Separated from each other, there was no news of Han Yi for several days, and Bai Xue seemed to be a little accustomed to it after being upset for a while.

Sometimes, you miss someone a lot, but you won't call him. Call him, I don't know if it's better to say it or not to call.

Missing someone doesn't necessarily have to hear his voice. Hearing his voice may be something else. Everything in imagination is often slightly better than reality. The person I miss is also a little warmer than reality. Thoughts seem to be a distant thing, but sometimes they are a little closer than reality.

If you are happy and sad, the first thing you think of is the same person, then it is the most perfect, if when you are happy and sad, the first thing that comes to mind is not the same person, you should choose the one you want to spend sad moments with her, life is originally more bitter than happy. Your happiness, there are too many people to share with you, not necessarily a lover, if the life is happy, it is good to be alone, sad, but not many people can share it with you.

You are willing to tell him your sorrow, and he is the person you want to be close to and cherish the most

The so-called deadlines in love are all used to delay.

"I really want to wait for you, but I am reluctant to go. I knew I was going to get old, but I was reluctant to let go. Why is there a time limit? Because I'm afraid I won't be able to do it. ”

Love has life, old age, sickness, and death. Love is old and sick, and if it can't cure love, it will die. Love is going to die, but the time limit is up. Why should we be in love and refuse to let go? You can't be ignorant of the timing of everything, you just want to delay the deadline a little longer. Flowers bloom and fall, everything sometimes, why don't you accept that this is the law of nature?

"I just like this, even if I think of you and want to cry, I won't go to you, I just miss you quietly."

It's been three days, and Bai Xue hasn't received a call or text message from Han Yi, so even if she takes the initiative to call him, she can't be contacted. While she resented Han Yi, she was worried and scared in her heart.

Just last night when she was chatting with Keiko, she also inadvertently said a sentence: The right person, you have to run to get closer.

In fact, compared to the cowardly Bai Xue who was used to escaping, she has changed a lot. Although Hao Yali's matter is a hurdle in her heart that she can't overcome, she has already made appropriate concessions, and she is also trying to face it with Han Yi to solve such and such problems.

She is particularly sensitive in her relationship, and she will always become sad inexplicably, and all kinds of emotions fly wildly in her mind.

She had more doubts in her heart, is it the right time, is Han Yi the right person?

Most people are ignorant when they are young, they only know that you and I are nong, and they don't know what a good soup is to boil slowly and flow for a long time. Stubborn and self-contained, almost all of them will miss when they meet the right person.

So after experiencing the pain of separation, I fantasized that if I waited until a little later, when they each grew up to mature and cherish the person next to them, and then met the he/she who was destined for each other, they would be able to live together and spend a lifetime together.

Now she is not too old, but her classmates and friends of the same age are basically married, and even the children are one or two years old. The pressure from his parents at home and the pressure from his friends will inevitably make him upset.

What kind of person is called the "right person"?

Do you grow old together, do you stay together, or do you spend your life together until you die?

If that's what "the right person" means, then there's no difference between meeting sooner or later.

In the past, she never suspected that this "right person" was Han Yi, but now, it seems to have changed. She clearly remembered that when she quarreled with Han Yi, she said that Han Yi had changed. When she began to doubt, she did not deny it, and she had changed.

Sooner or later, people who are not right will separate. And even if they are immature, not independent, and meet the right person at a very early age, they will not be separated.

Because the right person can stay together for a lifetime, and the person who can't spend a lifetime together is not the right person.

It sounds like a paradox, ironic and contradictory.

When I was 17 or 8 years old, the right person was the boy in a white shirt, with broken bangs on his forehead, and a bright smile; It's the one in a floral dress

Son, a shy girl sitting in the crowd.

In my 20s, the right person was the fool who cooked instant noodles together in a rental house and was at ease, and the clumsy guy who saved up a few months' salary just to buy you a birthday present.

After the age of 30, the right person is the person who can see the table full of dishes when he comes home from work, sit on the side and smile and say "welcome home", and the person who hands you a pill to fold the quilt in the middle of the night when you are sick.

If you say that you meet the right person later, after the age of 30, the boy who can only play basketball and sweat all over his body, but he doesn't know that life is hard or the right person?

After the age of 30, the girl who is full of shyness, but doesn't know how to cook even a bowl of noodles, is it still the right person for you?

People are also a contradiction, in fact, the so-called "right person" just meets the standards of the time and meets the expectations of the heart at that time.

People are always changing, and life will make us constantly change what we want.

Xu Zhimo said that I was fortunate to find the only partner of my soul in the vast sea of people; No, my life.

Therefore, some people will think that if they can meet the person they love later, when they become better, maybe all the endings will be different.

Bai Xue would also wonder what would have happened to them now if she hadn't chosen to go abroad at that time?

But after thinking about it, I can't get an answer that can convince me in the end.

Perhaps, the gears of fate are always turning, and the ending has already been written, even if she is given countless opportunities to start over, nothing will change.

If there are many coincidences that happen by chance, it becomes fate, and when fate is deep, it naturally becomes fate.

For a woman who has been hurt, perhaps there is no soul mate in this world at all.

