Chapter 299: Meet in this life, and the rest of your life will be you
In the relationship, many people are always like this, turning a blind eye when they have it, and when they lose it, they find that they are so reluctant in their hearts, and they find that they were once so good.
Those times that have been walked together, those romances when they are affectionate, I just felt very ordinary at the time, and now I want to cherish them, but I can't go back.
As the saying goes, "If, when I really give, you turn a blind eye and play my spectator; Then, when the love is over and the love has passed, even if you keep it more, I can only be a passerby from now on. ”
Everyone has only one heart, when all the sincerity and enthusiasm are soaked in fickleness and coldness, maybe nostalgic, maybe sad, but still choose to turn away and drift away.
Between each other, everything becomes something you can have, you can do without, you can go, you can stay. To love is to live a lifetime, and to miss is too. The fate between people is like the rain outside the window, drenched, wet, scattered, and far away. If we don't allow it or not, it's no more.
The beauty of the past, like a bubble, bursts at the touch of a button. Some people, some things, some loves, no matter how nostalgic they are now, have become a thing of the past.
Time can't stay yesterday, fate, stop at the first meeting.
In the world of feelings, no one can live without anyone, only who does not cherish whom, instead of crying and demanding, it is better to smile freely.
People, there are always a lot of helplessness, too persistent, too clear, too deep love, will only get tired, bitter, and hurt yourself.
Life is like a mirror, and how we face it, it will give back to us. Sometimes, even though you have tried your best, but still can't get the desired result, you can only say that it is time to turn around.
If you can't figure it out, you can not think about it; If you can't afford to hurt, you will look down on it; If you can't afford it, you can calm it down. The past, if you see it clearly, you will look down on it; If you can't get it, it doesn't matter if you see it through.
In this life, there are too many things to do, too many people to cherish, and there is no need to waste feelings and energy on meaningless people and things.
Some love, no result is no result, don't blindly entangle, even if you can force it, it's just mutual torture.
Some things, the past is the past, don't keep dwelling on it, even if you are unwilling, it is impossible to start again.
Some people, if they miss it, they miss it, don't try to keep it anymore, even if they can come back, they can't go back to the way they used to be.
In the face of the rights and wrongs of feelings, sometimes, cherishing is for a better possession; And letting go is for a better way forward.
Therefore, no matter what kind of memories or touches "yesterday" gives life, what we need is always to cherish the present and grasp the present. Don't regret it if you have passed, and don't pick it up again when you are far away.
Origins and falls, gathering, scattering and separation, but it is ordinary, learn to be indifferent, learn to look forward. You know, if the heart does not move, the wind can help, if you don't hurt, the years will be fine. There are many things that we may as well choose to accept or let go when we are powerless to change. Life is short for decades, there is no need to be too sad and sad, everything and people and things are just an experience.
Remember: time is short, the end of the world is far away. For the rest of your life, if you love, you will love vividly
; If you go, you will go without worry. Sometimes, there's really nothing you can't give up!
A mortal in his life, if he puts his heart at ease, he is a stream of water without waves; In a mortal's life, if you take your heart lightly, you are a cloud of ease.
Bai Xue couldn't sleep somehow, did Han Yi become a person who could have, could not have, could go, and could stay?
I thought to myself, "I want someone to call me and talk to me when I'm lonely and helpless, so that I know I'm not alone." For me, this is more interesting than any movie, more real than any book, and it makes me feel warm. Because I can feel that although that person is not around, although I can't touch it, I have always been concerned about it in my heart. ”
Holding a glass of red wine, sitting on the windowsill, looking at the same night, feeling the same loneliness as Han Yi.
What she wants is, an ordinary greeting, a simple command: Are you home? It's hard work! Eat more! Although it was only a few words, it warmed my heart.
"I promise, no matter how much you say that, I won't get tired of hearing it, and I won't get bored. If we are together forever, I am not afraid of anything, and I can carry anything. I don't need your sweet words, and I don't need the promises of the old days. All I want is a warm but firm hug, a hand that can hold me tightly and not let go at will. I also don't need you to be there for me all the time, you have your things to do, you need to have your own space. But I know that there is one sentence that will always ring in my ears: in my eyes, you are my whole world! ”
She had never said these words to anyone, Han Yi would call or text her every day no matter how busy she was, but now she feels a little sad when she thinks about it.
"Is this the end of it? Do you have a new love? These two questions bothered her and she couldn't sleep.
Some people say that the current relationship is too impetuous, and it is really difficult to talk about a love without breaking up.
Today, a certain star broke up, and tomorrow whoever and who around him will also terminate the long-distance love run, and there are more and more reasons to choose to separate, such as incompatible personalities, such as living habits, such as not loving so much.
We have all been obsessively waiting for the "right person" to appear in our relationships, but the more we get to the future, the more we will find that there is no one who is 100% suitable for us in this world.
