Han Yi and Bai Xue quarreled for just a few minutes as if it were a whim, and they reconciled after a while. I don't know why I quarreled in hindsight,

"Let me see if there are any bruises!"

After returning home, Bai Xue opened Han Yi's T-shirt to see if Han Yi was injured by the yellow-haired boy, because she saw Han Yi's abdomen kicked hard.

"It's okay! I'm not so scared that I can't resist the beating! ”

Han Yi didn't get into trouble, but he felt very embarrassed. He was half a head taller than the yellow-haired boy, and he wanted to be able to easily turn off his live broadcast phone, but he didn't expect to be killed. It turns out that whether you can play or not has little to do with height.

"Blame me too! At that time, I just went with you, and I blamed you······"

Bai Xue blamed herself a little, took out a small bag of ice cubes from the refrigerator, and put it on Han Yi. In an instant, Han Yi seemed to have become her patient, and Han Yi was not even allowed to pour a glass of water by himself.

"You said I was wearing denim trousers, and the top was not revealing, what is there to photograph! And you, if you are filmed, I won't lose a piece of meat, what if those boys really beat you? If your family finds out, they'll hate me to death! ”

However, it is a trivial matter, Bai Xue is concerned about it, for fear that Han Yi will be injured.

It was still the pitiful self-esteem that was at work, and Han Yi said impatiently: "Okay! It's all right. I'll go take a shower first, and you can also go upstairs to take a shower and change your clothes. ”

Only then did Bai Xue realize that in her opinion, it didn't matter at all, Han Yi cared very much, and he was inexplicably angry at the mention of the yellow-haired boy.

"Okay, I'll come down later, and I'll tell you something."

How to say that Han Yi is only twenty-eight years old, and he is still young and vigorous, it doesn't matter much if he is kicked, but he loses people in front of Bai Xue, which he is unwilling to admit and cannot tolerate. And in the eyes of women, they don't seem to understand this psychology.

turned off the lights, Han Yi and Bai Xue lay on the sofa, as if the world was quiet. The light from the huge LCD TV makes the whole living room dark and bright for a while.

Bai Xue held Han Yi's hand tightly and leaned on his shoulder, "Keiko showed me the information of the Serious Illness Relief Public Welfare Fund and gave me a position, so that I can go to Shanghai to accompany you, and I don't have to be in the same city like now, and I only see each other for half a month or even a month." But only if I have to give up my job in the hospital······"

Han Yi immediately became nervous, and quickly interrupted to explain: "That's not what I meant!" She came to me before you came back and asked me to help her refer to it. ”

"What are you nervous about? I didn't say that you asked her to do this, I just wanted to ask for your opinion, and to be honest, I want to be with you every day. Wake up and say good morning, say good night before going to bed, and see you every day. It's just, it's just ······"

Bai Xue was very moved, she seriously considered what Keiko said, and was ready to go to the school and hospital to explain the situation to the tutors. It's just that when she was about to make a decision at the end, she began to hesitate again, wanting to hear Han

Yi's thoughts.

It is not difficult to see that Bai Xue likes to stay in the city and is not willing to say goodbye to life here.

"Don't listen to her! Being a pediatrician is your ideal, and no one can selfishly deprive you of the right to pursue your dreams, including me! Distance is not a problem, I will come to accompany you as soon as I have time, and I promise you that when all this is over and the company in Shanghai is stable, I will move back to Chongqing and live with you. But I'm not sure how long this will keep you waiting, maybe a year, maybe two years······"

Han Yi didn't want to make such a sure promise, because he was afraid that he would not be able to fulfill it, so Bai Xue waited hard, full of hope but finally got disappointment.

"So, don't you want me to accept this job and go to Shanghai?" Shirayuki smiled, not wanting the topic to be so heavy.

Keiko also came out of medical school, but she had already found her direction and started making money as early as her freshman and sophomore year and living the life of a strong woman. Being a boss and making a lot of money is the goal she pursues. And Bai Xue, she never thought that she would give up her dream of becoming a doctor.

She hasn't made any major decisions, if she does, maybe the first is to study medicine, and the second is to be with Han Yi. How could she make such a clean decision with such a big problem at this time?

"I hope we can be together, but I don't want you to give up your ideals because of this, I can't be so selfish, so I can't be with you with peace of mind." Han Yi kissed the white snow, and then said with a smile: "So, I mean, don't accept the position she gave you, if you believe me, wait, okay?" ”

"Hmm!"

