661 This in-law is not wrong
"That won't be." Shen Nuo said affirmatively, "Lu Man doesn't care about this, and his in-laws are not such people." β
"Yes, I'm afraid I won't accept it if I give too much." The old lady said.
"Then it's better to put the gift money first, and let's discuss it with our in-laws later." Shen Nuo said.
"Okay, I have a ready-made one here." The old lady said happily.
"Mom, I'm afraid it's not suitable if it's used." Lin Liye reminded in a whisper.
"What do you say?" The old lady said, "It's all new." I think before I met Lu Man, Zhuo Li didn't even have a girlfriend when he was old, I was in a hurry. Let's go and buy the three gold first, and put it home, it's considered a rush, isn't it? I'm just waiting for Zhuo Li's engagement so that I can send it out. β
Lin Liye and Shen Nuo's faces twitched, and the old lady was already happy to go to get the three golds she had prepared earlier.
The three gold are gold necklaces, gold earrings, and gold bracelets, which must be prepared regardless of whether they are in line with the aesthetic fashion of the moment, which is the custom of engagement.
When the old lady returned, she had three more delicate boxes in her hand.
"It's a long time." The old lady sat beside Lu Man, "This is the three golds of the engagement, look at it, like it or not." β
Lu Man opened it to see, because the old lady had bought it for many years, it was inevitable that the style was not as new as it is now.
But the old lady bought all the heavyweights, and the style of the gold jewelry was just that.
Earrings and necklaces are needless to say, the pair of dragon and phoenix bracelets are wide and thick, and they look stocky.
Lu Man accepted it with a smile, and naturally said that he liked it very much.
The old lady was happy and called Han Xijin and Shen Nuo, "Let's discuss the issue of gift money." β
Xia Qingwei hurriedly waved his hand, "Old lady, since Lu Man and Xiao Han are about to get engaged, they will become a family in the future, so we won't talk about the two families." I know you want to follow the traditional customs. But we really don't have to pay attention to that. Zhuo Li really helped us a lot, in fact, it is all Zhuo Li's support behind the achievements that we can have today. We don't have to use gift money to measure the importance of women. β
Xia Qingwei smiled, "From the first time I met Manman, you took her as if she were your own family, and you all gave her the family affection that Manman had not experienced before." These are priceless, and I am relieved to marry Manman. In the past, the amount of bride price represented the importance that the husband's family attached to his fiancΓ©e, but now it has changed its flavor and has become a comparison with each other. But Zhuo Li, as well as you, I see the importance of manman. I still think that the gift money or anything is not important. β
Besides, it's hard to calculate.
For a big family like the Han family, if it is a family marriage, which involves many aspects, the part of the gift money is easy to calculate.
But now, if the Han family gives too much, she really can't accept it, so what can she do with a gift of hundreds of millions?
But if it is less, the Han family will not be able to take it, not to mention that the Han family has other children who will also get married, and when they give them more gift money in the future, how much is it appropriate to give?
If you give too much, I'm afraid that she and Lu Man will have ideas, and if you give less, I'm afraid that the other party will not be happy.
The Han family is really difficult in this regard.
Xia Qingwei thought of all this.
Although it was not directly said, who in the audience could not hear it?
They all understood what Xia Qingwei meant.
The second elder is more and more happy, this in-law is not wrong!
So, the question of gift money was put on hold.