Seek to collect, push, ask for points, ask for support!

This meal was quite harmonious after Niu Xiulan said a few sour words at the beginning and was immediately suppressed.

After eating, Lin Xiaoman and the young mother-in-law sat on the edge of the kang and chatted, it was nothing more than that some of their bodies were fine, and they should pay attention to it when they were young.

Although Lin Xiaoman was not stunned, there was always something strange in his heart, and he also had some shyness of a bride, and he was very satisfied with hearing more and talking less. Look at the unassuming and sensible, this is her ideal daughter-in-law, but she is too thin to do anything.

Thinking about it like this, she remembered Lin Xiaoman's work, she had to find someone quickly, and let her go to work when she got married and waited for her son to leave.

Lin Xiaoman is not very sociable, but she is not social, Gao's mother is very talkative, and she will not be cold if she is in the middle of everything. Until the two daughters-in-law outside cleaned up, Niu Xiulan went to the Westinghouse to bring her daughter over from her husband, coaxing the child, "Call the second aunt, and the second aunt will give a red envelope." ”

Lin Xiaoman has a black line, she has become a big mother? Moreover, Niu Xiulan's appearance is too ugly, right? When you get married, can this red envelope be without these children? She took out five cents from her pocket and stuffed it into the child's clothes, and explained slightly apologetically: "Wait until the wedding day to wrap a big bag for Yueyue." ”

Gao's mother also felt embarrassed, this little daughter-in-law just can't get on the stage, this is not what it is to ask for money, it is strange that the child can only shout "second aunt" for a few months now. "Don't bother with her, what a big bag, this is a change of money."

Niu Xiulan was anxious when she heard this, and was just about to open her mouth when her mother-in-law glared back. Gao's mother thought that this title was not good, and rolled her eyes at her little daughter-in-law, "In the future, you will be called Erniang directly, and there will be no eldest mother, so it will be weird." ”

It happened that Gao's father came over and heard it, and discussed it with his wife, "Otherwise, just change your name to Uncle and Aunt." Xiuhua is a woman, and she doesn't need to be ranked in seniority, and she will marry out. ”

used to be called Gao Jianjun by the second and second child, but now she is called the second sister-in-law, and the children are called Erniang, and there is a big lady above, which is really not good.

Gao Mu thought about it and said, "Then change your words." ”

So Lin Xiaoman was promoted from the second mother to the eldest mother.

The corners of Lin Xiaoman's mouth twitched slightly, looked at the time, stood up and said goodbye, "My mother and my father are still waiting, they let Jianjun go over for dinner in the evening, I think although it is not as good as at home, it is also a piece of the second elder's heart." ”

Gao's mother smiled from ear to ear and waved her hand: "Go quickly, so that your parents don't have to work hard, and there will be more opportunities to eat in the future." ”

Lin Xiaoman and Gao Jianjun breathed a sigh of relief when they left the Gao family, she was not restrained, but she had no experience, and she knew that her mother-in-law and mother-in-law were different.

Thinking of living with her mother-in-law, she felt a little depressed in her heart, you must know that she has heard too much about the discord between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, she looked at the man, if he went up a little further, she could go to the army with him.

She thought about it in her heart, and Gao Jianjun looked at her for a while with a little amusement on her face, "What's wrong?" My mom embarrassed you? ”

"Nope." She hesitated for a moment, but decided to ask clearly, "Brother Jianjun, are your troops only allowed to follow the army until they reach the deputy battalion level?" ”

She vaguely remembered that there seemed to be such a rule, but it would be changed to a company level in another twenty or thirty years. I don't know if she remembers, right?

Gao Jianjun stopped, "You want to join the army?" ”

Isn't this nonsense? Who wants to be separated from their husband for a long time?

But listening to the meaning of his words, he didn't think about this problem? Lin Xiaoman looked at him puzzled, a little dazed, but he was slandering in his heart, if he couldn't live in his mother-in-law's house with the army, it would be better not to get married and live in his mother's house.

Anyway, it's a lot more casual.

Gao Jianjun pondered for a moment, "I can't do it now, my mother means that when you get married, you will find someone to let you go to the township primary school as a substitute teacher." Let's see if I can turn it into a regular in the future. ”

So? Lin Xiaoman still looked at him blankly.

Gao Jianjun thought for a while and said euphemistically: "I am the eldest in the family...... In the future, I will try to come back once a year. ”

Lin Xiaoman's heart sank slightly, the meaning of his words was obvious, I don't know why, she suddenly felt very ridiculous and aggrieved.

She lowered her head and smiled bitterly, who told her not to say hello in advance, only to dwell on something that didn't happen, but ignored the present.

In fact, she had heard that there were not many grassroots officers in the army in this era, and many grassroots officers came from rural areas, and their wives had to serve the elderly and take care of the family at home......

But she really didn't expect such a thing to happen to her before, maybe Gao Jianjun was bent on marrying her, giving her an illusion.

She sighed slightly, and when she looked up at him again, she was back to normal, "I know. She didn't say, "You don't have to worry about handing over the home to me," she didn't say more than she did, and besides, she didn't have much confidence.

My parents will tolerate your character and your willfulness no matter what, but will your in-laws do? Although she thinks she is a very good character.

Gao Jianjun saw that her reaction was very calm, but he was a little uneasy, and he knew that Xiao Man was not the kind of submissive character in the countryside, and he was really surprised that she didn't argue with reason.

In fact, he didn't think about waiting a few years for his wife to join the army, but when he came back this time, the two younger brothers in the family got married and split up, and the younger sister was also older, and he would go out in a few years.

In rural areas, most of the elderly live with their eldest son, but there are also many distressed young people who live with their younger son. But his parents separated the two younger brothers, and the meaning was self-evident, that is, they wanted to follow him.

His previous idea was not suitable.

He thought for a while and explained: "The third and fourth are all married, and in the future, my parents will get older and older, and there must always be people around me." ”

Lin Xiaoman understood what he meant as soon as he heard it, and nodded, "I understand." "Forget it, if you can't follow the army, you can't follow the army, anyway, she and Gao Jianjun don't have that deep relationship to support them to reach an inseparable position.

It's okay this way, it's more comfortable.

Besides, who can say for sure what will happen in the future?

Maybe they will divorce in a short time, and maybe he will change jobs and come back in two years, isn't it stupid to think about it now?

She smiled: "Let's go, my parents must be in a hurry to see the marriage certificate." Of course, it would have made them happier if the son had received it.

Gao Jianjun saw that she was smiling without any guilt, and put down a big stone in his heart. He made a wish to her: "In the future, I will strive to come back once a year, and if you really can't come back, you will go over to see me." ”