Chapter 635: I Really Don't Go
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Chapter 647: Acceptance
"Your brother Congzi used the note given by Lu Xiucai to pretend to be an IOU, and scared his aunt away." Yunjin Shudao.
Congzi was very proud, and suddenly ran back to the house and took out the notebook given by Lu Xiucai.
"Xiaobao, Niuniu, do you recognize this?"
"I recognize it, Lu Xiucai also gave it to us."
"That's what I used to trick my aunt just now, so I said......"
Xiao Bao Niuniu was not present when Congzi deceived Zheng Erniang, so he told Xiao Bao Niuniu the ins and outs of the matter.
Xiao Bao Niuniu giggled when she heard this, and kept saying that Brother Congzi was amazing.
"So Xiao Bao Niuniu, you must not do that kind of thing in the future that slaps a swollen face and becomes fat, these things that Brother Congzi has done can be described in two words, that is, pretending to be poor." Yun Jinshu took the opportunity to educate several children.
"What's the use of making everyone feel rich but to satisfy vanity? Whether we are doing well or not depends on what others think, what others say, but on our own feelings.
If you show off your wealth and make people feel that they are rich, there will be an autumn breeze coming to the door. Everyone has poor relatives, and everyone has relatives who love to take advantage, and when these relatives come and want to borrow money, then what should we do?
Lend them money, and they will definitely not pay it back, and they will be called stingy because they think we have money. If you don't borrow it directly, it's easier to be said to be stingy. But if you borrow it, you have to lose money, and it's uncomfortable.
So, even if you have money, don't show it. This is the principle that wealth is not exposed. Don't be that kind of vain person, it's yourself who hurts when you slap your swollen face and become fat. ”
"Got it, mother!" Xiao Bao Niu nodded seriously.
"Mother, Lin Qianqian's family has such relatives. The relative's house collapsed, and they were obviously very rich, but they had to come to the Lin family to ask for it, because Lin Qianqian's grandmother said that the pair of shoes she was wearing by herself were five taels of silver, and the relative said that their family was short of five taels of silver, and the Lin family would not even be willing to help with the money for a pair of shoes.
Lin Qianqian's grandmother was also very vain, afraid that others would say she was stingy, and she was afraid that others would say that she was fake and rich, so she gave five taels of silver. Later, the relative's family simply stopped farming, and went to the Lin family every once in a while to ask for money, and the Lin family gave it all for the sake of face. Xiaobao said.
Niu Niu smiled and nodded.
"I also know what my brother said. I also know one thing, it's my cousin's family. My cousin had a particularly beautiful kite, which was made of silk and embroidered on it, and she said that it cost three taels of silver to make it, and others said that she was really rich.
She said it was nothing, that her kite was only flown three times and then thrown it. Later, a girl accidentally broke her kite that she bought for three taels of silver, and it happened that her kite was flown three times, and the girl's mother said that she didn't need to lose money, and she gritted her teeth and said no.
Later, I heard from her maid that she was distressed to death, and her aunt deducted her monthly money for a month and did not give it to her. Niu Niu said.
Yun Jinshu nodded.
"So you know, right? You must not expose your wealth so that you will not be taken advantage of. What's the use of all that vanity? If you need to spend money, that is, you can maintain the superficial scenery, and you will suffer in the end. ”
"Uh-huh!" Xiao Bao Niu nodded, it seemed that she remembered.
Yun Jinshu himself was a little surprised. She couldn't have imagined that her two children could accept these truths so quickly.