"Young and promising! I used to underestimate you, come on! It's just that I think you should achieve your own career, not others! Don't look back at my age only to find that what you left for the end is not what you want! ”

This is what Wang Shuwen deliberately said when he left holding Han Yi's hand, which made Han Yi keep thinking, what did he mean? Is it like he said before, I've always been used as a pawn to help Qiu Lang deal with trouble? He finally came to sow discord? Or is it something else? What was he left behind in the end, and what was he wanting?

Han Yi was puzzled! He doesn't understand very well.

He has always been a man who likes to save the best for the end, and feels that this is a happy ending.

But sometimes it's not like that, and I often hear others say, enjoy the moment, don't save the best for last!

Tian Wei said in "Half an Acre of Flower Field": In life, we all receive different scripts. Some are bland, some are intense, some are laughing, some are tears. No matter what, I have to do it well until the curtain ends. Life is so precious that it feels like a waste. If I had to say one piece of advice not to waste my life, I think it would be: don't save the best for last.

How many unfinished things or dreams are there in this life?

A talented and intelligent girl, she has had excellent grades and worked hard since she was a child, so she was admitted to a prestigious school step by step, studied for graduate studies, and went abroad for further study.

After returning to China, she became a young lecturer at Fudan University, and also entered a happy marriage and had children.

Love and career have a bumper harvest, but after she became a winner in life, fate played a joke with Yu Juan.

At the age of 31, she was diagnosed with advanced breast cancer.

What's even more cruel is that she only has a year and a half left.

She is the excellent returnee doctor Yu Juan, after learning of her illness, she wrote the life perception after the illness into the book "This Life is Unfinished", which has brought inspiration to countless people.

At the end of her life, Yu Juan often thinks about why people live?

She said in her blog, "I also tried my best to pounce on something that I didn't know if it was my goal in life, and I can't help but say that it was a stupid thing that a fool did." When I got sick, I learned that people should base their happiness on sustainable and long-term life goals, rather than just looking at short-term fame, fortune and power. Fame, fortune and power, none of them are not hard, but none of them can be brought. ”

Death knows that everything is empty, maybe people can only really see the meaning of life when they go to the last step! Just like Yu Juan said, there is nothing to bring with you fame, fortune and power.

At the critical point of life and death, she realized:

"You will find that any overtime, too much pressure on yourself, the need to buy a house and a car, are floating clouds, if you have time, accompany your children well, buy a pair of shoes for your parents with the money to buy a car, don't desperately change to a big house, and be with the people you love, and live warmly."

At the end of the story, Yu Juan died suddenly.

Elderly parents, grieving husbands, young children are left behind.

This life is unfinished, and these five words are written with endless regrets.

Flowers can be broken straight and must be broken, don't wait for no flowers and empty branches, this is the truth that everyone understands, but few people do it.

Mo Yan told a friend's experience:

Friend's wife

When I passed away, I saw a silk scarf when I was packing up my belongings, and I didn't even remove the label. Because this scarf is very beautiful and expensive, my wife has always been reluctant to use it, and wants to wait until a special moment to use it.

As a result, he didn't wear it until he died.

My friend sighed and said: Don't save good things for special days, every day you live is a special day.

Just like being reluctant to wear a scarf, people always save their wishes, but it backfires: when they were young, they wanted to climb the mountain but didn't succeed, but when they got old, they could only look at the mountain and sigh; The dress you like when you go shopping is too expensive, and if you save enough money, the clothes are outdated; A young child wants to fly a kite, and when you have time, she doesn't like kites anymore.

Food expires, and so does happiness.

Life is like a basket of fresh apples, you don't want to eat them. Later, the apples are rotting, and you start eating the bad apples, and after eating the bad apples, the good ones are bad again, and you go back to eating the bad ones. Leave the best for the end, but in the end, you will eat a lifetime of rotten apples and suffer a lifetime of undeserved suffering.

Happiness not only expires, but also disappears in the busyness.

Bai Yansong in "Are You Happy? In the book, the word "busy" is interpreted in this way. "Busy" is a combination of the words "heart" and "death", and if you are busy, your heart will die.

Many people just lose their hearts in meaningless busyness. To be alive and alive can only be a bamboo basket to draw water, and it will be empty.

Give and lose. I can't enjoy the scenery along the way for a lifetime.

