Everyone has their own life they want to live, and the most basic of them is nothing more than having money to support the basic life, having free time, and having someone to keep each other company of.

In these conditions, if we don't have a lot of love, if we can't meet someone we like, we can work hard to make a lot of money, and go to the places we want to go to buy things we want to buy, which can also make us feel happy and happy.

Between the life you can live in front of you and the life you want to live in the future, it takes time to realize, except for parents to fight for, otherwise everyone has to honestly go back to the desk to earn a salary to support themselves from all kinds of dreams, all kinds of trips, all kinds of big patterns and connections.

The world may seem a little far away at a certain stage of life, but life is still beautiful, and there will be excitement in the effort and joy after gaining, all of which is the present day.

Why is Han Min happy when she and her sister shop together? Because they have the money to support their basic life, they have free time, and they have a family that loves each other.

In the past, there may be a lack of economic conditions, and many material pursuits cannot be achieved. When Han Yi earned the first million amount of money and handed it over to his parents before he graduated, he said to them: Buy something you like when you find it.

Han Yi also said similar things to his sister, but only his sister Han Min did not have such treatment.

As early as 2010, housing prices were rising every once in a while, everyone was complaining about the lack of money but flocking to chase the rise, and the topic of those people around Sister Han Yi was whether to buy a house? Do you want to change rooms? Do you want to buy another set of investments?

She was the only one who was indifferent and never got involved in such topics, because she had no money, because she had to save for her younger siblings for registration fees and living expenses.

At that time, she had just jumped to a large foreign-funded company, and her salary had risen to more than 5,000, and she had not yet met Yu Heng's father at that time. In order to save money, she lives in the company's dormitory.

She spent 4 years in obscurity in a city like Shenzhen, and nothing has a firm foothold, because for her after graduating from middle school, all this is quite difficult.

She also wanted every room that belonged to her to be kept clean and tidy, with lush greenery on the balcony or windowsill, tables and bedboards full of things she had bought from her travels, and a wall full of pictures of her life.

She also wants the wardrobe to be full, but all kinds of items are neatly stored, and others can't imagine that she is a beautiful girl when they see such a wardrobe, and they know how to be kind to themselves when they know how to be fashionable.

She has been in two relationships intermittently, and she continues to wait for a good relationship without impatience, or she doesn't have the heart to fall in love at all.

For girls around the age of twenty-two, since they have not met someone they like, they should not hesitate to buy the items they like, dress beautifully, use them well, have fun, and be envied by others while coaxing themselves to be happy. Even if the person she likes belongs to her, she may leave in the future, but the items that belong to her will not, and when she gets old, at least she won't regret it because of something she was reluctant to buy back then.

But this is of course a fantasy for her, after all, life is already so difficult.

In this era, it is difficult to meet people who like each other, and when you go out to travel and go shopping, you can buy what you like, which has probably become everyone's dream. It doesn't matter if it's expensive, as long as the economic conditions allow, you must learn to find fun for yourself, and when happiness belongs to you, everything in front of you will become beautiful, and if you are kind to yourself, life will favor you a little more.

Sister Han Yi is the most pragmatic person, not ambitious, just down-to-earth, step by step to achieve the goal of improving the current life, not greedy but silently trying her best. Because she knows how to reward herself, every choice she makes in life seems effortless, and she doesn't complain when she persists, but it is easier to get closer to the life she wants to live.

In 2011, she met Yu Heng's father. For people who work outside at the same time, they have a certain similarity, and they have reached a high degree of unity in thought, and they are reluctant to spend money to watch a movie when they fall in love, and they are not renting a house together, and they still live in the company's collective dormitory.

She didn't miss the hard work at work, what she missed was the moment when she spent money to please herself. When there is a contradiction between survival and life, she will choose to survive without hesitation, and will not think about herself and enjoy life. She is a woman who knows how to store, she has no house but has never lacked the warmth of home, and being displaced can also be her own sun.

So in the hearts of Han Yi and Han Min, her status is very high, because she has paid a lot for this family and a lot for them.

Han Yi likes cars, but after Yihui made money, he never bought a good car for himself, first bought a house for his parents, and then bought a house for his sister in Changsha, and gave her a sum of money to start a small business, so that they can live a worry-free life.

