Chapter 375: Troubles in Love and Bread
The computer has the option to restart, and there are no buttons for life. But when Han Yi said that his life was a mess, Ammy advised him to adjust his life in time. After all, the first time they met, it was because he was overworked, fainted in the hospital due to a cold and heat stroke, and she hoped from the bottom of her heart that Han Yi would not put so much pressure on herself.
She hopes that Han Yi can maintain her enthusiasm for life like her, and people who maintain enthusiasm for life in their hearts will be able to get out of a bad environment more easily.
In fact, the enthusiasm for life is nothing more than keeping a good sense of the things around you.
When I was ten years old, I happened to look up and saw a butterfly, and I was very excited; At the age of fifteen or sixteen, I heard that there was a meteor shower, and waited on the rooftop until late at night; At the age of seventeen or eighteen, because he fell in love with someone, he worked hard.
When I grow up and start a family, I don't want to take a little time to spend on something simple, beautiful, and happy to me. For example, after a meal, take a walk along the river, the breeze is curling, and the water is not rippling. At dusk and sunset, the first sunny day after the rain, everything is thrillingly beautiful, and the troubles of life are naturally thrown away. For example, listening to songs, reading books, writing, and raising flowers, these things that Han Yi would do before, now have a long-lost feeling.
Ammy is the kind of person who throws his passion for life into concrete things, finds his own little fun in the hectic pace, so as to always maintain an optimistic attitude towards life, has a passion for life, and has a positive attitude to deal with setbacks. Also, she has a nosy heart, so it is difficult for her to feel the boredom of life.
On the way back for Xia Bo, she sent a message to Han Yi, saying that if she could, she would make an appointment for him after he came back from New York to do something meaningful, but she didn't say exactly what kind of meaningful thing it was, to put it bluntly, she wanted to have more contact with Han Yi, and then take this opportunity to unload the mountain that he was pressing in his heart.
The WeChat she sent to Han Yi was like writing an essay, making up for a long time.
She says that the popular rule of organization in Japan is that when you go to check all your belongings, keep the ones that are what you need and that make you feel excited, and then organize them.
I hope Han Yi can apply this method to his own life. Life itself is a huge container, but if there are too many things, it will appear disorganized. Clean up the things you don't need in your life, simplify your relationships, keep important connections, and delete the ones that make him uncomfortable in his daily life. In this way, he will find that not only will he have more space to live, but he will also have less irritability in his heart.
A clean and tidy external environment can create a good state for you, a refreshing and peaceful mental space will give you inner satisfaction, and a simple life can achieve the desired results.
In this way, the mind will also relax, and life will naturally have a lot more fun.
However, Han Yi just replied with a row of "······" And then there was no then, which is probably why Ammy made a "bored,
sarcasticandstubborn" (boring, snarky, and stubborn).
Everyone has their own understanding of life, so some people have an easy life and some people have a hard time. Han Yi is the kind of person who has infinite scenery in front of people, but there is suffering behind him. It may be that in the past three years since Bai Xue left, he has collected his personal emotional life and devoted himself to his career, which has made him so depressed in his heart, but he still has to pretend to be casual in front of everyone.
Even though Han Yi is older than Ammy, in her eyes, the person who lives the most meaningful life is not the person who lives a long time, but the person who has the most feelings about life.
We all live in the same world, but we all live different lives. Some people live well, full of love and happiness, and some people live badly and are always riddled with trivialities.
With his stubborn character, Ammy also understood that no matter how much he said, it would not help, so he had to say "good night" to end his kind care.
may be in Han Yi's eyes, he is not disturbing himself as a mediocre person, let alone being a mediocre person. If there is a loved one who does not go to accompany him well, does not enjoy himself with a certain amount of wealth, and continues to walk the so-called road to success, this may be the dedication and ambition of a man that others cannot understand.
He always felt the need to prove that he could stand on the same level as some people. This seems to be very contemplative and virtual, because he himself doesn't know what kind of height he wants to stand at, and he can't be concretized, just like he doesn't know how much money he can make to be rich.
It's somewhat ironic and ridiculous that he reaped love when he didn't have bread, and then lost it when he desperately tried to get it.
What girl would like a man who is not career-minded? Who wouldn't want to have enough bread while having love? It's just that in such a process, it is inevitable that some accidents will happen, there is no love with bread, love is still there, but there is no bread, or the love bread is gone.
In this process of obtaining bread, some people will find their dreams, some people will lose themselves, and Han Yi doesn't know what kind of person he belongs to.
There is a clever girl named Xibao in Yishu's pen, who said a very delicate sentence: "I want a lot of love, if not, then I want a lot of money."
No one is born with a material, but Han Yi knows very well how great the temptation of money is, everyone wants to be able to make a lot of money without worrying about being busy all their lives, and they can watch the flowers and mountains and rivers. Everyone wants to swipe their cards anytime and anywhere without hesitation, without eating and sleeping, and without worrying about rising housing prices.
