431 What is Trust?

"Thank you, always!" It was really goosebumps falling to the ground when he said it from Qiu Lang's mouth!

If I can sit opposite you with the vicissitudes of life, I am willing to quietly accompany you to laugh and talk for years, this friendship is really rare.

"Hey, Han Yi, Tianze and his sister just went out······"

Han Yi waved his hand to Qiu Lang and motioned for him to let him go away and not eavesdrop on his conversation with Yang Suqing, but Qiu Lang disdained it and broke the door and left.

"I'll go back and take a shower and change my clothes, accompany you to finish running, send Leng Qian, and buy you breakfast, sweat!"

Han Yi said softly: "OK! ”

"OK what?" Yang Suqing seemed to hear Qiu Lang's voice, "Is Lang'er by your side?" Why don't I hang up first? ”

Han Yi was overjoyed in his heart, and said with a smile: "It's okay, it's okay, he's back to the room!" Aunt Yang, is it convenient for you to come out with Tianze and them? ”

"Is that okay? Lang'er doesn't want to see me, he will be unhappy if I go, so I won't bother you! Yang Suqing said that she was a little aggrieved, and she felt a little uncomfortable.

"No, it won't! Just now, Qiu Lang asked me if I wanted to ask you to come out with me, but he was embarrassed to say to you, why don't you come with me! I'll send you the location, we'll have a meal together at noon, and then spend the afternoon with them everywhere. ”

"Really?" Yang Suqing was so happy that she almost burst into tears, choked up and said, "Then I'll come over now!" ”

Han Yi smiled: "Can this be fake?" Hurry up, we're waiting for you! ”

With a smile on his face, he spun around the swivel chair twice and felt like he was about to finish!

After Fu Bo and his party arrived at the exhibition, they got busy.

When everything was ready and in rehearsal, Shen Qing looked left and right to pull Fu Bo aside, and said softly: "Mr. Fu ······"

"Don't call me Mr. Fu anymore, it sounds awkward!" Fu Bo thought for a moment and smiled: "Look, you and Han Min are good sisters, and you call Han Yi a brother to Han Yi, and I also treat Han Min as a sister, or you call me brother too, right?" How is Brother Hiroko? ”

"Okay, okay······ Whatever you want! Shen Qing didn't have time to talk about this with him, she hurriedly said, "Pay ······ Oh, Brother Hiroko, I'll tell you something first! In the morning, Brother Han Yi explained some things, and let me complete it incomparably! ”

"What's the matter?" Fu Bo was slightly puzzled, "He didn't tell me anything!" ”

"Long story short! Didn't you give Xiao Wang the part of Brother Xiaolin's explanation last night? Brother Han Yi meant that according to the original plan, it would be ······ by Brother Xiaolin himself."

Fu Bo interrupted, "What do you mean? He made such a big mistake yesterday, I seriously suspect that he took advantage of others on purpose! ”

"Don't interrupt me, time is running out! In addition, he also said that Xiao Wang's part will be completed by you and Mr. Feng together, which means that the two of you will be a little tired today! Also, you can find a reason to confiscate all of our phones later! ”

"What the hell does he mean? Why don't you discuss it with us?

Under? Fu Bo was puzzled, and even a little reluctant to disrupt the plan they had made last night.

Feng Zhiyao beckoned to him and shouted, "Lao Fu, what are you doing!" Hurry up! ”

"He didn't explain it to me, but he said you'd trust him and do as he said!" Shen Qing said and pushed Fu Bo towards the booth, "Come on, come on!" ”

Fu Bo fell into deep thought at this time, why didn't he discuss such an important matter with him? Didn't you make it clear last night? Isn't it a waste of their time to replan processes and assign tasks?

When the exhibition officially started, Shen Qing saw that Fu Bo still didn't move, so he walked up to Xiao Lin and said: "Today is a crucial day, in order not to distract you, hand over your mobile phones to me for safekeeping!" ”

Xiao Lin handed the phone into Shen Qing's hands without the slightest hesitation, but when he walked in front of Xiao Wang, he said, "This is not appropriate, right?" You're just accompanying you to help translate, and you're not from our Bode Technology, so I don't think it's necessary! ”

Shen Qing's heart was suddenly a little depressed, but what he said was right, so she looked at Fu Bo pitifully.

"Xiao Wang, how are you talking!" Feng Zhiyao, who was standing beside him, said: "Although she is not an employee of Bode, she is a member of our team this time, and she is now representing President Han, you have to pay attention to what you say!" ”

Feng Zhiyao chatted with Xiao Lin and Han Yi last night, and he seemed to have learned something, and his attitude towards Xiao Wang at the moment was obviously mixed with personal emotions.

"I'm sorry!" Xiao Wang was interested in Shen Qing, but he still ignored it, "But I don't think it's appropriate to confiscate the mobile phone······"

"Give her all your phones!" Fu Bo looked at the computer debugging something, and didn't look at them squarely, and said to himself: "Give!" Keep it and don't lose it! ”

Even Fu Bo handed over his mobile phone to Shen Qing, and Xiao Wang naturally had no reason to continue to insist.

