Perhaps everyone will inevitably have a time of inferiority, sensitivity and loneliness in their lives.

For Bai Xue, it means 19 to 22 years old. At that time, I was in college in Chongqing, and Han Yi was in Wuhan, and they never saw each other again after graduating from high school, but there was always a love hidden in her heart.

As the only small-town girl in the dormitory, she quickly felt different. It's different, when the girls in the dormitory get together to talk about a certain brand, she can't tell whether it's clothes or cosmetics; It was when they dressed up to go shopping that she hid in the library out of place.

The city in front of her was full of people, but she had a kind of despair that she couldn't squeeze in even if she was squashed. I don't know if anyone can understand the loneliness of being out of the crowd.

And some people, like a beam of light. Obviously, that person is Keiko.

They have been good friends since high school, but she is such a confident girl, she said, Cher, the future will always be fine!

She is one year higher than Bai Xue, and when she said this, her whole person was shrouded in the sunset, and she looked particularly beautiful. And the little overstretched inferiority complex in Bai Xue's heart was brightened up by her little by little.

Bai Xue remembered the little embarrassment that they didn't understand anything when they went to eat Western food for the first time; I also remember the little excitement when they went to the mall counter together and bought their first Dior perfume······ It was originally a bit of a bad time, but because of someone to accompany me, many things didn't seem so difficult.

Keiko is an idle person, as soon as she entered the university, she began her "business" path, Taobao stores opened one after another, her academic performance was not so outstanding, but her business was booming in the eyes of money.

Bai Xue, a well-known scholar, and then the number of times the two meet is getting less and less, and when many friends are lost all the way, they are always ranked first in each other's friends list.

Why haven't they ever been separated?

Bai Xue thought about it, maybe because of all these years, Keiko and I have been growing together and accompanying each other too much. They strive to live abundantly in the same city, and strive to become a landscape. With this kind of spiritual companionship, they can easily maintain a friendship.

Everyone has a sieve in their hearts, and the process of selecting friends is more demanding, and the requirements for companionship are also higher.

Some people think that eating and shopping together is companionship, but compared with this icing on the cake noise, you are not around but you are still in your heart, which is a deeper level of companionship.

Just like Bai Xue and Keiko, they each have their own lives now, and they don't see each other often, but they know each other's recent situation well, and they both know clearly in their hearts that no matter when, there is always someone who can talk to them about the exquisite soul and the poetic distance.

In this world, some people accompany you with time, while some people accompany you with your soul.

Sooner or later, you have to experience a love. Don't ask the cause, don't ask the effect. It's just that I love you, so I'm willing to wait for you.

In the summer of the year when she was 22 years old, she and Han Yi came together, and Keiko naturally had a lot of credit.

Are she and Han Yi separated now?

Every soft moment in life is more precious if someone shares it with you.

Some people may say that she can read books and watch discs alone, she can live a life of silk by herself, and she can accompany herself alone. But on the road to growth, there must be another person to accompany you through the ups and downs of the unknown, go through the twists and turns of life, enjoy the brightness of the years, and life can be considered soft.

But everyone hopes that there is such a person, whether in friendship or love.

In front of this person, she doesn't have to be poor, she doesn't need to be bright, she doesn't have to read the world, and she doesn't have to become famous. It doesn't matter if she hasn't seen all the prosperity of the world, the years of being accompanied by someone are already the most appropriate beautiful scenery.

The world in front of her may look a little rough, and the years are not so gentle, when she keeps running forward, I hope someone will count the morning and dusk with her, and accompany her until the green silk is peeled into white hair, and the spring thunder resounded through the cold winter; May she be strong enough to be with no one to accompany her, but still lucky enough to have someone by her side.

And one day, when she crossed the mountains and walked into the depths of the flowers, she did not forget those who accompanied her, they were the best gifts left to her by the years.

May there be a plain heart, accompany you to count the morning and dusk!

Bai Xue didn't say anything to Han Yi in the video call, maybe she hoped that Han Yi could say something.

"How long have you been silent?" Bai Yang asked his sister, "Is this kid Han Yi bad for you?" ”

Bai Xue stared at her sister, her smile was like the sun at noon, "What? Do you want to call him and scold him? Don't think I don't know, you've already united with him! My own sister has stepped aside! ”

She cleaned up the table briefly, then continued, "I know he's always done good for me, but sometimes······ Oops, you're going to leave us alone! Don't you want to go to the place where you lived before, let's go now, or the sun will be poisonous at noon! ”

When Bai Yang came to Chongqing before, he lived in a house for two months, which was exactly where Bai Xue had just moved out. Bai Xue wanted to take advantage of Han Yi's absence to take her sister over to have a look.

"I'm too lazy to care! I'm here, just to help you prevaricate the same parents, if it's not me this time, it's them, I don't want you to quarrel again! Poplar knew that he couldn't pry his sister's mouth open, but he didn't forget to scare her.

"You mean Mom and Dad are coming?" Bai Xue looked frightened, "Sister, you can help me stop them!" ”

"Do you know to beg me at this time? In short, I hope you will tell them kindly no matter what, don't miss the phone call, don't reply to the text message······"

Halfway through Bai Yang's words, Bai Xue took the opportunity to escape, "Let's go!" Let's go! ”

My sister thought about what she had just asked Bai Xue, "Is it good for you?" ”

And Bai Xue said it was "for my good".

She couldn't help but talk to Bai Xue about the difference between the two, one is "good for you" and the other is "good for you".

