"So I find it very confusing." Bo Xiai frowned, "I can't figure it out either, why am I uncomfortable?" ”

The doctor stared at Bo Xiai for a long time, and finally laughed, "That's because you like him." ”

Thin love "......"

She didn't feel speechless, and her first reaction was shock.

She...... Like He Yanshen......

Bo Xiai also thought about this question, frowned and asked, "Is that my possessiveness?" In the past, he was only good to me, but now that he is good to others, I am uncomfortable? ”

"Possessiveness is also part of love, of course, love accounts for a little more." The doctor smiled and lifted his glasses, "If you are possessive, your heart will not hurt, at most it will be uncomfortable, but if it hurts, then you really like it." ”

"......" Bo Xi was stunned.

The doctor raised his lips again and said, "And no one says that possessiveness cannot be love, some people are naturally possessive, do you want to say that people don't like each other?" ”

Bo Xiai remembered, second brother.

Bo Siyu is very possessive, and often hears Qiao Youxia complain that he is jealous even when he says hello to other men.

But doesn't the second brother love his sister-in-law?

If the second brother can not love his sister-in-law, Bo Xiai feels that there is really no love in this world.

She looked at the doctor blankly, still incredulous, "Doctor, take a good look, I'...... Don't you like him, do you? I haven't liked it in years. ”

"You Chinese have a good saying, you don't know what to do, and you just fit this truth." The doctor raised his eyebrows, "Maybe you've already liked him, but you just haven't studied this relationship deeply, and you haven't thought about it carefully, so to speak, he makes you too relieved, and you don't have a sense of crisis at all." ”

Thin love "......"

Is that really liking?

The doctor looked at her hesitantly, and looked at her, "Then let me give you another example, if you knew that he had a child with someone else, how would you feel?" ”

Bo Xiai's heart stabbed hard.

She looked at the doctor, not knowing what to answer.

The doctor smiled and said, "If it's pain, it's liking, if it's just a simple discomfort, maybe it's just that I don't like it so much, but there are still feelings." ”

Bo Xiai pursed her lips and said to the doctor, "Doctor...... I feel like a scumbag......"

"Did you discover your feelings for him just because you had a new love?"

"Hmmm......"

The doctor laughed, "You're wrong, little girl, a scumbag is not a scumbag, in his parallelism, in his irresponsibility, not in his possessiveness, the late discovery just shows that this person is relatively slow to feelings, this can't be called scum." ”

“……”

"I'll give you a science popularization of what is called scum."

“……”

"In fact, once you have possessiveness, it means that the feelings for this person are special, no matter which one, then at this time, you hang others, do not agree to others, and you will most see that others have a new love, and if it is not good for you, you will go to find someone, and then after being together, after the sense of crisis is lifted, you will abandon others and call them scum."

“……”

"If you ignore people after you are with him, then you are really a scumbag, but you also have to think carefully, where is your relationship with him, can you let him live well? I can't help you with the level of liking. ”

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