Her heart was full of warmth and emotion, and Han Yingying nodded seriously: "Thank you, Mom, I know." ”

In the past, my mother always said that getting married should not only look at the character of the man, but also the character of his parents.

A good in-law will treat her daughter-in-law as her own child, love, respect, and have one heart in everything.

A bad in-law treats her daughter-in-law as an outsider, picky, embarrassed, and never has one mind.

If something goes wrong one day, the first person to be sacrificed is the daughter-in-law.

She didn't understand it before, but now she seems to understand a little.

Mother Shen got up with a smile: "Let's go, give tea to grandpa first." ”

"Mom, I'm afraid of grandpa"

"Grandpa is just a little stubborn, but he is actually a very good person."

"He doesn't like me."

"That's because he only sees your shortcomings, not your strengths. You, a child, are actually a person who sees very clearly, and the weakness you show is not all you have.

You cry, not because you are weak, but because you know that tears are a soft weapon. You don't fight because you know that there are too many people who love you and love you, and they will hold what you think in front of you. ”

Han Yingying opened her mouth in surprise, and she was stunned for a long time: "Mom, how do you know?" ”

She'd never told anyone about that.

Yes, tears are a weapon for her.

When she was a child, her brother always liked to play tricks on her.

Every time she cried, her father would beat her brother, and he would give her the delicious food.

She unconsciously equated crying with being protected and eating delicious.

When I was in kindergarten, several children bullied Xiaoxi, and she cried so much that all the children were frightened and cried with her.

In the end, the principal was shocked, and the children who bullied apologized to Xiaoxi and didn't dare to bully them anymore.

She unconsciously equates crying with being able to scare off bad guys and protect her friends.

When I was sensible, I saw someone being bullied on campus, and I didn't dare to cry or resist, so I could only be bullied.

She rushed over, crying and reasoning with others.

Those people are afraid of attracting the teacher, so they usually give up.

At that time, she clearly knew that tears could indeed be used as a weapon.

So she knew that it was not good to cry, and she seemed weak and hypocritical, but she let herself not get rid of this problem.

She always thought that this was her little secret, but she didn't expect that Shen's mother had already seen through it.

"Silly girl, it's not just me, people who really care about you and understand you know."

Han Yingying asked a little apprehensively, "Do you think I'm hypocritical like this?" ”

"On the contrary, I think you're smart. This society is too demanding for women, requiring women to be strong, independent, intelligent, able to earn money, and able to take care of the family.

But how can there be so many perfect people in this world? Most of them have more disadvantages than advantages. It's just that people who like you, and what they see, are your strengths. People who hate you see it is your shortcomings. ”

Mother Shen winked at Han Yingying, "Do you know how I caught up with your dad in the first place?" ”

Han Yingying was very curious: "Is it your dad who is chasing?" ”

"Otherwise, with his wooden personality like Mo Sheng, when he chases me, I'm afraid there will be no fun in this life."

Speaking of her husband, Shen's mother's eyes almost turned into a pool of spring water.

It's obviously a complaint, but it makes people hear a strong sweetness.

Thinking of Father Shen, who was not smiling, Han Yingying nodded sympathetically: "Indeed." ”

Mother Shen pursed her lips and snickered, the corners of her eyes and eyebrows were sweet: "He is much better now, and he used to be more wooden." With him, I can't say more than three words a day. ”

"How did Mom catch up with Dad?"