Han Yi admires Qiu Minsheng not only because of his successful business, but because he is low-key and peaceful, and every time he talks to him, he will gain a lot. This is also the reason why Han Yi is happy to deal with some elders, because they have rich experience and have the truth that they have comprehended with age and experience.

Qiu Minsheng once said to Han Yi: Many people have been dealing with others all their lives, but they rarely take the time to understand themselves. Although I yearn for a clean circle, a regular life and a favorite person, I often realize after half a life that my life has always been contrary to my ideals. Because the circle is becoming more and more complex, life is tedious and irregular, and the people around him are gradually drifting apart. But I don't know that a person who lives well will definitely be able to live life the way he wants. It is not difficult to live and understand, it needs to be supported by wisdom, cast with knowledge, sail with morality, cultivate and escort, and sink the self to silence through the hustle and bustle, and understand the truth that the water is full and overflowing, and the moon is full.

Because it is quiet and peaceful, low-key and transparent, it is the real spring in the garden!

Qiu Lang drove the car, and Han Yi sat in the co-pilot and looked at his mobile phone, "Drive slowly!" I'll reply to a message. ”

"Yes, boss! You're so busy! Qiu Lang sighed in a low voice, "Do you know what Xuanxuan likes?" ”

His resentment towards Yang Suqing is not so easy to eliminate, but he is full of expectations for his younger brother and sister, who are never masked.

"You're asking the right question! Her idol is Lang Lang. ”

Han Yi heard Yang Suqing say that Xuanxuan has been learning piano since she was a child, and she likes Lang Lang very much, and she will go to watch almost every performance he performs in New York. As for Qiu Lang, he happens to have a good relationship with Lang Lang.

"It's easy! I'll ask him to help record a video of his birthday wishes later. But this can't be a gift, don't you think? Qiu Lang was a little excited in his heart, and at the same time he was a little afraid, not because of Song Jianguo and his wife, but because he was afraid that he would not be able to help but destroy Xuanxuan's birthday party for a while.

"It's all about the heart! She'll love whatever you give, but I think the most important thing is that she wants to recognize you as a brother. Han Yi put away his mobile phone and sighed: "Hey, why are there so many uneasy things!" ”

He looked out the window at the bright street, probably because the sun was too hot at two or three o'clock, and there were many fewer pedestrians on the street than in the morning and evening, but after all, it was the center of New York, and it was still lively.

"The work is never done, and the money is never finished! I told you a long time ago, let you hire a professional manager and let them take care of it. Qiu Lang just felt that Han Yi was too tired to live, and he just couldn't listen to these words.

"Have you seen Yihui's financial report? I got rid of it for two months, and my overall performance fell by 8 percentage points. ”

Qiu Lang smiled: "This requires an adaptation period, but even so, isn't it still profitable?" You just don't want to give away the power in your hands! ”

"Didn't I listen to your suggestion and assign the management and operation authority to Yi Yang? Say whatever you want, anyway, all I'm thinking about now is to get Darong up······"

Han Yi said his plan, but Qiu Lang didn't believe it at all.

"Don't kid yourself, even if Darong develops well, you will still have other plans! I know you too well, you can't stop going on like this, human desires are like this, the more you have, the more you want! Qiu Lang glanced at Han Yi and said meaningfully, "If I were you, I would be thinking about being with Bai Xue now." Eat together, watch movies together, play games together, go on trips together······"

Han Yi didn't seem to want to hear it, "That's it!" I'll go down first, you can find a parking space. ”

"Have you looked at WeChat carefully? The most message I have received from you on my phone with Keiko in the past six months is: I'm busy, I'll contact you later. And then this one could be a day or two later. Qiu Lang stopped the car, "Seriously, I hope that like at the beginning, our group of friends will get together every day and every three days!" Eating together and playing together almost every day, that's real life, isn't it? ”

"What's wrong with you lately? There are obviously more words than before, chatter! Han Yi said and picked up his backpack and got out of the car.

Qiu Lang nodded and smiled at Han Yi outside the car and said, "Boss, pay attention to safety!" ”

Boss? Han Yi didn't bother to take care of him, and ran directly to the mall.

Yishu said in "One Thousand and One Recipes": A person can't leave, but because he doesn't want to leave; A person fails to make an appointment because he does not want to go to the appointment, and all excuses are nonsense, which are used to disguise his unwillingness to sacrifice.

"I'm sorry, I still have work this weekend, I'll contact you when I'm free."

Since the end of last year, Qiu Lang has often received such replies from Han Yi, looking at the messages he sent, Qiu Lang replied: "Okay, you can get busy first, and contact you when you are free." ”

Then exit the chat interface and turn off the phone screen.

He and Han Yi have known each other for four years, and their friendship is really iron. Qiu Lang, who is a few years older, can also be said to be the guide for Han Yi to set foot in the circle of shopping malls, Han Yi has never denied that without Keiko and Qiu Lang, he would not have today's achievements.

They can talk and are like-minded, and they both cherish their feelings very much.

It's just that when Qiu Lang found out that he began to decline his invitation repeatedly and for various reasons, of course, Han Yi's busyness was definitely not an excuse. Even Bai Xue, who had been in the first place, was slowly ignored by him, and Qiu Lang felt that this was not a good momentum.

has been rejected many times, Qiu Lang feels that he has to say something, and his feelings will slowly fade in the long run, so recently he will always remind Han Yi to let him put his work things aside.

