Bai Xue went to the night shift, and Li Jia worked as a tour guide for Bai Yang, shuttling through the lively crowd to eat, drink and have fun.

Ammy worked with two sisters, and after a busy day, the studio was formed. When they got home, they hadn't eaten dinner at eleven o'clock in the evening, and the three of them were lying side by side on the floor of the living room.

Mo Xiyan closed his eyes and asked, "Zimo, can you still move?" ”

"What are you doing?" Xu Zimo turned over and looked at her weakly.

"Point, outside, sell!" Mo Xiyan said word by word.

Ammy struggled to crawl to the refrigerator, "Black tea, green tea, cola, and coconut water, what do you want?" ”

"Iced tea."

"Coke!"

The two of them seemed to take their last breath, waiting for Ammy to bring them the drink.

"Do you need me to feed you?"

Ammy knelt in the air raid between them, even after a long day, she was full of passion, smiling and touching the cold drink they wanted to their foreheads, "Did you start playing dead on the first day?" ”

"Sister, I'm going to run for three, can I compare with you two young people?" Mo Xiyan bounced up like a sit-up and snatched the iced tea from Ammy's hand.

Ammy smiled, "Ben San is almost thirty years old?" ”

"Dead girl! Shut up, play back, make trouble, don't joke about my sister's age! Mo Xiyan flicked Ammy's forehead lightly.

The hard floor was lying down with a soft feeling by Xu Zimo, and she asked with a smile, "What do you want to eat?" ”

"I'm obviously hungry but I just don't have much appetite, give me a bowl of porridge." Mo Xiyan glanced at Xu Zimo, and then took a big sip of iced tea, as if he had been resurrected with full blood, "Cool!" ”

"Maybe it's because it's too hot, it's good to drink porridge, but you have to keep your sexy body anyway. As for me, I'm going to eat and drink a lot! Xu Zimo stared at the photos of the delicious food on the ordering software, snickering.

"Add me one!" Ammy leaned down next to Xu Zimo and tapped her phone, "This, this, and this ······"

Mo Xiyan got up and said, "You don't want to seduce me!" It's almost twelve o'clock, and I won't eat it if I die! ”

Xu Zimo laughed, "If you don't eat it at this time, it will be really fragrant later!" Time-tested! ”

Angry, Mo Xiyan proposed to Ammy, "Why don't we help her find a boyfriend?" Otherwise, she likes to disagree with me all day long! ”

"Don't!" Xu Zimo refused.

Xu Zimo has only talked about one boyfriend, and he has been single since he broke up for two years. In the eyes of Mo Xiyan and Ammy, she is completely the type of good wife and mother. But her life is too monotonous, even boring, and a high-level "emotional expert" like Mo Xiyan can't influence her.

When chatting in the past, Mo Xiyan often tried to influence her with words like "A girl who hasn't spent a good time, she can't control the second half of her life".

The three of them sat around and waited for takeout, and when Mo Xiyan followed the door, it was completely the opposite, and he told the story like chicken blood:

A girl next to me has a good job and looks well-behaved, but she hasn't been in love for a few years. Her friends were anxious for her and asked me if I had a suitable partner, and I told them in front of the girl: The people you introduced are not the people she is looking for, and she doesn't like the men you introduced.

When the girl heard this, her eyes lit up instantly, and she asked happily: Why did you see through me at a glance. I really don't feel any feelings for those blind dates.

I asked her, you like men who look domineering and a little bad, but unfortunately they don't like you.

She said: Yes, I have a few crushes, and they are all such people.

Many people don't understand why some girls are also anxious when they reach their age, but they can't find the right person.

The reason is really simple, such a girl, often when she was a girl, she was very strict in her family education, she was a good girl at home, she didn't rebel well during the rebellious period, and then when she was close to 30 years old, she was unwilling to marry an honest man like this, and walked into a boring marriage.

But they can't attract those interesting men and control the higher level of feelings.

