Nuan Nuan didn't talk to Bai Xue for long before she hurried to the airport, and when she left, she didn't forget to persuade her and Han Yi. However, Bai Xue just smiled and sent her out the door.

In just a few days, Nuan Nuan is not the only one who is kind enough to persuade peace, and everyone's rhetoric is different, and in the end, they will emphasize - both of you are very good people, I hope you will blossom and bear fruit as soon as possible.

Bai Xue will listen to them, but only in the left ear and out of the right ear, resolutely not listening, still following his heart. And when parting, she has always adhered to the concept that the best way to love someone is to manage yourself well and give each other a high-quality self, rather than desperately being good to a person, and fantasizing that person will desperately love you in return.

From her crush, to the three years when she didn't have contact after her confession was rejected, to the three years when she broke up and went abroad, she has always been like this, even if she is alone, she will take care of herself and manage herself. Of course, sometimes I would expect the other party to have her in my heart and love her, but in addition, I never thought of getting anything else in return. And her kindness to her lover is that she has never forgotten her heart and mind, and she has always been consistent.

Love, isn't it just entrusting sincerity?

is like a sentence that she and Han Yi both like: My heart is a stone, and I can't turn it; My heart is a bandit, and I can't be swept away.

If the love in this world is so simple that if you are good to him, he will be good to you, then there will be no so-called broken love, there will not be so many people divorced, and there will be no such troublesome things as secret love and unrequited love.

Many girls are desperate to be good to a person and tolerate his mistakes unconditionally, in exchange for a happy ending?

Trying to be nice to someone is not the best way to love someone. Perhaps, your desperate "please" will put pressure on the other party to get away as soon as possible.

In her opinion, before meeting the right person, what can be done is to work hard to manage yourself and make yourself a quality person. When you love someone, you should also manage yourself well, and don't rely on or expect him to give back.

When it comes to "high quality", the first thing she thinks of is Mr. Yang Jiang, a "most talented woman and the most virtuous wife".

Yang Jiang, a famous scholar and wife of Qian Zhongshu, passed away, and many people felt strange, Yang Jiang was a lady, why did everyone call her Mr. Yang Jiang?

To put it simply, "sir" is a title, which literally means: born earlier than oneself, older than oneself. In addition, a person who has a certain status, knowledge, and qualifications can be called "sir". The ancient Chinese word "sir" was an honorific title for a learned person, and not everyone could be called "sir".

Bai Xue's circle of friends some time ago was also swiped by the text of missing Mr. Yang Jiang.

It was she who let Bai Xue know the highest evaluation of his wife by a man in this world: "Before I met her, I never thought of getting married; I have been married to her for decades and have never regretted marrying her. ”

In the eyes of Mr. Qian Zhongshu, his wife is his own good. Even Qian Zhongshu's mother sighed at this daughter-in-law, "The pen shaft is shaken, the spatula is held, and all the rough work is done at home. ”

My husband can get such recognition from her husband and his family, naturally because she knows how to manage herself and the family. Because of this, she became a "wife, lover, and friend" in her husband's heart.

The realm of Mr. may not be within the reach of ordinary people, and such a love is also hard to find, but we can at least make today's self better than yesterday's self.

A high-quality woman does not need to please the other party, and your existence itself is a thing worthy of being cherished by the other party. It is a man's blessing to have such a woman as a wife. As Mr. Qian Zhongshu's mother said, he is "an idiot and a fool", Xu is humble, but it is not unreasonable.

The last time Fang Wen, an old classmate, chatted with her, she also told a story that really happened around her.

A girl born into an ordinary working family. After graduating, she went to work in a bar, where she met a well-known local entrepreneur.

has been in love for 5 years, and when the man planned to marry her, he was strongly opposed by the man's family. How many wealthy families are willing to marry a bar girl as a daughter-in-law?

In desperation, she chose to break up. But just after the breakup, she found out that she was pregnant. Despite the strong opposition of her parents and relatives, and bearing all the infamy and pressure of social opinion, she resolutely brought her little life to this world.

Even so, she was not recognized by the man's family.

In order to give her life a chance to start over, she abandoned her previous life, returned to the classroom, and spent 3 years polishing herself.

Today, she is a lecturer in happiness. And after the man and his family saw the great change in her, they also acquiesced in the relationship. Now, her husband loves her so much that he visits her wherever she lectures.

This fully shows that a woman, what can make her truly happy is actually herself! Only by working hard to manage yourself will make those who love her love her more and let those who hate her accept her!

Bai Xue had broadcast live for a period of time before, and there were a group of fans who watched her play games, and her Weibo followers also had more than 30,000. One of the fans left a message for her on Weibo, saying that he fell in love with a boy in a blind date show, and after confessing, the other party did not refuse, only said that they could be friends.

