This may be the most beautiful appearance of love at the beginning, when the love first opened, they just met each other, just like Li Jia met Feng Zhiyao, just like Nuan Nuan met Fu Bo, just like Bai Xue met Han Yi. met each other when they lost their longing for love in their hearts, just like Qiu Lang met Keiko, just like Fu Bo met Nuan Nuan, just like Han Yi met Bai Xue.

In Shenzhen, Fu Bo and Nuan Nuan were together, and Li Jia and Feng Zhiyao met. Knowing the appearance of Qin Yue and Shen Qing, Fu Bo and Feng Zhiyao were told that Han Yi could not come due to the delay of important matters. However, the impact was not great, and it was originally the acceptance of the results and the celebration banquet was held together.

In Chongqing, Qiu Lang and Keiko respect each other like guests, sweet and happy, Han Yi and Bai Xue enjoy the world of the two who are about to be separated for a short time.

Everything is happening in an orderly and natural way, and the operation of this world has never stopped because of anyone's sadness.

"Sister Yali, you can eat something!"

Liu Xiyao brought the food to Hao Yali's bedside table, she didn't say a word all afternoon, lying on her side, she seemed to be thinking about something, staring intently at the dark night outside the floor-to-ceiling glass window.

"It's too late, I have to rush to work, you can get up and eat later, I'll come back later!" Liu Xiyao knew that she didn't want to speak, so she left in a hurry.

After Han Yi took care of his hairstyle a little, he walked to Bai Xue, who was waiting for him at the door, and suddenly said seriously: "I have a reluctant request, I don't know what the beauty wants!" ”

"I want to hear about it!" Bai Xue couldn't help but laugh and said, "Can you talk well!" ”

"When we're together, can you take the initiative to hold me?" Saying that, Han Yi put Bai Xue's hand on his own.

Bai Xuequan didn't hear it, and with a good mood, he went to enjoy the food and beautiful scenery of Chongqing at night.

"I just booked a place in a western restaurant, how about going to the movies after eating?"

Han Yigang wanted to get in the car but was pulled by Bai Xue, "Retreat, don't eat Western food, don't watch movies." Don't drive, just walk around and have a snack, how about it? ”

"Do I have the authority to say no?" Han Yi smiled helplessly, thinking that Bai Xue was not like this before, generally what he arranged, Bai Xue would be happy to join him, and rarely took the initiative to propose where to eat, what to eat, and what to do······

Bai Xue replied with certainty, "No! Yes! ”

A different action, a different word, many times is like a spice in life, giving people a sense of freshness. At least Han Yi is happy to see a different side of her, rather than just blindly accommodating him.

"You, although you have been here for a few years, you are either a company or a family all day long, and you don't take a good look at this city, look at this mountain city built by the water, living along the mountains, and the buildings are close to the water and the mountains!"

Bai Xue "counted" Han Yi's nature of liking the house as she walked, but it was all half a catty and eight taels, so why shouldn't she! Han Yi didn't make any objections to her words, listened attentively, and was willing to be taught.

"Yes, yes, you're right." Han

Yi instantly became the role of a bird.

"Don't be perfunctory!" Bai Xue's posture is a little higher, "Listen well, watch well, and study hard!" ”

If you stand in the slightly higher building and look at the night here, you can see a large number of high-rise buildings scattered and rising on the mountain, the lights are shining, the lights of the thousands of homes are in full view, the buildings are either majestic and upright, or graceful, reflected in the Yangtze River and Jialing River, and the colorful river water with neon flashes will bring the brilliant sea of lights into the chest.

The colorful reflections of the bright lights of the Yangtze River and the Jialing River in the night seem to breed with the hot, hot, fragrant and refreshing Chongqing hot pot; It seems to complement the boldness, righteousness, wisdom and courage of the people of eastern Sichuan.

"Teacher Bai, I want to ask you a question. Do you know what it means for Chongqing people to cook the Yangtze River every night? ”

Han Yi didn't have what Bai Xue had heard, he was on two o'clock and one line all day, and he didn't really integrate into the city and feel the excitement of the city.

"You've got something!" Bai Xue nodded to Han Yi in approval, "I'm talking about the boiling and dynamic beautiful night scene of Chongqing!" ”

The two of them walked along the river, watching the river scenery and the lights of the buildings reflect each other, which was beautiful.

Han Yi's hands were full of snacks, sweet, salty, spicy, everything, and Bai Xue was holding two glasses to drink, bouncing and happily, shuttling between people and people.

