[idiom]: the benevolence of a woman

Pinyin: fù rén zhī rén

[Explanation]: Shi: Kindness. Women's soft hearts. The old refers to being tolerant and gentle, and not knowing the general situation.

【Idiom Story】:

This idiom is found in "Historical Records: The Biography of the Marquis of Huaiyin": "King Xiang (Xiang Yu) is respectful and loving when he sees people, and his words are disgusting; When a person is sick, he weeps and eats and drinks. To make people meritorious, when the knight, the seal is sealed, and the can't bear to give, this so-called woman's benevolence is also. ”

When Chu and Han were fighting, the famous general Han Xin once defected to Xiang Yu. Because Xiang Yu was brave and unscrupulous, and did not make good use of people, Han Xin could not be reused, so he turned his back on Xiang Yu and defected to Liu Bang. After defecting to Liu Bang, it was not reused at first, and later under Xiao He's strong recommendation, Liu Bang worshiped Han Xin as a general.

After Han Xin was worshiped as a general, Liu Bang asked him: "Prime Minister Xiao Cheng has repeatedly recommended the general, and the general must have a clever plan, please advise the general." Han Xin said: "I have worked under King Xiang, I know his ability, and I also know his weaknesses. King Xiang shouted, and thousands of people would intimidate him, you see how brave and ruthless he is. However, he can't accept other people's opinions, he can't reuse capable generals, and his bravery is just the courage of a horseman. King Xiang treats people with respect and love, and speaks very gently, and when he sees others sick, he will shed tears and give his food and drink to the sick. But if someone has made a meritorious service and should be knighted, he will not be crowned. It's sealed, he still holds the seal of the title, rubbing left and right, polishing the four corners of the seal, and he is reluctant to hand it over to others. His kind eyes are just the kind eyes of his mother-in-law. Then, Han Xin analyzed some of Xiang Yu's weaknesses and mistakes, and pointed out that Liu Bang would inevitably be able to defeat Xiang Yu.

Because the old society despised women, people used the idiom "women's benevolence" to describe being tolerant and gentle, and not knowing the general situation.

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