Gao Jianjun was really happy, but at the same time he was sad for Lin Xiaoman, he held her hand and said over and over again: "Xiaoman, don't grieve yourself"

Lin Xiaoman said: "I am not wronged." In fact, she does not reject the adoption of a child, what she rejects is that her life is arranged by others.

Since it was decided, Lin Xiaoman said with great interest: "Let's go to the orphanage and see if there are suitable children."

Gao Jianjun was stunned for a moment, hesitated and said, "This matter, don't worry, let's go back and inquire about it." After thinking about it, I felt that it was good to say it thoroughly, so I said: "Xiaoman, my mother once said that if we don't have children, let us pass the second treasure."

Lin Xiaoman's eyes widened and asked, "You agreed?"

Gao Jianjun smiled and said: "I didn't promise and didn't say no, I said that it depends on the situation when the time comes, maybe we will have it."

Lin Xiaoman breathed a sigh of relief and said angrily: "I don't agree." Erbao has a father and a mother, what's the matter with holding it to our house? Let's hold an orphan. ”

She is not stupid, why should she raise a son for Gao Jianjian's family?

is like Niu Xiulan, she can't think that her money is all her son's, so it becomes hers.

Gao Jianjun hesitated and said: "Xiaoman, Erbao is his nephew after all, if he didn't have children in the past, he would have been a step-nephew or nephew."

Lin Xiaoman took two steps back, his face turned cold, "You also said that it was in the past." In the past, it was for the sake of succession, but now we need it? I want a child who can grow up with her, and she can also accompany the child in our lives, not a person who will carry on the family lineage. Do you understand? ”

Gao Jianjun was anxious when he saw her retreating, and hurriedly stepped forward to hold her hand: "I know, I know." But Erbao, that child."

"I don't agree, don't say it." Lin Xiaoman said coldly, "I've already taken a step back, if you want your mother to decide who to adopt, then you can just go with your mother!"

She shook off his hand and expressed deep disappointment at him once again.

I really don't know what he did when he was in the unit? Why can't you afford to let go of things at home?

She was very aggrieved in her heart, and the joy and understanding just now were also forgotten at this moment.

Phew, I understand you, who understands me?

She turned around and left, Gao Jianjun hurriedly chased after her, "Xiaoman, if you don't agree, forget it, I'll go tell my mother." So you say, how big are we going to hug? Newborn ones are definitely not good, will you take care of such a young child? I heard that we have to get up several times at night to feed, it's too hard, let's hold a child who is afraid of breastfeeding."

Lin Xiaoman felt that he was too good at grinding, so he ignored him and went his own way.

Mess with yourself, and then say a few good words and you're done?

His good mood has ruined him.

Gao Jianjun chattered about his expectations for the child next to him, until Lin Xiaoman stood up and looked at him helplessly: "I want a girl." I just want girls!"

Gao Jianjun nodded hurriedly: "Yes, yes, we just want a beautiful little girl, dress her up like a doll, you take her out, others will be envious when they see it, whose mother is so beautiful?"

A smile flashed on Lin Xiaoman's face and quickly disappeared, she said with a straight face: "You know what I think and still be old with me?"

"No, no." Gao Jianjun waved his hand again and again, and he couldn't admit anything, "I just thought, Erbao is my own nephew, but you're right, Erbao is a little old, and there are his parents, this relationship is not good." ”

Lin Xiaoman snorted and pouted: "So, if your mother mentions this matter again, you will directly refuse, don't come back and tell me, annoying!"

Gao Jianjun smiled bitterly.

Since beating him and being injured and his mother came, Lin Xiaoman only went back to live for three days during the Chinese New Year, and never went back, and her relationship with her mother has become rusty.

He didn't think it was Xiao Man's fault.

Whether he can have children or not is not Xiao Man's business alone, and although he longs to have his own children, he prefers to be with Xiao Man for the rest of his life, rather than using his wife as a tool for childbirth, and he disagrees with his mother's attitude.

But except for this stubbornness, the mother has no problem with the rest, and he can't yell at his mother or not get along with him because of this, so he can only try his best to circle between the two.

"Okay, well, I won't tell you this in the future." He saw that Xiaoman's attitude eased, and cheekily went up to pull her hand, Lin Xiaoman said angrily: "There are so many people on the avenue"

Gao Jianjun said confidently: "I took my daughter-in-law's hand, but I didn't pull others, who cares?"

When Gao Jianjun was in the provincial capital before, he went to an orphanage, he simply brought Lin Xiaoman to this house, and explained to her on the way: "In fact, most of the children here are quite good at seeing people's eyes because of the environment in which they grew up, and there are more big children here, I mean five or six years old, seven or eight years old, anyway, there are very few people in their lifetime."

Gao Jianjun and the dean met, and first talked about the conversation, and then put forward their intentions.

The dean looked at the two of them with some surprise, "There are more than a dozen children between the ages of one and three in our hospital, and eight of them have been abandoned because of various diseases. Only five are healthy, so I'll take you there!"