Some people say that most of the time and most people are not so short of money and lack of time. The reason why I feel short of money is because I am too greedy and not enough to compare, so that I miss the joy that a little money can bring us. The reason why I feel short of time is because I have been wasting time on boring things and emotions, so that I have missed the time it takes to grow and improve, which are the two things that should be done every day. It is easiest to waste the years, and it is easiest to delay the choice by playing chicken blood every day.

In this way, in Han Yi's opinion, he may not agree with him, at least he knows how hard his sister lived after sending most of her salary home. He has also personally experienced that when the conditions at home are not good, even some relatives are not very willing to interact with them, and if they have no money, they are more likely to be looked down upon.

So in Han Yi's heart, it is a comparison and a heart-to-heart talk, even if he doesn't want to admit it, this kind of psychology is also the reason why he has such an achievement today.

For those older sisters, money is saved. Provincial people are not necessarily richer than people with flowers, many people who seem to be losers actually have a scale in their hearts, and have found a balance between life and survival, and the effortlessness of life is because it is not easy to survive than anyone else, but this is a way of survival for many people with a low starting point, province, so that life is a little better.

For Han Yi, money is earned, but he is also somewhat influenced by his parents and sister, he himself will not spend money indiscriminately, but he is never stingy with his family.

Seeing his sister and sister shopping happily, he was equally happy in his heart, because this is also a manifestation of their happy life, and he bought what he liked when he met him.

Who doesn't want to be nostalgic for their time in the town, drinking tea, chatting, watching the sun go down, the river flowing, and sitting in the breeze in silence? This is probably what Han Yi dreams of now! Swim with Bai Xue, read and write together, hold hands and hug together······

"Being busy because of greed is not diligence, it is not understanding life. Real life is when every inch of time comes, and we can accept it calmly. Slowness is not laziness, it is respect for people when encountering things. Life is like reading, just for a little bit of immersion, not reading reference books, which can be used in life immediately. After all, being born and living, not only for the sake of acquisition, rather than hurrying to the end, waiting for us with a long period of aging, it is better to calmly experience, see all over the mountains and red, accompany you to the long stream is more wonderful, the abundance of life, sometimes it is just to do some useless things, things to nourish the heart······"

These may have been sentences he wrote when he was "young and ignorant", but after more experience, he will no longer comfort himself like this. can't stop for a moment, can't relax for a moment, that's his current state, which is related to his growth background.

His paranoia lies in the fact that he does not live by other people's standards.

Whether it was him when he went to Chongqing for the first time, or he is now 28 years old, there is no connection between himself in his eyes and himself in the eyes of others. Everyone's focus is completely different, and everything he cares about may seem insignificant to others.

This is life, I believe that most people's lives are like this, they can only live in their own vision, and they can only live by themselves. If you let go of yourself and listen to the advice of anyone around you, you will get farther and farther away from the real you, and no matter what you gain in the end, you will definitely not be happy.

But there are also some people who care very much about other people's eyes and want to live the kind of life that others see them very much, so they do things that they are not good at and do not like. The only thing that is safe about this is that you will be sympathetic if you fail, because there is no obsessiveness.

But what is the value of sympathy? It is just a placebo for losers, and if sympathy is accepted, it is tantamount to admitting defeat. After giving sympathy to your face, others will inevitably laugh at you in front of others.

recalled that all the decisions Han Yi made in his life did not refer to the opinions and suggestions of others, although those opinions carried the kindness they thought they had, but the consequences were always borne by him, so the key was to think for himself.

In the big and small decisions he has made, there have been mistakes, injuries, and pains. For example, after being confused in a tangled relationship for three years, choosing a job that I am not good at and has never been exposed to is tired.

Fortunately, he took it all in the end, never complained, and bore the so-called emotional wounds alone, and the final result was actually extremely good. Even at some point, he is grateful for the consequences of these detours and troubles, just as tasting bitter things first and then eating sweets will feel extra sweet, and after taking detours, walking on the straight road will be especially pleasant. Without that fruitless love with Zhong Yinger, he would not have gotten together with Bai Xue.

To some extent, this is an attitude of persistence and responsibility. No one can guarantee that his choice is right, but it doesn't matter if he's wrong, just be brave and bear it.

It may be that God favors Han Yi more, and now he can be regarded as young and promising, and he has made some achievements.