If you have to say, what is the right person?

They feel that there will be two right people in a person's life.

There must be such a person in everyone's life, who tells them what love is, how to love others, uses regrets to teach them to cherish the people around them, and uses leaving to portray eternal life and never see each other again.

He is the only one and only one existence arranged by fate, before meeting him, their love will always be the stars in the sky, the moon that cannot be fished out of the sea, without him, there would be no partners who are always by their side, they define him as the first right person in their lives.

Later, after they left the man, it took them a long time to heal the wounds he had left behind, and they spent a lot of energy trying to forget the timeless and mellow images in their minds.

Just when they both thought that they would no longer have the ability to love in this life, they met a second person. He may be humorous, he may be wooden, he may be very cold, or he may be gentle, but they must all have one thing in common: he must understand you very well.

Finally, they found that their hearts could still beat so vividly, the willows were green, the goose feathers were floating in the water, and every day was full of meaning.

At this time, they understood why fate would arrange for the first person to appear by their side.

Before the Supreme Treasure met Zixia, he would never have become the Monkey King;

Until Rose meets Jack, she will never know what she wants to live her life.

Fate has already chosen for them the person who can change the trajectory of their lives, so those people have learned that instead of being persistent, it is better to feel the joys and sorrows of the moment.

How so? Bai Xue is a person with a heavy emotional cleanliness and an extremely weak but ruthless heart. It sounds paradoxical and awkward, but it's true.

Her emotional cleanliness is: The ambiguous atmosphere around you is too heavy, and I can't get to you through the thorns; There are too many people of the opposite sex around you who can't explain the relationship, so I can't talk about love; People around you who I don't like come and go, and I can't stay with you.

Her weakness is: though I would love to tell you that I would knock over the vinegar jar because of these people, though I would like you to clean up the unimportant people for me, though I would like to see when I am happy with you

And for the point of fear, I still won't say anything to you.

And her cruelty is: Although I am happy with you, and the pleasure is more than the pain, I still can't accept the people and things that I am tired of. So, I didn't say a word, but I left you without hesitation.

Whether this is the case or not, maybe only Han Yi, who has been in love with her, knows.

Temper should be the most incomprehensible thing in the world, and everyone has it, even Bai Xue, who looks so fairy.

There is no perfect lover in the world, and everyone's points of concern are different.

Some people are most annoyed by the other half of lying, and if he wants to be with such a person, he must be more honest than others;

Some people can't accept that their other half smokes and drinks, and if they want to be with such a person, they have to quit smoking and drinking;

Some people are most afraid that the other party does not care enough about themselves, and if he wants to be with such a person, he must be more attentive in the relationship.

"If a person only needs money, then no amount of love you give her is better than buying her a bag. If a person only wants love, then it is useless for you to give her more money. No one says you're bad, it's just that what you can give is not what I want, and you can't give what I want. ”

It's such a simple truth, it seems that everyone knows it.

"If you know that the other party's circle is still messy when I am most annoyed by falling in love, but the messy people around me have not decreased at all, there is no need for us to be together."

She had heard such a sentence a long time ago, and it seemed to be said by her college roommate Fang Wen. Those were the last words she said to her then-boyfriend, and then they broke up not long after.

Fang Wen also said that men will find all kinds of bad excuses for themselves! And Bai Xue didn't think so at the time, at least Han Yi was a good boyfriend. He is honest, does not smoke, is sometimes romantic, and most importantly he never has an affair with another woman.

As a result, now, after such a comparison with before, there is indeed a gap in my heart.

She has no way of knowing if she is honest or not, because he always hides a lot of things on his mind. Romantic, because he threw himself into his career, and there was almost no more. Ambiguous, is Zhong Ying'er counted? Well, even if not, what about Hao Yali?

In short, it was because of the appearance of other women that she had a relationship with Han Yi, breaking the last line of defense in her heart.

Women know women best, and they know their men best.

The vast majority of women will say: no matter what your relationship is, I'm already unhappy, and if you think it's just because you don't want to push her away, that's fine, you don't have to push anyone away in the future, and you don't want to hug me anymore, it's as simple as that. If you really think that your so-called friends of wine and meat or the bewitching sluts out there are more important than me, then you should not be with me as soon as possible. No one can give in, I am willing to bear the pain of loving you, but I will never condone you to hurt me in this way. I'm here to fall in love with you, I can understand your carelessness, I can understand your willfulness and selfishness, sometimes you don't show up when I need you, maybe I can understand it, we can solve the big and small contradictions. But you have to understand that I'm not here to see other women hugging you, nor are I watching other girls complain in your circle of friends, let alone how attractive you are and how good the opposite sex is.

In a nutshell, if you decide to be with me, clean up your circle! If you can't do it, get out of here.

And Bai Xue, she didn't know what to do at all.

Does Han Yi no longer care about her? Does she love Han Yi so much anymore? Will their love have a happy outcome?

It's okay not to think of Han Yi, but when I think of him, my heart is full of doubts.

The love she has always held on to seems to be gradually leaving. She wanted to keep it, but she couldn't do anything about it.

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