"Yang Yang, how is it? Have you asked your sister? When to bring your boyfriend back? "Early in the morning, Bai Xue's mother called her sister Bai Yang, and the reason was very simple, after they urged Bai Xue several times, Bai Xue didn't answer the phone and didn't reply to the message.

For Bai Xue's marriage, they were also heartbroken, and even asked Bai Xue to come back when she was studying abroad, but Bai Xue's stubborn character, coupled with resentment and prejudice against her parents, completely blocked their hypocritical concern.

Poplar lives alone in the attic of her small café, and before it is open time, she is woken up by the sound of her parents' phone.

"Mom······" She saw that her mother's number was displayed on her phone, and she was completely sleepy.

Bai Xue's hatred of her parents is actually completely distressed by her sister, and the source of Bai Yang's marriage failure was forcibly arranged by them, so that she experienced the pain of losing her child in her twenties, and then she has been depressed······ They are patriarchal and arrogant and have no ideals, and they want to interfere in Bai Xue's feelings, which has also become a hurdle in Bai Xue's heart. But Bai Yang did not hold a grudge against his parents like his sister, but after he got depressed, he has been taking care of the two old people.

She hopes that her parents will not interfere in Bai Xue's affairs, and she also hopes that Bai Xue can get along with her parents well and not always deliberately avoid them.

"I've asked Xue'er, isn't she just in the hospital, and now she's just an intern, so she can't ask for leave······ Don't rush it, she'll be back when she's free. ”

Bai Yang had already asked Han Yi and knew that there was a misunderstanding between her and Han Yi, and now she was in a mood, so she casually found an excuse to prevaricate her parents.

"You don't fool me! Will she be free to come back and see the two of us? After the college entrance examination, I went to other provinces to hide far away, and I came back no more than 10 times in four years. Despite our objections, I studied abroad for three years and came back with less than three phone calls······" Bai Xue's mother sighed and continued to complain: "Your Bai family has two daughters, one is divorced in her thirties, and the other has never brought her boyfriend back after running for three years, none of them are worry-free, can I not be in a hurry?" Look at your aunts and aunts, they're all holding their grandchildren! ”

"Mom! You can, don't say that to her! Even if Bai Yang was very reluctant to listen to this, she was not angry, it didn't matter if she said this in front of her, if she said these things to Bai Xue, she would definitely have a big quarrel and break up.

"We're all fine now, so don't worry about it. I'm pretty good on my own now, and my income is okay, so if you don't mention this to me, I'm happy every day. And Xue'er, she doesn't have to worry about you, she can't count the number of people chasing her in this condition! ”

"Yes, yes, yes, but the facts! She is angry with us, we are almost 27 years old, we still don't know if she has talked about her boyfriend, she doesn't say anything, she doesn't know anything about her, can parents not worry about it? "Poplar's mother is quite calm, maybe this kind of conversation has long been commonplace between their mother and daughter." I don't care, she doesn't answer my phone, you give her a notice, if you haven't brought your boyfriend back at the end of this month, I'll go directly to Chongqing! ”

Poplar knows that her mother is a person who does what she says, and she is on par with the stubbornness and persistence in her sister's bones.

"Don't, don't go! I'm afraid you're going to fight! Although Poplar was joking, every time the mother and daughter met, the scene was nothing less than a war. She continued: "Let me tell her first, let her explain it to you herself, okay? Don't you just want to know who her boyfriend is? I'll tell you, it's just that Han Yi······"

Bai Xue had already told her sister that she hoped that her sister would not reveal any news to her parents, she had known about it for three years, and she had concealed it for three years. At this moment, she also felt that it was time to tell her parents, but as soon as she said the name, she wanted to continue to introduce it when her mother interrupted her.

"Han Yi? Is that the same Han Yi who came to our house with Keiko? Bai Xue's mother was so excited now, she finally knew that Bai Xue was indeed talking about her boyfriend, and she also knew who the other party was.

In the past three years that Bai Xue has studied abroad, Han Yi will go to visit her parents with Keiko every time she goes home for the New Year. Although I don't know much about Han Yi's family background, economic conditions, etc., I still have a good impression of him.

"Yes, that's him! He must meet your criteria for choosing a son-in-law, so don't bother her, okay? Poplar began to be a little impatient, the criteria she said for choosing a son-in-law had also happened to her, but that person was just a man with a little money in the family and a little unkindness. In her eyes, she is naturally very different from Han Yi.

"How do you talk, you kid! What do you tell me not to bother her? Is it so hard to come back and meet us two old people? "Poplar's mother actually wants Bai Xue a lot, although she wants to know who her daughter's object is, but she also hopes that she can live a worry-free life in the future.

At least when she heard the name Han Yi, she was very happy, because she heard Keiko say that this Han Yi is a promising young man in business, in short, appearance and talent are secondary, and more importantly, wealth!