Shen Qing smiled: "I will!" Thank you, Brother Hiroko! ”

"Kobayashi prepare, you will go in the first round!"

As soon as Fu Bo's voice fell, Xiao Wang's face suddenly changed, and he stepped forward and said, "Mr. Fu, shouldn't I be here?" ”

"There is a temporary change, follow the arrangement!" Fu Bo said, "Hurry up and take action!" ”

Han Yi's words still worked, he believed that Fu Bo would carry out as he was told, although Fu Bo had Bode's absolute right to speak, this may be mutual trust!

If there is a more rare feeling in the world than love, it may be trust.

Due to the general shallow relationship between people in this era, trust has become a more precious emotion, and it is precisely because of the difficulty of trusting that good friends have increasingly shown their rare value.

When you face a fork in the road in life, they can always be by your side to give you some valuable advice. Maybe the medicine is bitter and the words are contrary to the ear, but if you talk about some real experience, you can call it enough friends.

Trust needs to pass through the dark and deep tunnels of human nature, and there is no exit or light in sight for a while. And then with fear, I still choose to move forward, and finally live back

Gives you faith. And once trusted, the positive impact it has on lives is indescribable.

The word "trust" in English originates from the ancient European root "drout", which means "solid" and "durable", and in Old English, the word also means "confidence" and "dependence". In the 14th century, the word "trust" first appeared, meaning "essential certainty and a deeply rooted sense of hope"

It can be said that these are the qualities of trust in themselves.

Trust is a multi-dimensional concept, which exists in interpersonal relationships, groups, organizations, and economic, political and social situations.

Interpersonal trust is a relatively continuous state of mind, which is targeted, and our sense of trust is different for different people and in different situations.

It is both a rational judgment, meaning that we judge that the other person will still act in our interests when we are beyond our control, and there is a motive in our favor, and it is also an emotional state, which contains positive emotions towards the other person. Psychological studies have found that if we have negative emotions towards a person, we will not be able to develop a sense of trust in him.

The first special property of trust is that it always goes hand in hand with uncertainty, risk, and vulnerability.

When everything is certain, or when everything is under our control, we don't have a strong sense of trust in others. Because at this point we can exist on our own and do not need to rely on others.

And trust only happens when we need others, when they may go against our will, when there is a risk and when there is a possibility of bad things, and the other person still acts to defend us. Therefore, the feelings of trust in the first moment must be very fragile. That is, trust can only grow if you allow this vulnerability to open an opening in you that could cause harm.

People often ask why it is often the person who hurts us the most is the person who used to trust and rely on the most.

Many times, the higher the expectations for a person, the more disappointment there will be when things backfire, the more sincere the affection for a person, and the more ruthless the hurt will be when you are disappointed. Because he was desperate to show trust and give sincerity without reservation, but in the end, he only got ruthless betrayal and endless harm.

The reason why Fu Bo chose to believe in Han Yi is because they have a seven-year relationship foundation, and he has never lived up to his trust.

When Shen Qing said, "He said that you would believe him", it actually means that he is also trusted by Han Yi. Of course, if he had to drill the horns, it could also be understood that Cheng Han Yi was taking advantage of his trust, so he actually hesitated in his heart.

It is a blessing to be trusted.

In life, we are always accustomed to giving our sincerity to the people we trust the most, and showing our weakness unguarded in front of them. But I never thought that trust is a knife, the knife can protect people, but also hurt people, if the other party does not know how to cherish, the so-called trust, has become a sharp weapon for the other party to hurt us.

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Once the belief is not human, it is to pull the knife out of the sheath, stab yourself, and also fulfill the hypocrisy of others.

They are people in the same boat, Fu Bo naturally believes that Han Yi will not do anything to hurt Bode, there must be some reason why he is unwilling to say it, which is also in line with his usual style!

Many people don't understand why two people get along well at first, but they are strangers when they walk. In fact, what really consumes feelings is not the distance, but the sincerity of being deceived, and slowly seeing the face clearly in getting along, the trust established at the beginning gradually collapsed, and finally broke up.

It is said that feelings, the most afraid of taking out a sincere heart, in exchange for not caring at all; Friends, the most afraid of giving an honesty, what they get is ruthless betrayal, deceived and used by trusted people, even if they use it deeply, it will chill their hearts.

The English writer Charles Dickens said, "Never break four things in your life: trust, relationships, promises, and hearts." Because when they break, they don't make any sound, but they are extremely painful. ”

If the encounter between people depends on fate, then the long-term relationship depends on mutual sincerity and mutual trust.

It is a kind of happiness to be trusted in life.

Therefore, no matter when, don't treat the trust in your hands as a capital to squander at will, the people who can give you trust are the people who care about you, and they also need your heartfelt affirmation.

In this unsympathetic world, it is not easy to choose to trust someone.

knew that he might be hurt and let down, but he still handed over his sincerity without hesitation.

If you are lucky enough to meet such a desperate and heart-to-heart relationship, you will naturally think about it with your heart and cherish it for the rest of your life.

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