Chapter 296: What Will We Happen to Later?
As Keiko thought, Qiu Lang was already drunk and unconscious in the bar, but Keiko was still waiting at home. She wanted Qiu Lang to see herself as soon as he got home, to let him know that there was someone who put himself in his shoes, worried about her, and loved him.
After Bai Xue returned home, she locked herself in her room, the huge house was empty, making it difficult for her to control her thoughts once they fermented, and a small space made her feel more secure. She is about to move out of here, and at this moment, her mind is full of memories about her and Han Yi.
Thinking about Ammy's eyes looking at Han Yi and looking at Han Yi's happy smile, is he about to be replaced?
You will meet many people in your life, and everyone who walks into your life has the meaning of his existence. Some people come to your life once, teach you to grow, and then quietly leave, telling you that there are always mistakes in life. Some people just pass by but accompany you to the end.
Fate is a really wonderful thing, we can't live this life in vain, as long as we live up to each other.
I once heard a saying: "No matter who you meet, he is the person who should appear in your life, it is no accident, he will definitely teach you something." ”
She had always believed in this sentence, but she never thought that there would be a tragic ending.
In this life, some things are bound to be experienced, no matter when and where you are, some people are destined to meet, whether they are joys and sorrows or clutches. Her meeting with Han Yi, Ammy and Han Yi's meeting.
Before Liu Ruoying got married, she had a relationship with Chen Sheng.
In 1991, Liu Ruoying, who was still a small assistant, met the famous singer Chen Sheng. Chen Sheng values Rene Liu's talent and thinks she is a promising musician. And Liu Ruoying was also attracted to the talented Chen Sheng.
People always like to call Rene Liu "milk tea" because there is a story behind the name. Chen Sheng likes to order a cup of milk tea during afternoon tea, and others wonder why he likes to drink milk tea.
Chen Sheng said: "Because milk tea has the fragrance of milk, and it has the lightness of tea, it is neither greasy nor astringent. And Liu Ruoying is like milk tea. ”
For Liu Ruoying, Chen Sheng is her mentor and Bole, and she is also her former love.
At the age of 21, she mustered up the courage to confess to Chen Sheng, but this relationship was destined to be wrong, because Chen Sheng already had a family.
Later, Rene Liu directed a movie called "Later Us".
The film tells the story of a man and a woman who met on the train home for the Chinese New Year, and since then, their fates have been entangled, experiencing love, breakup, misses, and reunions.
From this movie, you can vaguely feel the relationship between Liu Ruoying and Chen Sheng.
Maybe some people are destined to have no fate, so in their opinion, they can't do it in vain, but as long as they live up to each other.
Just like some time ago, after the news of Justin Bieber and his girlfriend Haley's engagement was spread. Everyone was embarrassed because the bride was not Selena.
Bieber and Selena have been together for eight years, and the two of them have been in this relationship
is constantly paying, and is also constantly tormenting. Almost all of Selena's friends are very opposed to this relationship, but Selena can't extricate herself.
The two have experienced countless breakups, but they have always been unable to let go of each other, and even the first thing that came to Selena's mind when she was recovering from a serious illness was to get back together with Bieber.
After the two broke up for the Nth time, people thought they would get back together again, but the news came that Bieber was engaged to someone else.
Many people say that in this relationship, both of them are really bruised. But isn't that what fate is all about? When you think you're crazy about love, this relationship is doomed to be missed.
Zhou Yu beats Huang Gai, one is willing to fight and the other is willing to suffer, and some people are used to miss and grow.
Love well when you love, and say goodbye when you miss it, and live up to each other, this is the best ending.
"When my 18-year-old body grew to 28 years old, I began to gain weight slightly, the light in my bright eyes began to be restrained, I began to become indecisive, cowardly and timid, no longer as innocent and arrogant as I was with you, I lost the enthusiasm of the year, and turned to face the daily work and daily chores. It's just an occasional trance when I remember that weak girl, and although time has blurred her, it was still my dream when I was 18 years old. ”
Sometimes I think about it, in fact, love is as cruel as growing up, you once liked someone very seriously, experienced an unforgettable relationship, you became the most important person to each other, but then I don't know for what reason, the two of them missed it in a trance.
Maybe for a long time, you are wondering if the days that you once loved so hard really existed, and you don't even want to believe that the other person left because you didn't love them.
