Yan Yan saw that Lu You was still confused after he finished speaking, thought about it, and changed his words.

"Husband, I am telling you this to tell you that everything is relative, it depends on whose position you stand on, just like your father, in your eyes, he is definitely not a competent and good father, but in Lu Ming's eyes, he is a genuine loving father, so you understand?"

Sure enough, this time Lu You nodded.

"Speaking of which, let me ask you again, if one day your future is contrary to the interests of the Lu family, how will you choose?" Yan Yan wanted to take this opportunity to brainwash the other party.

"I, I..." Lu You shook his head.

"Did you never think about it, or would you give up your future to fulfill the Lu family?" Yan Yan asked.

"Didn't think about it." This time, Lu You replied very happily.

"It's too late." Yan Yan chased after for an answer.

"I don't know." Lu You pondered for a moment and shook his head.

"In other words, it is very likely that you will give up your own interests for the benefit of the Lu family?" Yan Yan was a little disappointed.

But then again, the original owner of this body is actually such a person, otherwise he wouldn't have thought about seeking justice for himself after the accident, but ended his life with a white silk to maintain the reputation of the Yan family.

Therefore, don't look at the Lu family's bad treatment of Lu You, but when he is really faced with a choice, he is very likely to give up his ego to fulfill the Lu family's big self.

Seeing that Lu You lowered his head again, Yan Yan pondered for a moment and said: "Husband, Confucius also said a sentence, 'Repay grievances with virtue, how to repay virtue, report straight with straightness, repay virtue with virtue', you make a piece of this scripture tomorrow to show me." ”

Lu You raised his head and responded, "Okay." ”

"That's all for today." Yan Yan saw that the leak in the corner of the wall was about to point to the hour, so he stopped talking.

She also knows that transforming a person's mind is not something that can be done overnight.

Because it was getting late, Yan Yan didn't alarm the people on duty at night, and when she was about to go to fetch water by herself, Lu You held her down, "I'll go." ”

Yan Yan didn't like to move because of his aunt's visit, and when he heard this, he really sat still, and soon, Lu You mixed a basin of warm water from the stove in the clean room and brought it to Yan Yan, and Yan Yan didn't bother him anymore about the rest of the things.

After the two of them finished washing, after getting on the kang, for fear of side leakage, Yan Yan put a small cushion under him, I don't know if this small cushion made Lu You mistake or the hug in the afternoon gave him courage, so he took the initiative to take the pillow, and then looked at Yan Yan tentatively, but there was no further action.

Yan Yan was secretly amused, but he didn't poke him, and of course he didn't respond, but wrapped himself tightly.

Seeing this, Lu You had to rest his thoughts and lie down honestly.

For three days in a row, Yan Yan found an excuse of being "tired" and refused to go to the back garden to exercise, Lu You finally realized that something was wrong with Yan Yan, at first he thought that Yan Yan was sick, and then he saw that Yan Yan didn't look sick when he ate, so he thought Yan Yan was angry with him.

Therefore, on the fourth day, after picking up Yan Yan from the upper room and returning to Songshi Ju, he showed Yan Yan the scriptures about "repaying grievances with virtue and how to repay virtue", this time, his views have changed slightly, thinking that kindness is not endless tolerance, but when it comes to family ethics and filial piety, Lu You still adheres to the argument that "the son does not say that the father and the mother have passed" and "the parents who are all in the world".

"I don't agree with this, there is a sentence in "Zuo Chuan Yin Gong Three Years", "Junyi, ministers, father's kindness, filial piety, brotherly love, brother respect, the so-called six shun". Li Yun Zeng Yun: 'What is human righteousness? Father's kindness, son's filial piety, brother's goodness, younger brother's righteousness, husband's righteousness, women's listening, Changhui, Youshun, Junren, and loyalty. What should you interpret these two passages? Yan Yan refuted the other party's point of view and assigned him another homework.

Lu You lowered his head and muttered for a while when he heard this, about five or six minutes, before he raised his head and looked at Yan Yan, "I understand, it's just, it's just, it's just... ”

Lu You didn't say the next words.

"It's just that you haven't thought about it. This is a truth that I said a few days ago that the so-called likes and dislikes are different from person to person, likes and dislikes are relative, filial piety and the way of kings and ministers are also relative, the premise of filial piety is the father's kindness and brotherhood, the premise of the way of kings and ministers is Junren, the same reason, the way of getting along between husband and wife is not absolute, the husband is righteous, the woman listens, the husband is unjust, the wife should be good to persuade the husband, instead of blindly obeying, in the same way, we can also tactfully point out the wrong place between the parents, so as to avoid the parents from making mistakes, and... ”

Who knew that Yan Yan's words were not finished, only to see Qinghe open the curtain and come in, saying that Mama Wen beside the Zhu family had accompanied Mother Liu into the courtyard.

Yan Yan guessed Liu's mother's intention as soon as she heard it, but despite this, she still went out, and when Lu You heard that it was Yan Yan's mother's family who came, she panicked and came out.

"The slave has seen the young lady and the aunt." Mother Liu stepped forward and curtsied to Lu You and Yan Yan, and after getting up, she glanced at Lu You and Yan Yan, and saw that neither of them had moved, so she had to say respectfully: "Miss, Madam sent a slave maid to see Miss, and by the way, I took Miss back to give the third wife's family a meal." ”

"The third aunt said she was leaving? It's a snowy winter, so why don't you stay for the New Year? Yan Yan said.

She vaguely remembered that Chen Ying said that she seemed to have to wait until the beginning of spring next year to go back, and she went to Beijing this time, in addition to participating in Yan Yan's marriage ceremony, she also had a purpose, she wanted Yan Peng to find a way to transfer her husband back to the capital, because the children are getting older day by day, and it is time to say goodbye.

But all of a sudden, the other party said they wanted to go back, what happened?

Mother Liu saw Yan Yan staying as a guest, and a trace of embarrassment flashed on her face, but it was soon gone, "Back to the eldest lady, the affairs of the masters and slaves are not clear." ”

"Okay, I'll go back with my husband." Yan Yan said.

The other party found a good reason, and Yan Yan couldn't help but listen.

"Miss Hui, Mrs. means that her family has a small gathering, and several sons and masters are not at home." Mother Liu didn't say the extra words, but Yan Yan and Lu You understood the implication.

"It's fine." Yan Yan thought about it for a while and made a decision.

The main reason was that she was worried that Lu You would be treated coldly after he went back, which would hinder his character repair, so she had to order Qingmiao to sit with the two mothers first, and pull Lu You into the house by herself.

"Husband, I guess my aunt should have something else to do with me, I won't take you back today, don't worry, I will definitely come back before dark, don't think nonsense, do that scripture well, and I'll accompany you to see Mr. Ji in a few days."

"Okay." After Lu You finished speaking, he took Yan Yan's hand and confirmed, "I'll wait for you." ”

"Got it." After Yan Yan finished speaking, he called Qinghe to come in and dress her up, put on a new dress, and brought two boxes of Qingyu Qingyun's newly made pastries before going out.