The years flow in the eyes, life is sublimated in the story, let the memory swim in the depths of the soul, and pour out the story you want to hear in the ear with the most beautiful voice, which is the enjoyment that no one wants to refuse when you are quiet.

Life is a process of awakening, life is an experience, from fresh clothes and angry horses, to silver bowls full of snow, from green years to white hair and sideburns, people will always grow up in the experience, understand in the experience, so as to mature step by step, and cultivate a calm heart.

Now Han Yi is going through such a tempering, and he has been growing and changing. And Bai Xue, as simple as before, has not changed anything, is this good or bad?

In the past, when someone criticized, they would always be sad and sad, but now, they know how to face it, in order to be a better version of themselves, in the past, some people ridiculed and always found someone to theorize, but now, they will no longer punish themselves for the mistakes made by others.

In the past, I didn't want to have more, but now I want to grab what I want to get.

Some people say, slowly only know, some things the more you grasp the faster the loss, it is better to go with the flow, to learn to live wisely, the four seasons of life, how can it always be spring, a season has a season of taste, are the gifts and gifts of the years, learn to tolerate each other with time, accept, delete the complicated and simple to go to their own preferences, indicating that the heart has become mature.

Qiu Lang's change is to begin to learn to slow down, so that the slowed down life is not in a hurry, a cup of warm tea, an idle book, can also pass the time for half a day. Begin to learn to think, loneliness is the normal state of life, still water is life, so as to examine yourself, let the inner become warm, let the soul become abundant, maintain the inner peace and clean, not humble or arrogant, warm and bright, the beauty of this world comes from your gentle treatment of life.

But Han Yi's change is to become stronger, want to prove himself, and want to keep trying to climb up. He always asks himself, shouldn't he be ambitious and self-motivated at this age?

When people reach a certain age, they will choose to be with people who make them happy, with people who are sunny, there will be no darkness in their hearts, when they are with people who are broad-minded, there will be no narrowness, and when they are with firm people, there will be little confusion in their hearts.

Bai Xue felt that Han Yi's change should be in this direction, like Qiu Lang.

Another person woke up aimlessly, sat in a daze for two or three minutes, not knowing what to do. A lie, in just two days, made Bai Xue become a person, the doubts in her heart made her lose her direction, she decided to solve the doubts in her heart step by step, and felt that it was time to find Hao Yali.

It is often said that when you see others as angels, you live in heaven; When you see others as devils, you live in hell. Happy people are not free from pain, but they are not swayed by pain.

In fact, everyone who doesn't know how to love will meet someone who knows love. Then experience a heart-rending love, and then separate. Later, people who don't know how to love slowly understand. I know how to love people, but I don't dare to love anymore.

There are only two in the world

A kind of tragedy: one is that you can't get what you want; One is that getting is not cherished.

Do you have any of these ideas? I often struggle with memories, and there are many memories that I can't let go. I can't see what my future looks like, and I am so confused that I don't know what to do in the face of the future. I really want to indulge myself, I hope that I will be completely drunk once, and a "tired" mood suddenly arises in my heart, and I feel that I am very tired and tired. Suddenly, I wanted to escape from my current life, and I wanted to pack my simple luggage and wander desperately.

But it is clear that the two of them are lovers, lovers who have already proposed, lovers who are ready to meet their parents, at this juncture, Bai Xue feels that her struggle is very unnecessary, if she says it, she feels extremely hypocritical, but she just can't control her emotions. She also wants to be a calm person, a kind person, a person with a smile on her lips and happiness in her heart. If you can't see it, you can't hear it, so why bother yourself. I don't want to be noisy, I don't want to make trouble, and I've been in a good mood lately.

Let Han Yi be her everything, maybe it was a mistake from the beginning.

Love, just like two people pulling a rubber band, the one who hurts is always the one who lets go.

"You've changed, I've not." This thought sometimes came to Bai Xue's mind.

If a pair of lovers have doubts about each other, the tenderness that cannot be returned will be like a fountain of tears, and he will feel that the person he knows the most is the one who has become the most heart-wrenching.

"To be in the wilderness of time, not one step earlier or one step later, among thousands of people, to meet their lovers, that is too rare fate, more often, we are just constantly missing each other, missing the spring of poplar flowers, and missing the autumn of maple leaves and Thurso, until the sky is full of snow, we can finally understand - even sincere, even intimate, even if two people are already related, our love, still need time to be fulfilled and tested. But we didn't miss it, what am I doing? Why can't I just pretend I don't know? Bai Xue asked herself, "Isn't it just a little lie?" Aren't they just some inconsequential people? ”

If a woman gets into the tip of the horns, it is terrible! Han Yi didn't know that Bai Xue was torturing herself.

When she feels uncomfortable and wants to cry, she will close her eyes to prevent it from crying; When she was lonely, she would quietly think about what Han Yi had done for her; When she is sad, she will stay at home alone in a quiet daze, and then tell herself that she still has to face it and persevere; When she is sad, she will disguise herself and say to others: "I'm fine, I'm happy"; When she is lost, she will smile and say to herself, it's okay, everything will pass.

However, she doesn't know if it will pass, and she doesn't know how long it will take to stop dwelling.

If you want to give a definition of a good life, it is comfort. If you want to give a definition of comfort, it is three or five confidants, talking and laughing. She can live such a life now, but why should she have suspicions about Han Yi?

After a long time, will it feel like it will be gone, and the heart will go with it!

"Good morning! Is the injury on your hand healed? Eat breakfast obediently and start to be full of energy

One day! ”

Han Yi sent a WeChat message, but even so, Bai Xue did not reply. If this had been put aside, she would not have been moved to the warmth of her heart.

She didn't miss him very much, but when she woke up in the morning, she would always check to see if there was a message from him; She didn't miss him very much, but when she was listening to a song, she was hit by a certain lyric, and a brief blank appeared in her mind; She didn't miss him very much, she just wanted to see what he looked like and hear his voice; She didn't miss him very much, but every time she woke up, she was the first to think of him······

She didn't reply, not because she didn't love her, but because she hoped that Han Yi would be honest with her. Don't lie, trust each other is a promise they have made, a precious promise.

Time is innocent, time is calm, it does not discriminate, it flows quietly.

Han Yi didn't deliberately wait for Bai Xue's reply, but compared to the past, when she always replied to messages in seconds, he was a little uncomfortable, thinking about it, maybe she was driving, maybe she was eating breakfast, maybe her phone was not around, so it was understandable to think about it without replying.

There is a kind of pain that others don't understand, because we can cover it up with a smile and wrap it up with indifference.

In "The Big Bang Theory", Xie Er said this:

I have never been able to understand the fact that people spend their lives chasing another human being and spending their lives together. Maybe I'm too interesting to be in the company of others, so I wish you as much happiness in each other as I do for yourself.

Perhaps, people in love should also learn how to get happiness from themselves when they are alone, instead of pinning all their feelings and joys and sorrows on each other.

(End of chapter)