He felt that Han Yi was deceiving himself when he said that after dealing with Darong's affairs, he would reduce his workload and slowly retreat.

When will I be really available?

It is often said that for those who use busyness as a reason to perfunctory and reject you, you really don't need to take the initiative to contact too much. Who can really be busy all the time, so busy that they don't even have time to call back and have a meal? The real reason is just that you don't care, it's troublesome, you don't want to contact, and you don't matter.

Sometimes when I think about it, the more we grow up, the more "precious" our time seems to become. No time to connect with old friends, no time to spend with family and partners.

Don't say you don't have time, don't blame the distance, when you really care about someone, how can you care about this.

Many times "busy" means "don't want to", and "next time" means "there is no next time".

Someone who cares about you, even if they're really busy, will try to make time for you. Whether it's family, friendship, or love, it takes time to operate. Under the long-term neglect, when the intersection of each other's lives is becoming less and less, even if the relationship is good, it will inevitably be affected. It's not that the other party doesn't understand these truths, it's just that for him, you have become an irrelevant person.

In any relationship, when one of them is unwilling to give, even if the other party takes the initiative and tries harder, it only plays a role in delaying the disintegration of the relationship.

Those who always reject you on the grounds of busyness, no matter how angry you are, want the truth, and insist on asking for an explanation, it is all in vain.

Feelings are the most unreasonable thing, and if it's gone, it's gone.

Of course, their friendship is not there yet. But Qiu Lang felt that the relationship between Han Yi and Bai Xue already had such signs, so he would take the trouble to mention Han Yi'er.

Qiu Lang came to the conclusion that the word desire is because of desire that he keeps climbing up.

This can also be said to be self-motivated, and how to understand it depends on the wisdom of others.

Qiu Lang doesn't like to talk about work during non-working hours, and he is actually quite disgusted when he sees Han Yi handling work at this time.

One year, Qiu Lang and his business friends were on vacation in Sanya, doing nothing every day, strolling, lounging, watching people, and watching the sea.

One day, they went to a small island, set off on a yacht from Yalong Bay, and sailed on the sea for more than an hour. The sky was exceptionally blue, and the sea and sky in the distance were connected and disappeared into sight. There was no wind along the way, and a few friends brought fishing rods and competed in fishing. He ran out of patience after playing for a while, and it was interesting to look left and right.

When you go up to the island, you can see towering coconut palms and all kinds of unnamed bushes, as well as colorful triangular plum blossoms. Some friends put on diving goggles and started looking for tricky stones, some friends hid in the shade of trees to read, and one even took out a laptop.

Qiu Lang walked over to him suspiciously and asked him, why do you have to bring a computer when you come out to play? What a disappointment.

He didn't look up and said: Just deal with the mail, otherwise the customer will be in a hurry for a while.

Qiu Lang asked: Didn't you tell them you were on vacation?

He shook his head: No.

Qiu Lang gave a thumbs up and said with a smile: Cow!

In the afternoon, they had a buffet on the island, and Qiu Lang jokingly said to everyone, look at that person, come out to play and don't forget to work, you really take your work seriously, and cherish it very much.

Everyone laughed, and he touched his head embarrassedly. In the end, he said, there is nothing strange, you can't do nothing every day, how boring it is.

On that occasion, there were the company's CEO, the executives of foreign companies, the partners of self-media, and a friend who did film and television. It's rare to get together on weekdays, but during the holidays, there are always hours a day when everyone is in their own rooms.

When I asked on WeChat, almost everyone's answer was, I'll take care of a job and I'll look for you later.

Every day, they will take a walk on the beach, hold an umbrella and pose for literature, let friends take pictures, or make an appointment to watch the sunrise in the morning, or go to pinch their feet together (the regular kind), and the itinerary is very full.

One night, they saw a very beautiful starry sky by the sea. Some friends said that as long as they face such a broad situation, they feel extremely small, and they feel that their work and life have no special meaning, which is really not worth mentioning.

Another said that to live, to live is to win, to live is to be meaningful.

Someone asked Qiu Lang, you like Sanya so much, didn't you think about leaving Beijing one day and living in this place?

He spread his hands and said: I am reluctant to live in a convenient environment in a big city, I am reluctant to give up all kinds of things there that obsesses me, and I even want to satisfy my desires more.

He concluded, I'm just a layman.

There was a lot of agreement. The boy with the notebook said softly, as if everyone is the same, just temporarily leave the environment in which he lives, change his mood, and eventually go back.

Qiu Lang knows many senior leaders of large companies and the CEOs of some start-up companies, and when chatting with them, busyness, anxiety and a sense of crisis are frequent keywords.

He once felt that people must have something to do, not be idle, and have to rely on a certain anxiety value to live, turn anxiety into their own motivation, and achieve the desired outcome step by step.

At that time, he was also thinking: What are we anxious about when we are still young?

When he was seventeen or eighteen years old, he had a wish, he liked a place with mountains and rivers, and hoped that the living environment would be that every family had water and flowers, and that he would run a small inn, and that the business would not be too good.

He once said that when he was 30 years old, he would do it.

And then there was no more, that was just his mind at the time.

His current state seems to be the complete opposite of Han Yi. He completely slowed down and was idle, while Han Yi couldn't stop at all.

There is no end to this world, and the answers you want may not be temporarily revealed. Life is the moment, the here and now, nothing is more important than the present. He just hoped that Han Yi could slow down, stop, and rest for a while.