"Alright, Mom, don't talk about it, I'll get up first, and it'll be open in a few hours." Baiyang didn't know what to say, and when she was about to hang up the phone, she told her mother again: "Don't ask Xue'er again, you also know her character, and if you ask her again, she really won't come back!" You give me a few days, and I'll ask her again. Remember, you should be good to everyone if you don't know anything! ”

It is a terrible thing for parents to urge marriage, not only Bai Xue's parents, but also Han Yi's mother is not less worried, although Han Yi has identified Bai Xue, she is still in a hurry, and it seems that in her opinion, it doesn't matter who this person is, she only recognizes the person who married her son, so it doesn't matter if this person is Bai Xue or not.

Bai Yang was a little regretful and autistic by her mother's phone call, she rubbed her long hair with both hands, blaming herself for why she told her mother Xue'er's boyfriend was Han Yi! My sister will definitely blame her if she finds out. didn't have time to think about it or worry too much, so she quickly got up and freshened up and prepared to open the store.

Sometimes it is difficult for the parents' generation to understand their children, and they are not willing to understand, and they don't understand why they are still single in their twenties, eighties, and thirties, and they are proud of it, saying that they are doing well.

They don't understand, there are some things, they really only like to do it alone, even if they fall in love, or after getting married and starting a family, they also want to have their own time, even if they are alone in a daze.

It is said that a loneliness rating chart has been circulating on the Internet recently, and the first place is to go to surgery alone, the last is to go to the supermarket alone, and the fourth place is to go to the movie alone.

Before quarreling with Han Yi, Bai Xue once went to eat alone, and went to the movie and happened to be seen by a colleague from the hospital sitting in the back row, and the result was one to two, two to ten, many people in their pediatrics knew, and people who didn't know that she had a boyfriend sent pity: "You are so pitiful!" Next time, there's really no one to call me! ”

Bai Xue didn't bother to explain anything, and said, "Am I pitiful? I really don't think so! I really like to go to the movies alone! Isn't it normal? ”

Although there is a little bit of falsehood in this statement, most of it is also from my own heart. When she was in love with Han Yi, Han Yi rarely had time to accompany her, she understood Han Yi, she was used to it, and she felt normal. It's a bit lonely, but even if you watch a movie alone, it's quite fun.

"Why do people like to use their own standards to determine whether a person is lonely or not?"

Many people don't understand, but Li Jia has to be mentioned again, she understands.

Because, she is also a person who likes to go to the movies alone very much. The reason why this is the case is also because of Feng Zhiyao, he doesn't like to watch movies very much, and he often falls asleep watching movies with Li Jia, he is such a person, but it does not affect their love for each other, and over time, Li Jia also likes to watch movies alone.

After a busy day, when the lights dimmed, those two hours were a great pleasure for her. You can smile or cry with the plot without any scruples, and walk out calmly the moment the lights come on, if it is a good movie, the mood is as moving as "lend me my life".

In addition to that, she is also a person who likes to drink coffee alone. Of course, her personality loves to spend time with her friends, but she also enjoys the moments of being alone. Watching a movie alone, running alone, sitting alone in the car and listening to music, I call these moments "secret pleasures".

Even if she is married to Feng Zhiyao and loves each other very much, she also has things and moments that she is reluctant to share with anyone, and at that moment, she just wants to grow old with herself.

Most of the time in this life, people live in the noise they don't want. Birth is a judgment, and then in school, a report card binds you to people who are not related by blood; Later, someone divided what zodiac sign you are and what kind of group of people you belong to.

Everyone is pitying your loneliness and praising your perfection, and you begin to mistakenly think that you like to be noisy. In a good old age, thinking that a person is a sin, desperately looking for a lover, instinctively ending singleness, and later many women find that it is just from the loneliness of one person to the loneliness of a group of people.

Only then did I realize that in this world, there are indeed wild animals that are greedy for loneliness. Like the lone lion on the African savannah, the fierce leopard, they even raise their cubs alone, and walk alone through the loneliness under the stars - Bai Xue thinks that it is a certain kind, she.

Looking back on the bits and pieces of snow, it was always a time of one person to redeem her.

At a certain moment, there was silence all around, and she suddenly understood what she wanted.

In the days of departure and separation, one day on the top of the mountain in the wild, the moment she crossed over, she suddenly saw the sunset in the distance, and the wind was quiet, and suddenly a heart melted like sugar in boiling water, full of relief, at that moment, she forgave herself and forgave herself.

In "The Form of the Family", the widowed father said: After my wife died, I knew what loneliness was. However, my son is thirty-nine years old and unmarried, and I don't know what it is like for him to be lonely.

Like his sister Bai Xue, Bai Yang faintly feels that the happy crowd in the future will really belong to the kind of people who can not only stagger, but also comfort themselves. At that moment, I believe they are really enjoying it.

"Please don't use your kindness to disturb me and myself."

She doesn't want her mother to interfere with Bai Xue's feelings, she hopes that she can understand her daughters, go her own way, and enjoy her own life.