enough, and because she didn't like Forget Dust, and she didn't care about Forget Dust!

If love is a game, then it must be a game where whoever is tempted first loses.

At first, the person who loved first did not have the initiative, and then the person who loved more deeply will gradually lose the initiative.

It's so realistic, realistic to the point of brutality!

Lin Yao was full of emotion.

However, what Jian Wen said didn't mean much to her.

Jian Wen is qualified to say this, and that is because she is attractive and she is sensible enough.

Lin Yao doesn't have that kind of qualification, after all, she can't even handle a man, so if she finds a few more, wouldn't she want to go to heaven?

No, no, this really doesn't work!

What if she could?

No, no, no, she can't hold it!

In any case, Jian Wen's earth-shattering "initiative" theory made Lin Yao entangled all day.