This is one thing that many parents have never considered -

Just thinking about protecting and controlling their children, so that they suffer from emotional depression in adolescence, there is no chance to release their hearts and be their true selves.

Such children, when they grow up, envy the people who are rightful and "prodigal", envy their willfulness and arrogance, yearn for their world, and are eager to meet such people and release their inner rebellion.

However, they are accustomed to self-protection, knowing their age, they can no longer stand the injury, they cannot afford to make mistakes, and they are even more afraid of the blame of their parents.

The person you want to choose can't be chosen, and the person you can choose doesn't like it, so in such a contradictory self, I have no choice but to live a step-by-step life, I don't dare to live in a different way, and I am not willing to live my current lifestyle, and I don't know what to do with myself.

Mo Xiyan still kept talking, although Xu Zimo glared at her angrily. Obviously, she is not telling a story, she is completely talking about Xu Zimo. And what the girl said was what they had said when they were chatting together.

"The more you experience, the more you can control life!" Mo Xiyan said: "There is another form of this kind of tragedy of family education, which is to live the life of an adult, but you can't control the complex role relationship at all. ”

Who called her a doctor? The theory, the truth, is a set.

She said: "I have seen many painful marriages, the reason is that after getting married and having children, women have no ability to deal with the ugly side of human nature, have no principled compromise, are extremely cowardly, have no power to fight back, and do not know what to do." Most of these women have a pair of honest and honest parents, who have taken 'well-behaved' as the direction of educating their children since they were young, and never let her know the complexity of the adult world, and everything has helped her make decisions, so that the child has lost the ability to think and make decisions on his own, and no longer has the ability to solve problems independently. ”

Here is another example, but it is a real example, not a hint at Xu Zimo.

One of her former classmates, what major to study, what job to work after graduation, and who to marry, all decided by her parents. After finishing college for a master's degree, he obediently returned home after graduation, became a junior high school teacher, married the son of a friend of his parents, and was brought up by his parents.

The 28-year-old already looks like a 35+ woman, with black-rimmed glasses, a puffy, unkempt figure. Then the husband cheated on him and asked for a divorce, and now he simply moves back home to live with his parents.

"Zimo, don't be afraid of falling out of love, don't be afraid of meeting a scumbag. If you like it, you will tease, and if you confess, it's just a big deal to be rejected. Go to the same restaurant and don't eat the same dish again. Go to at least one place every year that you haven't been. Make a new strange friend every year. Go and have a late night drink with someone you like······"

Ammy immediately admired her so much that she knelt down directly to Mo Xiyan, "Admire and admire!" Your skills have been taken up a notch again, and it feels even more powerful than before! Moreover, after saying so many words, I didn't even drink saliva! ”

Mo Xiyan smiled and took another sip of iced tea, "Don't believe it! This is what I have summed up, and I can't learn it from books! The more you experience, the more grounded you are, the less fearful you are, and the more you can navigate life. Every part of what you go through actually builds a different side of you. It's not sleek and sophisticated, it's life that polishes you to a richer level. Different experiences can create different sides, strong, sharp, soft, delicate, rational and organized. Got it? ”

While admiring Mo Xiyan, I also have to admit that her so-called "girls who haven't been squandering well can't control the rest of their lives" theory also has some truth, and it may be very practical for some girls.

Only women who have been wasted, loved, hated, and even despaired, like diamonds, have been polished into many facets and gradually shined, in order to cope with the different situations of life.

Simple women, with a glass heart, the more they go to the back of life, the more stupid they feel, because they will always have only one side.

Life is the same as skin care, there is no way to have a multi-effect all-purpose cream. It is impossible to expect multiple problems to be solved with one solution.

This world belongs to those women who are rich enough in their hearts and have enough layers.

Whether it is a man or a woman, people who are too simple will not be able to control life.

A person who has the ability to think will naturally know what is good and what is bad. What's delicious and what's bad. The reason why she didn't know was because she had never seen anything better, and she had never eaten better. The reason why she didn't know was because she lost the ability to think and judge.