"Sister-in-law, don't worry about having a second child, when the baby is older, the policy allows rebirth." Lin Xiaoman slowly persuaded her: "In this way, when the baby is older, I can help you watch Xiaobao." ”

Ma Junxiu said: "Didn't the daughter-in-law of your fourth brother-in-law also give birth to a second child?" I didn't see her regenerate when she could give birth. How big is the one in her family? It's only two birthdays now! ”

Lin Xiaoman thought, how can this be compared? People are accidents, do you understand accidents?

When she whispered that it was an accident, Ma Junxiu looked unimpressed, "What's the accident that isn't unexpected?" Let me ask you if they have a second child, right? Don't look at what you are hiding, as if there are people in the village who have eyes who don't know. ”

This tone made Lin Xiaoman unhappy, if this kind of thing is not hidden, should he be stopped to have a fetus?

But she didn't bother with a woman who had just given birth, but smiled lightly: "Yes, everyone has eyes." "Originally, they couldn't hide this from the villagers, and what they wanted to hide was nothing more than the family planning department.

As for the village committee, it is the people who do not hold officials accountable, if he dares to pull you to have an abortion, the eight generations of his ancestors will have to be scolded back and forth.

This kind of lack of morality, if the locals want to stay here, they will not deliberately harm anyone.

But the family planning department is different, people are working, and they are enforcing the law according to laws and regulations.

Lin Xiaoman had a conversation with her, racking her brains to think about the scientific parenting knowledge that she didn't know much about in her previous life, and then said to Ma's mother: "It's so hot in this house, and there is such a thick door curtain, isn't it too hot?" I've heard that it's not good for a mother's house to be too hot. ”

Besides, how stuffy the air is, and it's not winter, why do you cover it so tightly?

As a result, her kindness may not be understood, Mother Ma said: "It's a little hot, but Xiu'er has just given birth to a weak physique, so she will open the door in two days, just block the door curtain." ”

She just suggested that since people said so, she didn't want to say much.

Ma Junxiu said: "It's a little hot, remove the door curtain, look at the stuffy panic," and then complained, "I don't know what's wrong, when I smell the smell of cooking outside, I feel uncomfortable, I want to vomit, just like ......when I was pregnant."

Lin Xiaoman thinks that her sister-in-law is postpartum depression.

Although she understands her sister-in-law, she still doesn't want to stay in this house, there is no common language, and the two of them are relatively embarrassed. "Sister-in-law, you can sleep for a while, I'll go out and have a look."

Ma Junxiu smiled and nodded, "Go ahead, I'm also tired and just take a nap." ”

When Lin Xiaoman went out, her face pulled down, "Mom, you still said that my sister-in-law spoke for me, you look at her, she doesn't want to stay here for a while." ”

Ma Mu said angrily: "People don't want you to be tired, what else do you want?" Don't look for trouble, go to bed. ”

Mother Ma saw that the two of them were asleep, got up and went to the east house, "Mother-in-law, Junxiu was not like this before, who knows why this child has such a bad temper, don't be angry with her, maybe she is unhappy when she gives birth to a girl." ”

Mother Lin felt that her in-laws' words were very reasonable, but she still had to refute her, "Xiu'er gave birth to a girl, I'm not unhappy, I'm happy." Mother-in-law, how much you comfort her, whether it's a girl or a son, they are all children of our Lao Lin family, and we are all rare. You tell her well, let her stop thinking nonsense, have a good confinement, take care of her body, and let's have a big fat boy in the future. ”

Lin Xiaoman listened to the previous words finely, but the latter sentence made people frown.

If my sister-in-law is a multi-hearted person, she will lose her temper when she hears this.

"Listen, you still say that you don't want a son, so what does that mean? I've just been born, and the confinement hasn't come out yet, so she's thinking about the next one......"

Sure enough, as Lin Xiaoman expected, Ma's mother happily said to her daughter: "Your mother-in-law loves you so much, she said that the girl is also a child of the old Lin family, and everyone is as rare, and she also said that you should take care of your body in confinement, and you will have a big fat boy in the future......"

"This is called a rare girl? As soon as I gave birth, she was thinking about having a child, and you still said that she didn't want a son? Hmph, mom, what are you really talking about! ”

She said this in a voice that was not suppressed at all, Ma Mu quickly glanced outside when she heard it, and made sure that the door was closed, and then it should not be heard through the thick curtain, she complained while pulling down the door curtain: "Can't you speak quietly?" Look at you, people are not right like this, you are not right like that, if you meet that unreasonable person, you will be beautiful regardless of you. Do it, you do it, you talk about how blessed you are when you marry into the Lin family, I thought the Lin family was poor, but when you got married, the Lin family is a good time, how good is the life? I don't know how many people envy you, you are careful to be a big man and don't want to go home, and you are beautiful when you have an outside heart. ”

Ma Junxiu was not happy, and called out in a long voice, "Mom-", and his eyes turned red, "Mom, you are still not my mother, how can you say that?" Why don't you want me to be better? ”

Ma Mu said angrily: "Am I not looking forward to your well? I'm asking you to cherish the blessings, don't cry, you think I'm annoyed and I speak ugly, I'll just go, let your mother-in-law serve you, I see how you can choose? ”

The two of them quarreled in the house.

