Han Yi is a very lonely person many times, he wants to find someone who can talk to you at will, or someone who is willing to tell you sincerely, it is too difficult and too difficult. If there is one, Li Jia may be the best candidate.

Many people have had the experience of being in a bad mood and wanting to find someone to talk about their distress. When I opened the phone address book, there were hundreds, thousands of contacts, but I flipped down one by one, but I found that there were not many people who could be contacted. Seventy percent of them are working partners, and communication with each other is limited to the content of work.

In addition, it is inconvenient for your family and friends, your troubles to talk to him, and you dare not tell him about the unhappiness you encounter at work, for fear that if you are not careful, it will reach the ears of other people in the company. Twenty percent are old classmates who stop contacting almost after graduation. Everyone has a new job and life, the circle is different, and the things they encounter are also different.

He may not understand your suffering, and he may not understand what you say.

Seven percent are former friends. This kind of friend is the most sad to think about. From the past nothing to talk about, now the two places are separated, there are fewer and fewer places to intersect with each other, and everyone is getting busier and busier.

Sometimes, I want to give the other person a call, but I am afraid to disturb the other person.

What's even more frightening is that the phone is connected, but the lives of the two sides have long been different, full of worries and grievances, turned into an embarrassing and polite sentence: "How are you doing?" ”

So, you have a tacit understanding not to disturb each other easily, and finally, in such a "tacit understanding", you gradually drift apart.

There was a small poem called "You don't understand me, I don't blame you" on the Internet, and I especially like it: Everyone has a dead end, they can't get out by themselves, and others can't break in. I put my deepest secrets there. You don't understand me, and I don't blame you. Everyone has a line of tears, the cold water they drink, the hot tears that brew. I put my most heartfelt grievances there. You don't understand me, and I don't blame you.

The true nature of life is indeed like this.

Everyone's life experience is different, you have your pain, he has his sadness, you can't understand him, and he can't empathize with your experience. There are many friends, but most of the time, everyone is destined to have a long way to walk alone, a person passing through the mud and passing by the wind.

Slowly learn to become mature, slowly learn to look at the comings and goings of everyone in life, and slowly learn to swallow all the happiness, grievances and sadness lightly.

But I'm also very lucky, and I still have three percent of my best friends on my phone, who are people you can talk to at any time.

You are very happy, a large number of messages bombarded in the past, although the preface does not match the afterword, but he understands your mood very well, you are happy, he also feels happy.

If you have a little bit of sadness, he can immediately sense it, and without you saying more, he will come to you immediately, or call you, make you happy, and help you analyze the gains and losses of right and wrong.

If you have any ideas that don't seem very realistic, you can boldly tell him, Yong

Far from worrying about being ridiculed. He understands your love and supports what you are pursuing.

You chat with him, you don't have to rack your brains to think about topics, every little thing in life can be very happy, and every time you chat, it feels like time flies very quickly.

In the sea of life, you will meet countless people, but if you can have three or two people who can talk at any time, you are really lucky.

To borrow a phrase from Zhang Ailing:

Meet the person you want to meet among thousands of people, in the wilderness of endless time for thousands of years, there is no earlier step, no later step, just just catch up, there is nothing else to say, but to ask softly: "Oh, you are here too?"

In our life, we may have only touched our hearts to one person, but there will only be one person who really goes to the end. That person must understand your heart, and you will be willing to be with him for a lifetime and grow old together.

It is said that "it is easy to like someone, but it is difficult to understand someone." "That's true. Everyone has their own shining point, and they all have the possibility of being liked. More often than not, we like someone for no reason or even a look of joy.

But around us, there are also many people who come together because they are attracted to each other, but after getting along for a while, they are separated because they don't understand each other's hearts.

It may only take a second to be tempted, but it takes a long time to understand. Everyone is a special being, and they all have some unknown sadness. If you really want to understand someone, you need love and heart.

People who understand you will understand the pain behind you, feel sorry for your efforts, and support your every decision. He will laugh with you when you are happy; Give you a big hug when you're upset.

Someone who understands you may not say too many sweet words to please you, but with him, you will feel very at ease. He will always tolerate your shortcomings and cherish your feelings. Even if he sees the worst side of you, he won't let go of your hand.

The most affectionate confession is companionship, and the warmest companionship is understanding. For the rest of your life, be with people who know you and understand you. Even if the vicissitudes of life change, two people who know each other can stay together for a lifetime, and this relationship remains the same.

