"Wouldn't it!?" Han Yi asked himself, "How could Ammy like me?" ”

My sister must have misjudged, it's just nonsense! In short, he didn't think about it in the slightest.

Ammy messages him and asks him to wait for her and Mo Xiyan in the VIP lounge. He sent the flight information to Xia Bo before getting on the plane, and then began to think about what his sister said to him.

Han Yi thought to himself, it doesn't seem to show any flaws! How could my mother be so powerful and guess that he had a fight with Bai Xue? Maybe it's because I avoided talking about it and didn't want to show a little clue, so I happened to be exposed, and after all, I didn't escape her eyes, maybe this is the so-called Zhizi Mo Ruomu.

No matter how much you pretend to be nothing, it will be reflected in your emotions, expressions and eyes, after all, you are the one who believes that you will be with your son for life.

Bai Xue only knew that he went to his sister's house after looking at Han Yi's circle of friends, watching their family happy, both envious and regretful, if it weren't for those people and those things, she should also be a member of this big family at this moment, but now she can only use fantasy scenes to satisfy her vision of a happy family.

But this kind of emotion is fleeting in her current life, now that she has moved out, she has to work, live, make money to pay rent, and honor her parents at home. She didn't think that this "temporary separation" with Han Yi was a decisive breakup, so she still had to live beautifully to prove to Han Yi that her independence was in her bones and had never changed, and she didn't need him to provide her with such good living conditions at all, and "imprisoned" her in what he thought was happiness.

Only when you can be wonderful alone can you love the whole world. If one person is not happy, it is difficult for two people to be happy. Life is not a math problem, and it is not a formula that can be automatically completed in the second half of life by applying the established formula of marriage.

She hopes that she will have high heels and running shoes, drink tea and drink; There are brave friends, there are awesome opponents; has a deep affection for everything in the past, but never looks back; It's beautiful, it's calm, it's fierce, it's gentle.

Bai Xue put on a mask, drank her favorite milk, and quietly flipped through the books that she hadn't finished yet. This state is already much, much better than after she moved out of Han Yi's house, at least she won't lose sleep and think wildly.

She also has to live beautifully alone, and live a happy face, and that face should be the appearance of her soul.

Yang Lan once talked about his experience in the UK:

After she failed the interview, she went to the café in her pajamas and coat, and the café was crowded, and she was arranged to sit in front of an elegant old lady, who did not look at her and wrote a note to her: The bathroom is turning around in your left back.

She remembered that the reason for her rejection of the interview was that she was dressed casually, and she was indignant at the other party's appearance, but at this moment she found that her sloppiness was disrespectful to others.

For 25 years, she said, her mother had been telling her that ability was the most important thing, and these British ladies had told her: Why should we judge people by their appearance?

A person is responsible for how he looks after the age of 40.

The ugliness of Chinese men seems to be a foregone conclusion: they wear baggy T-shirts and shorts, no fitted suits, and no ties, especially men over 40, who have oily pot-bellies and no taste.

We have been taught since childhood that ability is better than everything, and that beauty cannot be eaten, so what are we wasting our time on this?

But what about the facts? President Lincoln is said to have rejected a talented candidate after an interview, and when his aides asked him why, he said, "I don't like the way he looks!" The staff was puzzled: "Is it also his fault that a person is not good-looking?" Lincoln replied, "He has to be responsible for his appearance after the age of 40." ”

How can a person who respects others as well as himself allow himself to dress casually and be described as haggard? No one is obligated to discover your good inside through a sloppy exterior that you don't even care about.

"Your appearance is exactly what you give your life to be."

Cao Xueqin writes that the sentimental and sickly Daiyu is "two bends like frowning eyebrows, a pair of eyes that seem to be happy but not happy", the kind and cowardly Yingchun is "slightly plump, gentle and silent", and the shrewd and capable Tanchun is "handsome eyes and eyebrows, looking forward to Shenfei".

The melancholy person frowns, the generous person has gentle eyes, and the confident person naturally upturns the corners of his mouth...... These habits change over time.

In the same way, the humility of treating others, the elegance of conversation, the poetry and books read, and the richness of the heart...... will be projected on your face.