Bai Xue was very moved, because Han Yi did not ask her to give up her work and ideals in the name of "for our good" and "for your good".

If Han Yi made her have to choose between the two, she would be very hurt. She is very moved by Keiko's proposal, and she is willing to make some sacrifices, even give up her ideals.

At this moment, if Keiko knew that Han Yi said this, she would definitely be so angry that she scratched her cheeks. It was a well-intentioned decision made for the two of them, but he didn't appreciate it.

A man's desires and pursuits are often because of the woman he loves in his heart.

Han Yi was reluctant to admit that his desire for money was the same as that of other people, and he would never think that he earned too much, and he would never feel that he was rich, even if in Bai Xue's opinion, he was rich enough.

So he didn't want to kidnap Bai Xue's ideals because of his selfish desires.

Many people like to do things with high-sounding reasons like "for your good", and in love, this is actually an excuse forcibly woven by many scumbags and scumbags to avoid moral condemnation, and it can also create a good image for themselves. This is a key to get out easily, it can allow people to take the moral high ground first, obtain a status similar to that of an elder, and do whatever you want with a condescending posture and "reasonableness". Anyone who has had a story knows it, in the name of your good,

Often, they are about to do or are ready to do all kinds of things that hurt you.

Han Yi even felt that he said, "For my good, for us, come with me to Shanghai!" In this way, it is a selfish "for your good" behavior to Bai Xue.

Some people's "for your good" is a disgusting behavior.

If a person thinks that you are hurting in the name of your goodness, in fact, this person is really thinking about his or her own interests; If a person thinks that you are in the name of your goodness, in fact, this person thinks that you are hindering him or her; If a person leaves you in the name of your goodness, in fact that person has already found the next target to be harmed.

These people do a lot of things that they don't want to say clearly, and then prevaricate you with a high-sounding reason, so that you can't blame him or her. These people never think about your feelings and never care about what you really want.

They do all kinds of things to hurt you in the name of your good, and not only do they not even have any remorse afterwards, but they also use your good to show that they have a clear conscience. Such a righteous and awe-inspiring saint style is really disgusting. Even if you are selfish, you have to use a high-sounding reason to elevate yourself, don't you think it's hypocritical?

It's as if you've hurt someone else, and others don't understand that it's someone else's fault that "it's for your good." This kind of behavior, such a reason, shamelessly elevates oneself, and a tasteless backbeat, it's really disgusting.

Some people's "for your good" is a terrible act.

The terrible thing is that it is extremely selfish, and it will also package its own selfishness, which is extremely shameless. Ordinary people who have done bad things to others are generally more or less guilty. But these "good for you" people not only do not feel guilty, but they also package themselves as a benefactor, as if he or she is the compassionate Avalokiteshvara.

These people are good at disguise, have a strong psychology, and have the potential to be politicians. In order to achieve their goals, they can use all the means at their disposal, or they can discard some things that they consider to be a burden.

If a businessman advertises to customers how affordable and worthwhile the product is, then he just wants to make a small profit; If a businessman talks to people about dreams, interests, fever, collects fans, starts a sect, and doesn't talk about money at all, then he is not ambitious, and wants to make a lot of money.

Those who talk about money have too narrow horizons and can only make a small amount of money; When it comes to dreams, he has a wide vision and is destined to make a lot of money. Similarly, if you are hurt or break up and say you don't like it, those people will be considered scumbags and scumbags; If you hurt you or say "good for you" when you break up, these people will be considered love saints, and they will even be artificially good men and women.

In fact, compared with the former's profligate wreckage, the latter's sanctimonious appearance is a more high-end way to play. So, these people are very scary.

If you love someone, don't selfishly ask for the other person in the name of "for your own good", to kidnap the other person's ideals, and to make the other person accommodate you as you want.

O pure man, few people are as real as your parents

Everything is for your own good. Don't be deceived by the wolf in sheep's clothing, the real villain is blatant, and you can prevent it, the hypocrite is true or false, and it is impossible to prevent it.

Han Yi really wanted Bai Xue to go to Shanghai to live with him, but this was undoubtedly a harm to Bai Xue, he didn't want to do anything to hurt Bai Xue and become the disgusting and terrible person in love. What he said about Jean Bai Xue and so on, may be a little selfish, but compared to giving up her ideals, this is the best choice he thinks, and he already has a plan in his heart.

(End of chapter)