Chapter 174: Godchildren, parents lead by example
Lin Yang was picked up.
Lin Caiwei and Caixia gave him a look.
Obedient Bao twisted her little ass and pouted, "Mother, Yang'er is not sleepy and doesn't want to sleep." ”
"Oh, isn't Yang'er sleepy? But the story is over, will we tell it tomorrow? Zhang Xiulan smiled, with a coax in her tone.
"But, but Yang'er wants to hear it today!" Lin Yang sells cuteness and coquettishness.
"No way!" Zhang Xiulan refused.
"Lan'er, if the child wants to hear it, I'll talk about another one." Lin Feng looked at the three children and said.
"No way!" Zhang Xiulan's face was cold, "Caiwei, Caixia, sleep, I want to hear it tomorrow!" ”
"Yes, mother."
Seeing that their mother was angry, the two sisters hurried back to the room.
After the children were asleep, Lin Feng hugged his wife, "Lan'er, you are fierce today, and the children are scared." ”
"You know what? I used to be with Xiao Xuan all day long, why didn't my brain grow? Zhang Xiulan was a little angry and pushed away unhappily.
"Lan'er!" Lin Feng grabbed her hand, grinned, and said softly, "You know, I'm not a reading material, and I don't understand what Xiao Xuan says all day long." ”
"You still have the face to say?" glared at him dissatisfied, and said happily: "Fortunately, Yang'er follows me, with my Zhang family's bloodline, and Xiaoxuan is devoted to teaching, unlike you, five big and three thick, and there is no ink on your chest." ”
"Yes, yes, Lan'er said yes!" Lin Feng nodded, how many years have passed, Lan'er compared Xiao Xuan with him as soon as she thought of this, but she didn't want to think about it, Xiao Xuan was the smartest talent in these ten miles and eight towns, but unfortunately, now ......
"I didn't want to say it, but you don't know what's wrong!" Zhang Xiulan sighed helplessly, "There is a story like this, there was a couple a long time ago.
One day, the child wanted to eat pork, and it happened that his wife was going to the market, and her son cried and said he would follow her.
The wife immediately said, "Go back, and when I get home, I will kill a pig for you."
When the wife came back to the market, she saw that her husband had seized a pig and was about to kill it.
The wife hurriedly stopped and asked why, and the husband said what she had said before going to the market.
His wife immediately said to him: It was playing with children, and it should not be taken seriously.
The husband said, "Children can't play with him."
Children are young and ignorant, so they need to rely on their parents' dedicated teaching, hearing and seeing, and learning slowly in order to obey their parents' teachings.
Now you are deceiving him to teach him to deceive.
If a mother deceives her son, the son will not trust his mother, which is not the way to educate the child well.
To teach children, you have to lead by example.
So he killed the pig and boiled it. After the story was finished, Zhang Xiulan asked, "Do you understand?" ”
"Why kill? But a joke told to a child, you don't need to take it seriously! Lin Feng said indifferently.
Zhang Xiulan kicked over, "Your brain was kicked by a donkey?" That's clear enough. Parents should lead by example. ”
“…… It's a joke, just make it clear to your child. Lin Feng said with a smile.
"You...... I'm. Lin Feng, how did you come here as a general? ”
"Lan'er, what you said is not right, I rely on strength." Lin Feng said that he fought bloodily for several years, and in the last battle, he captured the enemy generals alive, but his comrades-in-arms ......
Thinking of his comrades who died on the battlefield, he was sad.
Seeing him like this, Zhang Xiulan couldn't bear to blame, she told him what she understood the content of the story, "Xianggong, this story tells us that parents are the first enlighteners of their children.
Parents' words and deeds have a great impact on their children's future growth, so as parents, you should set an example for your children and lead by example. ”
Lin Feng nodded, "I see." ”
Seeing that his eyes were no longer dim, she was relieved.
But when she thought that he still cared about others and didn't know much about her children, she said angrily: "However, look at the husband in this story, and then look at you."
What did other people's fathers do, and how did you, a father, do you?
Look at you, you only hunt and don't care enough about children. ”
"Yes, yes, what Lan'er said is, I don't care enough about the children. So except for the position of General Dingyuan, I don't want gold and silver treasures, horses and beauties. As long as I have a month off, I can spend time with the children and make up for my missing years. Of course, the most important thing is to make up for the lady. I'm out of the house, and the lady is taking care of the house inside and out, so forget it, the lady also led the children to the border to find me alone.
If I have a wife like this, I will not live up to this life even if I die on the battlefield. ”
Zhang Xiulan kicked over, "What did you say, what you can't die, you feel sorry for me, you owe the children, you have to be ready to make up for it all your life, I don't allow you to die." The cold and hard opening was a mess, but my heart was already moved.
"Yes. I listen to the lady, I must be good, I won't die. Lin Feng had a serious face, and suddenly, he asked with a hippie smile: "Lady, you see, I am trying to be a good father." However, please also ask the lady to teach, what does this story have to do with me telling stories to children?! ”