Only two of the five children were little girls, Lin Xiaoman pointed to the older one and asked, "What's the situation with this girl?"

The dean touched the child's head pityingly, "Her name is Yaya, it's her second birthday this year, she was sent to the hospital a few days after she was born, her mother gave birth to her and secretly threw her in the hospital and left, someone knew her mother, said that she was unmarried and pregnant, but she was dumped by the man." Her mother left the provincial capital after giving birth to her, and no one knows where she went? Alas, iniquity!"

Gao Jianjun asked, "Are you optimistic about this child?" Didn't you say you wanted a smaller one? ”

Two little girls, the other is only more than a lifetime, and they don't understand anything, although this one is also small, but they look at people with longing in their eyes

Lin Xiaoman didn't say it, she was moved by this desire and made her change her mind.

Gao Jianjun said: "Let's take a look again!"

The dean was obviously eager for them to adopt, and said a lot about how sensible and well-behaved the child was.

Lin Xiaoman thought that Gao's mother had always wanted to pass on Erbao, although Gao Jianjun said that he would refuse, but who knows if there will be another accident at that time?

"Just her!" She said to Gao Jianjun: "I like her very much, and I feel very cordial when I see her."

The dean hurriedly said: "She is fine, I heard that her parents are quite healthy, and she is not sick."

This child was sent from birth, and she has been in the hospital for more than a year, and everyone has taken care of her very affectionately, so she is willing to be adopted by a good family. And Gao Jianjun was known to her before, of course she knew that this was a kind-hearted person, and she could rest assured that the child could go to such a family.

Gao Jianjun saw that she was insistent, so he had to agree, "However, we have to go through the formalities, and we are in a hurry this time."

Lin Xiaoman said: "It's okay, I'll go back and go through the formalities and pick her up again."

She bought a lot of toys and books for the children in the orphanage, and donated 10,000 yuan. "Let's use this money for the children's treatment! I can't help them enough."

Some are born with disabilities, some are diseases, Lin Xiaoman feels sad and pitiful when she looks at these children, but she can't do anything but give some help from money.

took the child back, changed into a new dress from the inside out, and she took Yaya to Xiaomiao.

"She's very close to you, and she doesn't recognize her at all." Xiao Miao took a piece of candy for Yaya and talked to Lin Xiaoman with a big belly.

"I soaked in the orphanage for many days, and I got acquainted with her before I brought her back." Lin Xiaoman touched Yaya's head and said softly, "Do you want Yaya to eat?"

Yaya nodded shyly, and stuffed the candy cube into her mouth with her little hand, "Eat"

Lin Xiaoman smiled, "Do you want your mother to eat it?" ”

Yaya grinned and nodded again and again, Lin Xiaoman peeled off the candy paper, divided it into two halves with one bite, and stuffed half of it to Yaya, "Half of us." ”

Yaya ate with a smile, and Xiao Miao asked Tiegen to lead the child to the front to play, and whispered to Xiao Man.

"You want to open it?"

"Well," Lin Xiaoman said generously: "Actually, I thought about it a long time ago, if I really don't have a child of my own, it's not bad to have one." I just hate the tone of my mother-in-law's voice, like I can't be raw."

But after so many years, her heart is also dead.

Xiao Miao whispered: "You and your family have checked, and they say that there is nothing wrong, maybe you want one, and I can bring you a child!"

Lin Xiaoman laughed and said: "You are really" She thought for a while and smiled: "My mother-in-law also said this at the beginning, I don't like to hear it, if you want that, what should this child do?" I don't have the confidence that I can treat two children equally. ”

Xiao Miao said: "Why don't you treat everyone equally, just have a clear conscience."

Lin Xiaoman looked at her in surprise, she nodded, and said very happily: "I'm very good to that child, what one of the two children has, the other must have it." In terms of education, I should also say it, and there is no ambiguity. However, there are some things that can't be done, it's definitely not as good as your own child who has beaten and scolded him and you don't have a grudge, I should say it, criticize it when it should be criticized, but I definitely won't beat him and scold him. Tiegen is the same with my son. Actually, this is not right, he will have a comparison, but it is not biological, it is impossible to say that there is no mustard, for this matter, I talked to Tiegen, just have a clear conscience. ”

Lin Xiaoman nodded thoughtfully, yes, it's good to have a clear conscience.

"Xiao Miao, you know more than me." It's a shame that she was still a kindergarten teacher in her previous life, and she didn't know much about Xiao Miao, who hadn't been to school for a few years.

"I'm experienced." Xiao Miao's voice was low, "You see how good my relationship with my mother-in-law used to be, but when I said the child a few times, my mother-in-law was not happy, and since then I have been paying attention, I think I have to treat the two children the same, but I said it is serious, my mother-in-law will think, it is really not biological" She sighed, "So I will pay attention in the future." ”