Everyone is a different and independent individual, and there will always be friction and inappropriateness when two people are together, and there are even times when they want to give up. Some people walk and walk away, and some people, under the precipitation of time, still live happily in the world of the two.
They all want a relationship of "holding the hand of the son and growing old with the son", but they don't know how to last for a long time.
But she always believes that in a good relationship, only by always sticking to the original likes and choices can it be possible to go on. The person you like, there must be a lot of small faults in him that you don't like, but there must be many, many advantages that you like.
Just like Han Yi, he also has a lot of small problems and has time
is so stubborn that nine cows can't pull it back, sometimes she is so indifferent that she doesn't want to say a word, and sometimes she loves her so much that her heart is as small as a needle······
She has always felt that the sweetest thing in the world is not "I love you", but that two people can patiently accept each other's thousands of ways in the name of love.
A little more patience and tolerance for your lover is the most beloved expression of love. And two people who choose to love each other can firmly choose each other and go on with each other for a long time, which is also the simplest and most perfect interpretation of happiness.
Although she said to Han Yi that she was temporarily separated, she didn't say that the relationship ended like this!
She picked up the mobile phone that rang next to her and took a look, and as soon as she answered, Liu Xiyao's crying voice came from the other end of the phone: "I'm ······ outside your door."
Bai Xue thought for a moment, is something wrong? Then I heard a knock on the door.
"What's wrong?" Bai Xue looked at Liu Xiyao, who was crying with makeup, and asked with concern, and quickly invited her to the house.
Liu Xiyao's life is not easy, when she encounters this kind of thing, she naturally has hardships in her heart, but fortunately, there is still someone who will care about her.
She pounced on Bai Xue, hugged her, and cried vigorously. Bai Xue didn't know what was going on, and didn't know what to say, so she stroked her head, "It's okay!" It's okay! ”
After some comfort and conversation, Bai Xue finally figured out what was going on.
"Are you saying Han Yi brought you out?" Bai Xue is also because he has been eating, drinking and having fun with Ammy.
Liu Xiyao also knew that if it weren't for Bai Xue, how could Han Yi turn back and rescue her? Han Yi from Hao Yali's mouth, Han Yi from Bai Xue's mouth, and Han Yi from what she saw and felt with her own eyes, she seemed to know more about this person.
knew why Hao Yali would do such a thing, and why Bai Xue loved Han Yi so much.
Liu Xiyao, who wiped away her tears, asked, "Have you had a conflict?" Broke up? ”
When she was in the bar, she heard Yi Yang say that Han Yi had just broken up and was a single dog, and she had some doubts in her heart. It wouldn't have been because she persuaded Bai Xue to tell him what she wanted, quarrel with him, and express her dissatisfaction that led to such a result.
And she has also been in contact with Bai Xue in the past few days, and it can be seen that she is in a very low mood. I always mentioned how Han Yi treated her well, but recently I haven't talked about it.
Bai Xue said with a light smile: "I told him to be separated for a while. But the smile was so reluctant.
"Why?"
Liu Xiyao never felt that what Hao Yali did was right, but she could understand what Hao Yali was fighting for herself. She also likes Bai Xue a lot, and hopes that she and Han Yi will have a bright future. There are some things she keeps secret, but Bai Xue already knows.
"I want to calm down for a while, make the most of my life, and think about what I really want."
Liu Xiyao could feel Bai Xue's sadness, and she said: "Everyone is a mortal world, not heaven
The fairy, and even more so won't be a perfect robot. There is no other half in 100, only two people in 50. You always told me how good Han Yi was, but I was skeptical. I saw it today, and the two girls took the initiative to stick it, and he pushed it away without temptation, which made them very embarrassed. I know that it was all because of you that he and Brother Bao tore their faces and brought me out, otherwise, I would have to obediently obey tonight. In short, I hope you can be well, he must be a worthy person! ”
Of course, Bai Xue believed what Liu Xiyao said, otherwise how could she have been in love for eight years.
If they hadn't met, she thought she would have met someone else, and since they had met, at a certain moment, she decided that the rest of her life would be Han Yi.
If they hadn't loved each other, maybe she would have fallen in love with another person, but when Han Yi inadvertently walked into her heart one day, and the door of her heart had been closed for him, she thought that he was the only one in her world, and he would be the person she was waiting for all her life, forever and ever.
When she fell in love with Han Yi, she began to fear losing again. These days, she began to be afraid of thinking of him every day, and even more afraid that her memories of Han Yi were too crowded, and she couldn't hold it anymore.
"If you meet in this life, the rest of your life will be you!" That's what she always thought. Love someone, once you enter your heart, your heart is full of about him, maybe for the rest of her life, no one will be able to enter her heart again.
Once upon a time, love was really beautiful and beautiful, even if it was heartache, she was willing to miss it while it hurt; Even if she can't love her, she is willing to suffer while worrying, just because that is the person she loves.
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