In "Goodbye, Jinhua Station", there is a line that says: "One day, you thought of someone for no reason." He made you look forward to tomorrow, but he didn't show up in your tomorrow at all. ”

Even so, you have to make your tomorrow better.

If you never receive a response to a message, don't send it again, and your call will always be "Sorry, your call is temporarily unreachable." Don't fight anymore.

A good relationship is not something that you ask for yourself, but the result of mutual tacit understanding and hand in hand love.

Many things, only by letting go of themselves, can there be a new beginning. In this life, we always have to experience this or that kind of pain, and we can't always be immersed in pain and can't extricate ourselves. No matter what the present is, tomorrow's life

It goes on, both emotionally and at work.

Before we make a choice, we always feel that failure is an unbearable thing, and it will be a shame to think that others do well and we can't do it ourselves. We see others happy and unhappy, and they can't bear the pain of falling out of love, but you have to think that everyone has their own strengths.

Maybe a certain failure or falling out of love just happened to do something that he was not good at and loved someone he shouldn't love. Change the track, change the person, keep running, and eventually you will reach the finish line.

Han Yi sometimes gave himself such a hint in his heart: "You don't have to be strong all the time, if you can change the way you like, it's not a good thing to live a gentle life." No matter what happens to the later story, it must also make the later life worthwhile! ”

But every time I think about it, I also feel that this is not him, he is a dignified man, not so pretentious, and everything will pass as soon as he carries it.

What to let go, reconcile with oneself, say goodbye to the past, and rekindle hope for life, these are all self-deception. What he can really do is to continue to numb himself with work, keep himself busy, and have no time to worry.

After Han Yi sent Li Jia back, he immediately rushed to the company, and only when he walked into the Yihui building did he meet Xin Nuannuan at the elevator.

He was surprised, playfully flicked the back of his head, and smiled, "Why are you back?" Did Fu Bo come over too? ”

Nuan Nuan turned around and found that it was actually Han Yi, and smiled brightly, "Boss! ”

That's what the veteran employees of Yihui basically call him like this, which not only has that kind of intimacy, but also highlights his identity as a boss.

"When did you go back to Chongqing? Fu Bo also told me that you are in Chengdu. Well, this is the preliminary contract he asked me to bring here, and someone from their company should come over tonight to discuss specific cooperation matters with Yihui. ”

Qiu Lang was very happy to see a good friend of Ling at this moment, and deliberately teased: "Did you start turning your elbow out so soon?" It's like a boss lady. But don't forget, you're still my employee! Fu Bo's kid actually snatched you away with empty gloves and white wolf, and your liquidated damages are almost nearly 10 million, why do I have to ask him to compensate me for my losses! ”

Fu Bo and Nuan Nuan excitedly told Han Yi the night after their date in Shanghai, nothing more than to thank Han Yi for the matchmaking, and then express their excitement.

Nuan Nuan didn't hide it like before, and said with a smile: "Compensation!" Must pay! ”

"That's what you said! The company worked so hard to train and protect you so well, but in the end, it was still cheaper for Fu Bo's kid! ”

Han Yi thought that he had to worry about Nuan Nuan a lot over the years, although Nuan Nuan was the anchor with the largest income from traffic and gifts on the platform, and he had made a lot of money for his guild, platform, and even Yihui, but he also invested a lot for her, and there were many rich sons who offended him, not to mention more, Yi Yang was also one.

"Thank you, Boss!" This should be Nuan Nuan's heartfelt thanks, for her, for her and Fu Bo.

The employees in the company smiled politely and greeted Han Yi, and when they were about to arrive at the office, Han Yi asked, "By the way, how is the filming?" Are you ready to quit the stream now? ”

"I don't have many scenes, and I've already finished filming this month, and there may be some reshoots after that, so I'll announce it for the time being. If you quit the live broadcast or not, I don't count what I said, it depends on your arrangement. Nuan Nuan always walked a little behind Han Yi's right hand.

"Well, this can't be sloppy, otherwise those fans of yours will explode, and then there will definitely be rumors flying all over the sky, then I'll find the guild operation team to think about it."

Han Yi pushed open the door to his office and found Yi Yang sitting at his desk, while Ammy was sitting on the couch looking at something.

"You're finally here, we've been waiting for you for a long time!" Yi Yang stepped forward with a smile and beckoned, and then looked at Nuan Nuan with a wicked smile, "When did you come back?" ”

Yi Yang has a playboy cynical attitude, and he has long had the idea of warmth, but he has been blocked by Han Yi's steel plate in the middle.

(End of chapter)