Li Zongsheng has a lyric that only those who have lost understand it: When you cross the hills, you find that no one is waiting.

The simple lyrics are the epitome of countless poignant stories.

The poor sour boy went out to break out, and on the day he returned with a dowry when he became famous, his beloved had already married a wife;

The high-spirited husband is busy with work all day long, and after gaining fame and fortune, he gets his wife separated;

Parents who are under pressure have worked hard to earn money from their hometowns, but they are strangers to their children;

There is another kind, that is, the children can't wait for the clothes to return to their hometown, but what they are waiting for is life and death.

"The son wants to raise but does not treat the family" is the most common regret of the Chinese.

Some time ago, I was swiped by a story on Weibo, an old man in the mountains of Guizhou, whose daughter works in Guangdong, only goes home once a year for the New Year, and leaves in a hurry after the New Year.

The mother felt sorry for her daughter's busy work, and she kept reporting good news but not bad news, and she didn't let her daughter know about her illness several times, but she pretended to be healthy when her health was getting worse. After a long illness, finally in the middle of the night, my mother died of illness, and was found by a neighbor a few days after her death.

After the daughter rushed back after learning the news, she cried at her mother's stiff and cold corpse and said, "I regret it so much, I really regret it, I shouldn't go back to Guangdong after the New Year." Should stay with mom. ”

At this moment in this life, regret and tears are the most useless confessions.

Parents are here, there is still a place to come in life, parents are gone, and there is no way back in life.

From then on, there will be no mother waiting in the house.

How many people are like this, always waiting:

When I make money in the future, I will take my parents back to the city to live and let them live in their old age;

When I get better, I confess to the girl in my heart;

When I finished the project at hand, I went on a trip with my family.

It wasn't until later that I found out, "wait for me, just", which is an infinitely delayed future tense.

"Wait" will become "Wait".

Wait until that day, I sure

And then the brutal truth tells you: I'm sorry, you can't wait for that day. Forever~

When that day came, the man was long gone.

Maybe he's gone, she's old, or maybe he's dead.

We always give the worst temper, the most helplessness, and the longest empty check to the most important person to ourselves.

As a result, as we walked, we lost the person who loved us the most.

"A Little Monk of Zen" tells the story of "the last day of a condemned prisoner":

There is a young man who is idle and always does some stealing and touching dogs.

One day, he went to the barracks to steal horses and was accidentally caught. The general was furious and said that he would behead the young man for public display, but before that he was allowed to make his last wishes.

The young man said, "I want to cook a meal for my mother, I have always made her angry since I was a child, and I have never honored her properly." ”

"What else?" The general asked.

"I want to say sorry to Xiaocui, the hosta I promised to give her doesn't seem to be able to do it." The young man replied.

"What else?" The general asked again.

The young man wept bitterly and said, "I still want to learn some trades and stop stealing chickens and dogs, but it's too late to say anything."

After hearing this, the general swung his sword to kill the young man, but let him go at the last moment, and said: "You are a dignified seven-foot man, filial piety to the old mother, send a woman hosta, learn art to support your family, why do you want to do it until the last day." I command you to treat every day as your last day from now on, so that you can live up to me and let you go. ”

Young people suddenly realized that they must not leave important things to be done at the last minute, otherwise they will regret it for the rest of their lives.

This story tells us: live in the moment and live every day as the last day, so as to live up to the time.

Lin Xi has a lyric that reads: "I have also wasted my time, and even recklessly regarded death as home, but because I fell in love with you, I began to yearn for a long life." ”

With a loved one, there is a weakness, and they begin to desire to live a long life.

But when people live longer, will love increase?

Not necessarily.

There are still many people, who waste their time indifferently to separate, and on the other hand, they sincerely pray for each other to stay together.

Only by treating every day as the last day of life can we love with gratitude and heart.

Don't leave the best things to do at the end, don't leave the most important people to the last to hurt, love your neighbor and love yourself starts from this moment.

Tian Wei said: "Every sleep is a death, and when we wake up, it is a new life." ”

So it is just right.

Love each other as if it were the end of the day, live up to it, not be lonely, not wait, not hesitate, and not wander

Han Yi is now going through the stage of "waiting" and "waiting", Wang Shuwen's sentence "What is left to the end is not what I want!" He sighed slightly, but he didn't understand what he meant by those words. 2k reading web