They were chatting, and Bai Yang said that some time ago, I heard a girl in a coffee shop say to a friend: I hate it when I fall in love, and the other party says "I'm for your good!" at every turn! ”

When the girl said this, her mood was like a state of going back to her parents during the rebellious period: You care so much about me!

I've seen too many young couples break up because they restrain each other too much, and there are thousands of reasons, but it sounds ridiculous.

You are not allowed to have any contact with the boss of the opposite sex, you are not allowed to participate in any social activities, and you are not allowed to wear crop tops······

It's obviously a constraint imposed on the other half, but I have to say it in a high-sounding way: I'm all for your good.

The best state of love is absolute possession and relative freedom.

You don't need to go to the trouble of knowing everything about him, you just need to know the side he wants you to know.

You know that he can change for you now, so why care about what he was like in the past?

You don't need to give the other party too many constraints, because what you loved from the beginning was the free and free love of life, so why be selfish and let him live as you want?

You can have countless things that are not good enough, but you are the warmest being for him.

The girl said that she was in love, and her boyfriend would never say something nice to make the girl happy, and she would die if she couldn't talk to the girl for more than two sentences.

And girls belong to the kind of little girls who like sweet words, and naturally don't look down on each other at first.

Until one day, I was sick and had to work overtime, and I felt very sorry for myself, so I posted a news.

Those ambiguous objects who say nice things to make her happy every day, without exception, just comment on the circle of friends and say "drink more hot water".

Looking at these replies without substantive concern, she felt angry and funny.

At this time, the boy called and said, "I'll take you back."

There was no word of concern, but her eyes were full of love, she prepared medicine for her, cooked soup, and drove downstairs to the company to pick her up.

She said that girls are very pragmatic and prefer boys to be honest and good to them, rather than just talking.

Bai Yang wanted to ask her sister whether Han Yi was the former or the latter, but she still held back and didn't ask.

My sister said: Love is actually that he knows how to feel sorry for you when you haven't cried, and when you are not tired enough, he will rely on you. True love is not to move you all at once, but to be kind to you like a long stream. All care without practical action is, If love grows in the heart, it is as simple as people need three meals a day, eat and sleep. True love is to fall into the ordinary firewood, rice, oil and salt, I want to leave you with everything I eat, I want to take you with everything I see, I want to give you all my goodness. Only people who have you in their hearts will think of you naturally, casually, and unintentionally all the time, and will put their kindness to you into trivial details······ Companionship is the most affectionate confession, find a warm lover, and then hold hands to spend the rest of your life together. No matter how many he has, always leave the best and the most to you.

From this point of view, Sister Poplar's Chicken Soup for the Soul sentence is not less read.

Along the way, Bai Xue concentrated on driving, while her sister chattered all the way, because of her sister's company, Bai Xue was not disgusted, nodded, and listened carefully.

Love is like a person drinking water and knowing it, in addition to love, friendship is also like this.

You don't have to tell me too much, you just need to stay with me when I fall out of love, and help me when I need it.

She said:

I have a friend who was fine and fine, but was persuaded to break up by others. To put it simply, what her boyfriend does, and her friends around her say that there is something wrong.

Why didn't he take you when he went out with his friends? Why doesn't he have a photo of you in his circle of friends? He doesn't love you at all, so break up with him······

If you want me to say that this boyfriend is wronged enough, he was sentenced to death by some unknown judges, and he didn't even have a chance to defend himself.

After the breakup, her friend regretted it, and she remembered that her boyfriend was good to her.

People will always idealize their feelings, you have a boyfriend by yourself and you don't live for them to see, always want to selfishly possess everything, and in the end you find that nothing belongs to you.

We are always busy fiddling other people's lives the way we want them to be, but we don't take the time to live our lives well

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Bai Xue has never seen such a sister, such a sister! She was very happy, very, very happy. Because her impression of her sister is plagued by depression all year round, sometimes good and sometimes bad, and rarely can speak. Now she is so happy to see her talking and laughing, and saying so much truth to her.

People will go through the stage of falling out of love, being disappointed and frustrated, and the chaotic mood at that time will not be able to listen to the big truth at all.

Therefore, as long as Bai Xue can't figure it out by herself or doesn't want to figure it out, it is useless for my sister to say more.

At this time, what you need most is a gentle hug from your dear person, gentle comfort, and maybe you can add that no matter what you decide, I will support you and accompany you.

These are more heartwarming than those useless big truths, because she understands all the truths, and she just wants her sister to stand on her side now, or buy a lot of delicious food to gag her mouth.

Poplar said: "The best relationship is not when she says it's good for you and then gives you love all the time in his way." But even if you make a wrong decision, you will never recover, and you will fall into the abyss, but when you look back and see that he is still there! I want him to be good to you, not for you. ”

After saying so much, Bai Xue probably only remembered this sentence.

In fact, the love that Bai Xue understands is "good to you" without purpose.

She said that she had menstrual cramps, so he immediately put down the wine bureau and went home to boil brown sugar water for her.

She said she had a fever and he could skip the party and go home and make soup for her.

When you see a good scenery, you will remember to take pictures and send them to her, and when you hear a funny joke, you must tell her to it, and remember to bring her over next time when you eat a delicious restaurant.

Every time he went shopping, he would have something to buy her, and on Valentine's Day, he would prepare a gift in advance, and before that he would say that he had forgotten, so that every time it became an unexpected surprise.

It's easy to talk sweetly, but it's hard to be genuine.

Can't wait to be "good to you", because every thought in my heart, is about you.

Han Yi used to do all of the above for her, but three years have passed, and that feeling is a little far away.