Mother Lin heard the cry and hurried in, "Yo, what's wrong?" Don't cry Xiu'er, don't cry in this month, if your eyes are broken to cry, this is a lifetime thing, obedient, don't cry......"

finally persuaded her, Mother Lin complained: "Mother-in-law, look at it, this child has just been born, what do you have to say when she is out of confinement, you make her cry, won't she be the one who will suffer in the future?" ”

Ma Mu felt that she was not a person inside and out, and said angrily: "You are used to her, she was good when she was at home before, why are there so many things?" Why is it so unreasonable? Look at what has become of you now? ”

Mother Lin didn't look good when she heard this, and said a little unhappily: "Are we used to her being good to her?" If you want to say that, you should let Da Kui beat her all day long, and I should scold her all day long? ”

Seeing that the two were about to quarrel, Lin Xiaoman hurriedly pulled his mother aside, "Don't quarrel, my sister-in-law is now suffering from postpartum anxiety and some symptoms of depression, and she doesn't want to do this, she just can't control herself." You have to understand her, care more about her, so that she can really feel that the family really likes this girl, have no opinion on her giving birth to a daughter, and untie her heart knot. ”

Mother Lin and Mother Ma looked at each other, and only after a while did they ask in unison: "What's the problem?" What is postpartum? ”

Mother Lin said: "I have lived for such an age, I haven't heard of anyone who has a child after giving birth to something like this?" ”

Mother Ma said: "Alas, I have given birth to several children and have not had anything like this? Why is she so delicate? ”

Lin Xiaoman is not a medical student, and all she heard about is something specious, but in order to make these two no longer have opinions on her sister-in-law, she invisibly made her sister-in-law more serious, so she pulled the two of them to sit down, "How many people have you just met?" This disease is quite serious, but most people don't pay attention to it, you think, was my sister-in-law such a person before? How sensible is she? How filial is it? How considerate? Isn't it? ”

She asked one, and the two of them nodded, in fact, Lin Mu thought in her heart, she was sensible, but she was not as sensible as you. Moreover, where is this just gone, where can you see filial piety or not?

As for thoughtfulness, I don't hear how considerate your brother is......

Of course, Mother Lin would not be stupid enough to say this in front of her mother-in-law, she nodded and agreed, "Yes, yes......"

Lin Xiaoman then told the two of them some details about how they cared about, which were lacking in rural women.

Ma Mu looked at her eyes with satisfaction and admiration, "It is worthy of opening a hotel in the provincial capital, listen to what she said, the head is the way, and those of us who have never gone to school, it is different!" ”

However, she and Mother Lin actually didn't think so, their women had children for generations, and they all came over like this, and they didn't see anyone with this disease?

Defect!

Habitual!

The two of them hummed at the same time.

However, one is a daughter-in-law and the other is self-born, and no matter how dissatisfied they are, they can't say it, especially in front of each other.

Lin Xiaoman returned to the county and talked to Gao Jianjun about it, she held her chin and looked pensive, "Actually, I think my sister-in-law may not be postpartum depression, it's really a matter of doing it!" ”

Gao Jianjun was drinking water, choked on her words, coughed a few times before laughing: "Then what depression do you talk to our mother?" Aren't you fooling people? ”

He leaned over to her with some curiosity, "You're not a doctor either?" What will you watch? ”

Lin Xiaoman ignored his ridicule, held his chin and continued: "I can't say it well, anyway, it's just a feeling, but I said that there is nothing wrong with her being depressed, my mother and my brother can care more about her, and she won't do this if she feels better." ”

She stretched out her foot and kicked him, "Hey, if I give birth to a girl in the future, will you not be happy?" She leaned at him and threatened, "I can tell you, if I'm depressed, I'm going to keep you awake at night, so be careful what you say!" ”

Gao Jianjun said with a smile and a smile: "Don't worry, I like both girls and sons." I don't have that patriarchal mentality. I'm not going to give you a chance to be me. ”

Lin Xiaoman raised his chin in satisfaction, "It's pretty much the same!" ”

Gao Jianjun's eldest sister and two younger brothers were not at home when they had children, and when he saw the children, the children were often months old or even almost a year old, so he was quite curious about what such a young child was like?

"Really like a monkey? How ugly is that? ”

Lin Xiaoman burst out laughing, "Newborn babies are all wrinkled, just wait for them to grow." Didn't you listen to your mom that you were like a monkey when you were a kid? See you're not ugly now, are you? She leaned back and looked at it carefully, "Well, not only is it not ugly, but it is also very handsome!" ”

Gao Jianjun touched his chin and shook his head proudly: "I have won awards!" You're beautiful too! You look good, I'm handsome, we're a natural pair! ”

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