How many secrets does a person need to hide in order to skillfully live their lives, there are still so many people who can't walk because of their preoccupations

The so-called heart is a heavy thought in the inner world, which cannot be lifted and let go will make the heart lose its happiness and lightness.

Han Yi has a lot of things backlogged in his heart, things that he can't throw away, things that he can't let go.

He knows that when a person picks up a cup, fills it with boiling water, and overflows, he will naturally let go.

He also suspected that the reason why he was obsessed with the past was because he had no confidence in his future at all, and he was too dissatisfied with his present.

If he really treats every today as his last day, then his life will have meaning, and the past will no longer be so important

He doesn't know, and who knows

At the beginning, the man who liked to scribble some words once wrote these two paragraphs

The reason why people are tired is that they have too much ideological baggage, and their inner greed, hatred, and obsession are too deep and complicated. Simplicity is blessing, optimism is beauty, and people with a simple optimistic attitude are sunny every day. Simple optimism is a kind of free and easy, and it is a kind of mature ability. Simple and optimistic, not a fool, that is the calmness and calmness after experiencing the tempering of the world. Simple and optimistic people, clean and pure thoughts, no deceit, no desire for profit, let alone ill-intentioned, they will not let the dissatisfied and at the mercy of their hearts.

If there is too much in life, the heart will be painful, and it will be a bottomless pit. If you want to make your life more exciting, you must be down-to-earth and don't be ambitious. Only by cutting out too much greed and hatred can you be free and happy, and you will be more relaxed. With a simple and optimistic attitude, happiness will always accompany you. But true and lasting happiness and calmness can only grow in your heart. Let your heart be filled with a little beautiful dream, and the dream will make your heart more hard-working, and make your world full of color and luster. Whether a person's future is valuable and meaningful depends on whether he works hard to do a good job today, forgets the successes and failures of the past, and cherishes every minute and every second in front of him.

Now, those high-sounding words can't convince themselves, how ridiculous

People, whether they have money or not, they will have the same troubles.

Han Yi, the poor boy who used to be, may be happier and less stressed. Now that he has the ability to make money, he has greater responsibilities, his dreams are higher, and he wants to get more.

I wanted to slow down, but I found that I couldn't stop.

After experiencing too much helplessness in life, you can understand that no one can avoid every dull day. Life is tedious, reality is not easy, we have to let our mind learn to tolerate, have to learn to look at the people and things around us with appreciation, many things in life, there is really no time to stay, there is no room to turn back.

Some people say that in life, laughter and crying can also move the years as long as they come from the heart.

But this road is not afraid of wind and rain, the long-awaited glory has not yet appeared, too many choices often have no choice, in the wind and rain

After walking for too long, I am tired, and I slowly lose my way in this complex society.

Some roads, when they begin, pass away the opportunity to turn back. Even if no one is distressed about the bleak life, you still have to look forward to the next record with your original intention.

Even if no one applauds, you still have to move forward bravely out of the haze and towards the light.

The same is true for relationships and careers. It's just that now for Han Yi, the weight of his career is heavier.

This is his choice, so he can't complain about others when he is bitter and tired.

Maupassant once wrote a sentence that people are more fragile and strong than they can imagine. Sometimes, we may be so fragile that we burst into tears at a single sentence, and sometimes, we also find ourselves gritting our teeth and walking a long way.

Many people must have experienced such a moment, always trying to do everything thoroughly, but often it just backfires.

I feel more and more lonely, and I want to find someone to talk to, but I can't know who to talk to.

It's like a girl who, late at night, has an emotional breakdown for no reason and just wants to cry.

In this complex society, everyone can only see whether she is doing well on the surface, and no one will care how tired she is.

Occasionally, if you lose control of your emotions and are touched, you will only be asked "what's wrong with you"

She was obviously very tired, and she longed for a hug, to be able to hug her tired self fiercely, but in the end, she just wiped her tears and said, "I'm fine." ”

What is growth

There are more and more people who know you, but few people know you, and that's growth.

It is unlikely that Han Yi will cry because of bitterness or tiredness, and one of the most likely ways for him to cry should be to be moved.

He is a strong man, and the worst may be sometimes, he really feels too tired and can't stay up for a moment, he just wants to take a good rest and never want to work hard anymore.

But after each rest, he came back to life full of blood, and there were countless excuses to give up, but there was always a reason for him to continue to persevere.

It's hard to be lonely, but for the sake of a better life for your parents, you can be lonely no matter how lonely you are.