"Come here!" Bai Xue found a place to sit down and beckoned to Han Yi, "Just rest here and eat something." ”

"What? Do you know you're tired? Han Yi sat down sweating profusely, snatched the cold drink from Bai Xue's hand, and took two sips, "Why did you buy two glasses of ice?" I'll buy you a bottle of water. ”

Bai Xue grabbed Han Yi and smiled, "Sit down!" It's okay, you can drink ice. Do you enjoy being a follower? It's still addicted, isn't it? ”

"It's my pleasure! It's good if you're happy! ”

She took out a tissue and wiped it on Han Yi's forehead a few times, Han Yi grabbed her hand with a "yes", "Naughty!" ”

Then he wiped his sweat, then spread out the food in his hand one by one, took a string of balls and handed it to Bai Xue, "This is delicious, you taste it first!" ”

However, Bai Xue didn't mean to reach out to take it, but opened her mouth to say "ah". Han Yi pretended not to understand, bypassed her mouth, and then took a big bite of it.

The smile on the corner of Bai Xue's mouth disappeared instantly, and he stared at him directly, and Han Yi immediately smiled and fed Bai Xue a meatball with a smile.

"Naughty huh!" Bai Xue pinched Han Yi's elbow very hard, obviously it didn't hurt to pinch there, but Han Yi still begged for mercy.

In love, people are often one willing to fight and one willing to suffer. But like Han Yi and Bai Xue, the two of them are like people who are willing to suffer, to put it bluntly, it is a kind of dedication, a desire to give, which may be the reason why they can go further on the road of love.

Bai Xue's waiting is a kind of dedication, and Han Yi can take time out of his busy schedule to spend time with her, even if it is only a short day or two

Night.

It is undeniable that many people are often reluctant to pay when they talk about love, but this is also a manifestation of a person's self-protection, they are afraid that once they pay or pay too much and do not get the corresponding return, they will eventually let themselves suffer harm and loss, so they always seem to hesitate to pay when dealing with emotional issues, leaving a lot of room for themselves.

In fact, this can't be regarded as real love, it can only be regarded as an emotional business, just like Hao Yali.

Of course, the dedication and dedication of love should not be unreserved, but within the scope of ability, if it exceeds the range of a person's ability, then this love will become an unbearable luxury for this person, but it will be counterproductive. Because of such a heavy load, the mentality is bound to be unbalanced, and the mood is bound to be depressed and heavy, which is definitely not conducive to the two getting along.

There are also some people who lose their minds once they fall in love, and can do everything for love, and even break the law by themselves, like some people who embezzle and accept bribes for their lovers, embezzle public funds, and end up in prison; There are also some people who disregard their dignity and personality for the sake of love, and do not hesitate to practice themselves, like some women threaten each other with suicide, and some men use force to save love, which will only be self-defeating.

When a person does not love himself and practices himself, how can others love you again? Even if you sacrifice dignity and personality, even if you threaten and intimidate, it is impossible to keep the other person's heart. Therefore, if you love someone, you must know how to be moderate, don't lose yourself for love, or even trample on your dignity, don't let yourself become a slave of love, cherish it with your reason, add a bit of interest, persistent but not indulgent, peaceful and passionate.

It is worth mentioning that as soon as many lovers get better, they often have no distance. Originally, Han Yi was a very clingy person in love, but after being with Bai Xue, he changed, probably because he had a career and became more mature and stable.

No matter how close and loving two people are, they still need to keep a certain distance. The two of them have always regarded each other as independent people, rather than their own "possessions", even if they want to become exclusive, but it is only a temporary thought, after all, they have their own work and life, and they know how to continue to respect each other and give each other a moderate amount of free space, so Han Yi will not force Bai Xue to put down his work and go to Shanghai with him, so that there is no need to separate the two places, but if this continues, it will only backfire after a long time.

The love that the two of them have only seen seems to have a good grasp of this degree. No one is above the head of another, nor is he humbled to dust because of love. What's more, the distance between them in reality does not affect the distance between the two hearts, and the occasional longing makes their love stronger.

A master once said that the worst technique in the world is "binding". Tolstoy and Sophia were originally a pair of lovers who loved each other very much, but after getting married, Sophia always wanted to read the letters written by Tolstoy. Tolstoy was a man who was absolutely honest with himself, and wrote down his true thoughts in his diary without concealment. He wrote to

It used to be a big problem in the life of the soul, but after Sophia saw it, she always connected these problems to herself, so she always had contradictions. Tolstoy could not help but think that another pair of eyes were looking at him when he wrote his diary, so he could not enter that state of honesty, and he felt very painful about it, but Sophia did not understand it, and it remained the same, and as a result, after a quarrel between the two, Tolstoy ran away from home and died in a small station. This is the tragedy brewed by not knowing how to respect each other's independent spiritual life.

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