But some people need love more, want to have someone to care for, want to hug her until they are old, want to hold hands with her to press the road, want to smile face-to-face with her, Bai Xue may be this kind of person, different from the vast majority of girls.
"If you can't eat with me, then I'll have a good meal myself; You can't watch a movie with me, so I'll buy a new bag; You can't sit with me
The road is, and I want to drive alone; There has to be the same. ”
For a woman, such a psychology should be understandable, right?
Even if they say it so naked, they still put love in front of money.
If you meet someone you love and can accompany each other, it doesn't matter if you eat and drink. But if you can't meet or accompany me, then let the bag and lipstick accompany me. This must be their inner monologue, right?
It's like the bearded Jose asking Sanmao: "What kind of person do you want to marry?"
Sanmao replied: "If it is pleasing to the eye, multimillionaires will also marry, and if it is not pleasing to the eye, billionaires will also marry."
After hearing this, Jose said, "Speaking of which, you still want to marry a rich man."
Sanmao glanced at Jose and sighed: "There are times when there are exceptions."
"And what if you marry me?"
Sanmao sighed and replied, "If it's you, then as long as it's enough money for food."
"Do you eat too much?"
"No more, no less, you can eat less in the future." Sanmao said cautiously.
For a woman like Sanmao, love is enough, don't worry about anything, love is not enough, please use money to make up. Nowadays, there are such people, and there are many of them, but there are more people who value material things more.
It's just that there may not be many stupid women like Bai Xue. She can earn bread herself, what she wants is Han Yi, and his heart, a single-minded heart.
What is happening now clashes with her original intentions, making her suspicious of the person she has loved for so long. So, sometimes, believing is more important than love.
Love is a soft cocoon, some are called bravery, some are called understanding, some are called love, and some are called trust.
The best love that Han Yi understands begins with bravery, crosses love, reaches understanding, and finally trusts.
Because I want to love her, I always keep going, some of the past will be too late to say, and some of the future will be too late to plan, but as long as I believe, love will always be fierce. Therefore, he dared to put his love for Bai Xue aside at this time and was busy with the company's affairs.
Because he wants to love her, even if he steam his heart, braise it or chop it into dumpling filling, he is willing to present it to her, trust, it is the best love he can give her, at least that's what he thinks.
Han Yiting likes to watch anime, mostly on airplanes, and recently he likes the American drama cartoon "BoJack Horseman", among them, Mr. Peanutbutter is a wonderful existence, he is different from Bojack's poisonous tongue negative energy, and different from Todd's idleness, he is the most sunny and warm character in the play.
Peanutbutter's wife, Diane, is bent on proving her worth, so she goes to the battlefield to interview, only to find out that everything is just a hoax. Diane returned from the battlefield in a state of collapse and constant escapism, and she was afraid to go home and face peanut butter. When I was on the phone with Mr. Peanutbutter, I kept pretending that I was still on the battlefield thousands of miles away, and finally got up to meet customers at the restaurant, but I was unexpectedly bumped into by Mr. Peanutbutter.
At that time, he was about to commit embarrassment, would he go over and expose his clothes? Or will you get angry? How will it end?
Finally peanuts
Mr. Jiang didn't walk over, he just stood where he was, took out his mobile phone and made a call to Diane, and he said to Diane on the phone: "Diane, do you know where to put the battery at home?" The remote is dead. ”
Diane asked him to look for the drawer, and he continued: "I looked for it, but I didn't find it, you can go home and help me find the battery!" I know your job is important and it's been a long journey home, but I really need you and I feel like it's time for you to go home. ”
Diane replied, "If I leave now, I'll be home tonight."
Mr. Peanutbutter said, Great, I love you. By the way, you know what, I saw a girl in a restaurant who looked like you!
Han Yi believes that there can't be a better ending than this way of dealing with it.
Everyone has their own grievances that they can't say, but few people can do "there are some things you never have to ask".
This kind of trust is too rare, and it will make those who have it shed tears.
When Diane chose to marry Mr. Peanutbutter, she said, "I never thought I'd get married. It's really strange to give the rest of your life to another person. How do you know what the future holds? But then I realized that it's okay to have uncertainties. Sometimes, people just need a little faith. Mr. Peanutbutter, I want to share this confidence with you. ”
After sending Ammy away, settling Qiu Lang and Yi Yang, and taking a bath and lying in bed, Han Yi couldn't help but think of the scene where he proposed to Bai Xue on the plane, recalling the scared, excited, and eager mood at that time, which could still ignite the unchanging love in his heart.
He picked up his phone and sent a text message to Bai Xue, two simple words, which were the two words they would say every night - good night.
Perhaps, he was expecting Bai Xue to write back to him.
(End of this chapter) I want to talk with more like-minded people about "I will start to like you in the future", WeChat attention "", talk about life, find a confidant~