The cruelest thing is that you are still worried, but there is no going back.
But you should know that the road of life is scattered and impermanent. Some people have survived all kinds of trials and ended up together; And some people, because of the wrong timing, the three views do not agree, the reality is too stressful, etc., can no longer hold on and finally have to let go.
Even if your heart is inextricably linked, it is difficult to let go. For some people, missing is missing.
Zhang Ailing once wrote about this trance and helplessness in "A Farewell Life": "Life is always ironic sometimes, and a turn may be a lifetime." said that it would be forever, but somehow it dispersed. In the end, I thought about it, but I couldn't figure out what reason separated each other in the first place. ”
We will all meet some people, who have been our strength on the way forward, and we can't let go of the worries in our hearts. But you will eventually understand that after some feelings go round and round, they will eventually have a destination.
And those who exist in your mind and heart, in fact, can no longer participate in your actual life, when you can no longer have it, the only thing you can do is to move forward bravely, to live a good life in the present and in the future.
In this world, no one can live without anyone, and no one will always wait for someone in the same place, we are all changing.
There is a saying: "The farthest distance is when people are still there, love."
It's still there, and the way back is gone. ”
At every different stage of life, there will be different people staying, and we can only learn to cherish when we fall in love and learn to let go when we break up.
People who don't know the situation advised her: "You have to learn to tidy up your life, get rid of those clothes that you won't wear anymore, get rid of strangers who are no longer in contact with you in WeChat, and give up those feelings that no longer belong to you and no longer love you." If you have been immersed in the regrets of the past and cannot extricate yourself, and ignore the time and scenery in front of you, it will outweigh the losses and will leave more regrets in vain. You have to believe that those people and things that are missed will always fade or dissipate over time. ”
Does this make sense? Perhaps, but she wouldn't listen.
"If you encounter it, you should cherish it; Separated, don't be too attached; If you miss it, it's an experience. "She can't say such things,
Say goodbye and live up to each other's best ending? This may be the worst that Bai Xue has ever done.
Some people say that life only needs to be lucky twice: once to meet you, once to the end.
The most beautiful thing in the world is that when you meet a heart-warming person, you can withstand the test of time with each other, from meeting, knowing, falling in love with each other to staying together, you can still not forget your original intention, and you can still hold each other's hands in your twilight years, and you will not be bored.
There is a saying in "Twilight": "There are three thousand floating worlds, and there are three loves: the sun, the moon and the sun." The sun is the morning, the moon is the twilight, and the Qing is the twilight of the morning and the twilight. ”
Happiness is like this, with the person you love, a heart, a lifetime, accompany each other who love each other, spend every day with each other, and slowly accompany each other to old age.
From youth to gray hair, maybe after a lot of friction, but still stick to his heart, not waver for money, not alienated for interests, no intention, no return.
Even if there are differences, there will be no estrangement; Even if there is a quarrel, it will not be centrifuged.
Start with the thoughts and protection of each day, live the day by day, cook a delicious meal together, watch the flowers bloom on the balcony together, and celebrate every anniversary together. For a lifetime, never give up.
Life is very uneventful, but very peaceful. Two people get along simply and honestly, stand together through thick and thin, see through the prosperity, and sit old in time, although it is simple, but it is real.
This kind of love is like a long stream, it may not be blazing enough, but it is endless, it may be a little insipid, but it is precious.
In the daily firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce and vinegar tea, the feelings are more mellow, enjoy the sunrise and sunset every day, carry the wind and rain on the road of life together, and support each other together, without fear of the wind and rain of the years, without fear of the suffering of life.
I wish to win the heart of one person, the white head will not be separated, I do not seek vigorous love, I only wish that I will live up to it for the rest of my life, continue to write each other's stories, one person, one heart, and stay together for a lifetime in a plain and warm way.
Lao Tzu said in the forty-fifth chapter of the Tao Te Ching: "Dacheng is lacking", which means that there is no perfect thing in the world, and no matter how perfect it is, it is flawed.
This kind of thinking is actually quite true
When it comes to love and marriage, what we want is not to be perfect, but to choose what kind of imperfection we want to accept.
Love is tolerance, is protection, if you really love her, not only love her present and her future, but also love her past and her past, which are part of her.
Bai Xue seems to have gone through all the good and bad endings in her mind in the future, and if she doesn't get out of here again, she may collapse just by imagining it alone.
(End of chapter)