Someone once wrote that Deng Wendi was divorced, haggard and old, and no amount of top cosmetics could hide it; Later, Wendi Deng appeared in front of the camera with a young and talented handsome guy in his hand, smiling brightly and full of spring breeze.

Isn't it just a quarrel and a breakup? It hasn't risen to the level of divorce, do you want to be decadent all the time?

How she treats life, how life treats her, will eventually be presented in her appearance. Therefore, longing for beauty and being kind to life is the belief that everyone should have. Her face is what her soul looks like!

Many people have read the story of Miss Guo Si Guo Wanying, who was beautiful and rich when she was young, and the stars held the moon.

During the Cultural Revolution, she was reduced to cleaning toilets, and even in those years, she still took care of her appearance, steaming cakes on the briquette stove, and turning books with tweezers when reading, trying to maintain her calmness and elegance.

Judging people by their appearance, it is not about beauty, but about being good-looking, and looking good is to see the breeze and moon at the corners of the eyebrows and eyes, to be pleasing to the eye in gestures, and to maintain elegance and calmness in the most depressed years.

I have seen too many such people, relying on their wealth and wealth, they dictate to people, wear gold and silver, but have no manners, such people are too unsightly.

Good-looking, by no means superficial beauty, it is the quality of a person after stripping off the appearance, and it is the aura that can be distinguished at a glance in the Hanhai crowd, this is the appearance of the soul.

What is it to judge people by their appearance?

It is an appearance that is gradually polished under the precipitation of the years with inner temperament and self-cultivation.

A person who is self-reliant and self-disciplined, his appearance will not be too bad. In fact, most of what we see are bodies that are unable to control their lives and lose control of them.

Treat every moment solemnly and maintain respect for your body, which has nothing to do with age, you will eventually grow old, but your face is created by yourself. Creating oneself exquisitely, beautifully, and moving, this is not a kind of high-level cultivation.

She and Han Yi are both very good people at this age, and there are many people who pursue them. But they know how much love there is in that kind of fast love, so they care so much about each other and love each other so much.

Last year, Han Yi attended the wedding of his college roommate and met his classmate Peach, who was one of the few girls in their profession with a serious imbalance between men and women.

When they sat together, Peaches was depressed throughout the wedding feast, and when the bride and groom gave an emotional speech, most of them were touched and applauded, except for Peaches who lowered their heads and sighed.

Han Yi was too good at taking the initiative to chat with people of the opposite sex, so he couldn't ask what happened to Peach, so she talked to him first.

Momoko said that she is not happy every time she participates in a wedding, and she feels extremely lonely when she sees that people are full of happiness and cultivation.

Han Yi was a little surprised, you must know that the peach he knew was once the man of the year in their class, although it was not an amazing beauty, but it was better than being tall, cheerful and outgoing, and ranking among the top three in the academy in terms of academic performance, which Han Yi was beyond reach.

She is quite good at the opposite sex wherever she goes, and there are not a few courteous male colleagues, it stands to reason that it is not difficult for such a girl to find someone to fall in love with, but she has been completely single for four years in college.

To be honest, Han Yi really didn't expect a popular girl like her to be emotionally frustrated, she talked a few times, split a few times, and was still single at that time.

Peaches sighed, there are indeed a lot of people chasing them, but there are few who are sincere, too many rotten peach blossoms scare away the real people. Next, Peaches didn't reveal much, but Han Yi probably guessed it.

But any girl who looks a little passable, as long as she has a likable personality, there is always no shortage of people to chase. When you were young, it was easy to be proud of seeing so many people around you, and it was inevitable that you would be disappointed, and finally found out that the people chasing you don't mean that they all love you.

Those suitors are nothing more than the following: First, the kind that likes you from the bottom of their hearts and really wants to have results with you. This is the most loyal, willing to pay the most time cost, even if there is little hope, will silently wait by your side.

Second, they have a good impression of you, but it doesn't mean that you have to, usually they don't get a response and retreat, men's self-esteem makes it difficult for them to face the frustration brought by love, and there are only a few people who are waiting for one person in their lives.