The effort is tiring, but there are too many responsibilities to carry, so I have to work tirelessly.

"You're tired, stop and rest." This was the most tearful sentence that brought tears to his eyes.

His mother told him, and the second one to him was Li Jia, even Bai Xue, whom she loved deeply, never said such a thing, because she never asked Han Yi about her work, and Han Yi never let her see herself who encountered difficulties and troubles at work.

How many people have experienced countless ups and downs and suffered great grievances, but they have not shed a single tear, and they are still strong to bear everything, but a gentle comfort can make them cry.

When you're tired, stop and rest, take off your strong mask, and hug yourself.

It's normal to be tired, just like a car, a car needs to be refueled, let alone a person

The car stops to refuel so that it can continue to move forward, and the same is true for people

When you're tired, just rest

Take a break, and then continue to work hard, don't tire yourself out.

In this world, there is nothing important except life and death.

Mom said, "It's okay, you know, everyone goes through some emotional out-of-control things, or moments that break people, and you're not alone." I know that some roads may be difficult to walk, but as long as you are willing to repair them, they will always be repaired. If you really can't fix it, then you can pick and don't do it, let someone else fix it, and you can take a good rest."

Li Jia said, "I know that sometimes I may really not be able to bear it, but thinking about so many difficult moments before, I have survived it, is it still a while, and if I persist for a while, I will always get through it." I'm really tired, let's stop and rest for a while."

No one's life is smooth sailing, life is fair, and it is the same for everyone. Life is very hard, but there are also people who can live very sweet, like Li Jia, just like Bai Xue.

But they are women, they don't have so many burdens on their shoulders, they don't have so many responsibilities.

If Li Jia lived like before she met Han Yi, doing a job she didn't like, with a low salary, and Feng Zhiyao was just a coder in a small technology company, would they also have various contradictions, and would they often quarrel because of practical problems?

If Han Yi had been with Bai Xue at the beginning, but had not come to Chongqing, and went to work in factories or electrical companies step by step, it is difficult to say whether they would have come so far

Han Yi didn't regret that he went to Chongqing with Bai Xue because he liked her, but sometimes he didn't understand why Bai Xue couldn't understand him like he did at the beginning, and why he couldn't give him a little comfort or encouragement when he was under so much pressure

In fact, he was troubled and anxious not because of Bai Xue, but because Xia Bo and his sister were deliberately hurt by Zhao Jun, because of Jiang Meng's words. On the contrary, what he wants to see most now is Bai Xue, and he wants to find solace in her.

In short, it's annoying now that he lay in bed for an hour and didn't fall asleep, and called Bai Xue on the landline at home, but no one answered.

Because of the company's affairs, the bastard boy Zhao Jun, Jiang Meng's indiscriminate, and AY's "betrayal"

He wanted to see Bai Xue and talk to her, but he couldn't

Just because she said that she was busy with work and called her back that day, but she forgot it, so she has been angry until now, or is she saying that her mobile phone is not on her but she has not been able to get through a few days ago, so she is still angry

The more he thought about it, the more confused he became, and he even felt that Bai Xue was not considerate enough to understand him.

It's not, they're just perfect misses. Han Yi was imprisoned for two days, and his mobile phone was taken away by Zhao Jun, so he didn't know that Bai Xue had been trying to contact him in the past two days. And now Han Yi has not been able to contact Bai Xue because her mobile phone is not on her or silent when she goes to work.

It's ridiculous to say, even if he doesn't understand, even if he is confused, he doesn't blame Bai Xue at all, probably because he feels that Hao Yali owes Bai Xue something about it.

Unable to sleep, he walked from the bedroom to the study, and from the study to the living room. turned on the TV, but it turned off again within two seconds. Without a mobile phone, he couldn't contact Bai Xue, and he was very unsure. He opened the notebook again, and tried all QQ and Weibo, but of course, he still didn't get a reply from Bai Xue.

He suddenly had an idea, now, immediately, immediately go to Chongqing to ignore the company's, and not go to dinner with Song Jianguo and his family, let Zhao Jun's bastard go to hell, and he doesn't want to see him again in the future

So, he seemed to see the blue sky through the clouds and mist, and suddenly opened up. After booking a ticket online for a three-hour flight to Chongqing, the only person he wants to see now is Bai Xue, even though he still has a wound on his face.

He thought that Bai Xue should have scolded him the first time she saw him, and then felt sorry for him with tears in her eyes, blaming him while hugging him tightly

After this chapter, I want to talk with more like-minded people to start liking you in the future, WeChat, talk about life, and find confidants