Bai Xue and the fans who watched her live broadcast get along very well on the Internet, after all, she is a kind-hearted person, although there are not many people who interact, but she also spends ten minutes every day to read and reply to messages.

After a detailed conversation, in Bai Xue's opinion, this is already a refusal. It's just that this girl doesn't want to face this fact.

The girl wrote to the other party, but he did not reply. After that, I took the initiative to add the other party's WeChat and took the initiative to chat with the other party. Boys are all coping with a match and a match. Don't refuse, don't take the initiative.

In the end, the girl took the opportunity of a business trip to come from Beijing to Tianjin (the girl is in Beijing, the boy is in Tianjin), found the boy, and took the initiative to invite the man to dinner. The boy still does not refuse, does not take the initiative.

The girl loved him wholeheartedly, for fear that he would be snatched away by others in the next second. But in the face of the other party's indifference, she has nothing to do.

In the person who doesn't love you, no matter how much you please the other person, you can't get love. Because, love itself is not won by please.

In exchange for flattery, it is not love, but contempt.

When the girl told her the story, Snow White only told her, "If you bloom, the breeze will come." After all, it's someone else's love, and she doesn't have the convenience to say anything, but just gives her most sincere advice - you deserve better love!

Fortunately, this beautiful girl came out bravely and decided to take her mind off this boy and try to manage herself.

Although, Bai Xue doesn't know where her final love will be, but she believes that after that girl "blooms" to her heart's content, she will definitely meet someone who truly appreciates her, a love that can be harvested without her hard work!

In love, women need to work hard to manage themselves, and the same is true for men!

When Han Yi was in college, he met such a couple: the girl was very beautiful, cheerful and lively, and her academic performance was also very good; The boy's appearance and academic performance are quite average, and the bad thing is that the temper is a bit big.

Although they are a couple, they still can't stop other boys from pursuing this girl.

When her boyfriend found out, he was naturally angry and hit her after an argument. The girl was heartbroken, and everyone was not optimistic about this relationship, just because he was usually good to her, so he gave him up, and he didn't want to, even this last bit of good was lost by this slap.

The girl proposed to break up, and the boy begged bitterly and even knelt. Helpless, the girl couldn't stand the other party's stalking, and remembered all the good things he had in the past, so she compromised.

After experiencing such a thing, the boy is better to the girl, but the desire to control is also stronger, and he has set all kinds of rules and precepts for the girl, for fear that she will be hunted away by other boys.

The final ending, it is also conceivable that such a love is not destined to last long. They weren't together!

Although this is an era of looking at faces, it is not an era of looking at faces completely. Boys don't have good looks, you can fight for strength; If you don't have the strength, you can work hard!

However, this boy doesn't understand, he doesn't manage himself, at the age when he should be studying, he doesn't study to learn to improve himself, and he doesn't know how to restrain his temperament, and finally loses his love in the midst of gains and losses.

Desperately trying to be nice to a person, and then expecting the other person to treat themselves the same way, this is not love, this is pleasing, it is begging. A beggar is sensitive and has low self-esteem. Such love is destined to be unequal.

Andy in "Ode to Joy" never pleases anyone, but she can still win the favor of many high-quality men.

If you appreciate such a "evenly matched" love, then work hard to manage yourself from now on and make yourself the one who can be appreciated!

It is always said that Bai Xue is not too old, unlike those young girls who have just turned twenty. What they can't learn the most is to stop loss, and when they are wronged, what they think of is not how wronged they are, but how distressed "he" will be when he knows that he is wronged. I feel unhappy in love, and I am always reluctant to say it, waiting for the other party to find out, but I don't know that the other party never looks at me.

A lot of problems, like wearing the wrong shoes on the left and right feet in the first place, the run-in is never useful.

She has already identified Han Yi, which means that it is not inappropriate, quarreling and breaking up, something that she thought was unreasonable before has happened like this, she no longer feels strange, and she will not deny the relationship between them like this.

She never thought of taming Han Yi and letting him change for herself.

Some women, after something like her and Han Yi happens, may just endure it, and some women who only love first may think that they mistakenly believe that "hard work will pay off", and the direction of their efforts is wrong, so they resolutely break up and never look back.

If you like the bright appearance of a pair of shoes, you have to endure its misfit, and the tearful "just endure it" will eventually turn into a blood blister that cannot be removed for a lifetime.

It's better to admit that you are superficial and only love the surface. Admit superficiality, and finally know that those who love superficial should love how much.

A boyfriend in this world is not as hard to find as good shoes as it is, what is difficult to find is the right one and has the fur that everyone likes. But in the end, it will still come down to life, so appearance and even material things are not necessarily very important.

Bai Xue didn't say "break up" explicitly from beginning to end, but temporarily separated, because she didn't want to cut it in two like this, hoping to have a good ending with Han Yi. The important thing is whether that heart can accompany her to old age, and whether that person can hold flowers and smile at her.