Third, out of vanity or desire to conquer, they feel that chasing you has a lot of face and a sense of accomplishment, and they are willing to put in no less thought and time cost, which looks a lot like true love, but once the goal is achieved, you are just an accessory.

Fourth, cast a wide net, and if you can catch one, it is one. In their eyes, it is much more cost-effective to find a cute girl to fall in love with than to chase a girl to the end.

Fifth, feel that you are open enough and approachable to at least flirt. You are just a living body in their eyes, and if they find out that you can't afford to play, they will play and disappear.

In many cases, men chasing girls really just think that she looks easy to chase, especially when it happens to extroverted girls.

Have you ever seen an iceberg beauty surrounded by a bunch of wild bees and butterflies? A man who is in a hurry to hunt for beauty will not spend time on people who seem impossible.

Usually an extroverted girl is easily associated with being open-minded, she feels that she is generously friends with many people of the opposite sex, and in the eyes of people with impure motives, she is giving others a chance to approach her, and maybe people think that she is sending a signal to hook up.

The truth is that she really invisibly created opportunities for ill-intentioned men. She often speaks a few words, and she can be very familiar with people with one or two faces, and this familiarity is of course superficial.

Girls who are more reserved keep a safe distance from people, and they need more time to get acquainted with and get to know someone. Therefore, when a man who has met only a few times or doesn't know her well asks her out, most of the girls who are more restrained will refuse, such as Bai Xue, who will never be alone with other boys.

Extroverted girls may be accustomed to it, and it would be good to know a few more friends.

Han Yi has a lot of beautiful anchors under the company, and there are all kinds of girls around him, I have heard them complain, obviously I just had a meal with him alone, but I didn't expect to start moving my hands and feet halfway, and I also greeted him with all kinds of explicit text messages.

If this kind of thing only happens occasionally, it can be justified, and if you often meet such people, you really have to reflect on yourself.

For girls, easy-going is not just a casual meal and a movie with unfamiliar men, nor can they be called brothers and sisters with most men. Don't accept gifts and courtesy from others at every turn, and don't think that a man comes up and thinks that someone is in love with you, no matter how beautiful you are, you don't necessarily know that all men in the world will love you, not to mention that you are really not as charming as you imagined.

Of course, you can't generalize, you can't be malicious to save people, maybe some of your many suitors are sincere, but in the case of confusion, it is difficult for you to find out who is sincere and who is not in a short period of time. Especially when you revel in your own infinite personal charm, it is easy to get lost.

In this case, it is easy for you to make the following choices: one is not to choose anyone, that is, to enjoy the feeling of being held by so many people, endless love words, endless gifts, endless surprises, and envious eyes of other girls, these are the reasons for your addiction.

The other is to choose the one who chases the most diligently and fiercely, or the conditions of all parties can impress you the most, since no one knows what will happen in the future, at least you can choose the one that can do the most for you at the moment. This is also one of the reasons why many girls who seem to be in good condition are easily planted in the hands of scumbags.

Independent women who don't need love to set off and don't need men to rely on are not in such a category, just like snow. The same is true for boys, so Han Yi and Bai Xue still listen to each other in the concept of love.

No one chooses, that is, the so-called picky eyes, and in the end, a large number of young girls come up, the gap will only get bigger and bigger, and they are used to eating shark fin and abalone, how can they accept radish and cabbage for a while, and their appetite has been raised to be delicate, and they will not give in easily.

It doesn't make a difference if you choose one that doesn't treat you sincerely, you may be able to hold you like a goddess before, and when you cool down, you won't be treated so well.

In Bai Xue's opinion, being chased by many people is not necessarily a good thing, because the more people who chase her, the easier it is for her to be confused by appearances, and the easier it is to fall into the trap of flowers and chocolate shops. Therefore, she never gives others a chance to have a false impression. It is precisely in this way that others will think she is arrogant, but in fact she is not, she just doesn't want to send the wrong signal and let others mistakenly think that she is.

A girl like Bai Xue will not talk about love lightly, let alone be arrogant.

There is never a shortage of suitors around her, that is the embodiment of her personal charm, it is really normal to be pursued, but her superiority does not come from how many people chase her, but that she loves the person she loves cleanly and purely.