Chapter Seventy-Eight: Dissection
"If you can't get by, why don't you get along?" Cheng Jin asked boldly, she saw her parents struggling in this marriage, and there was no relationship between the two of them, and they couldn't go on at all, and they didn't even bother to pretend to act, but they still barely got together and gave birth to four children.
"And leave? How easy is it to leave? Cheng Ping smiled, "This marriage was set by your grandfather, and the Queen Mother also values your mother very much, so she won't agree easily, not to mention that it is a matter of two families to get married, not only the two of us, but also the Cheng family, the Liu family and the four of you." I don't know how many couples in this world are in love, but they are forced to reconcile, and how many couples turn against each other, but they are forced to live reluctantly...... Life is unsatisfactory, nine times out of ten. ”
"I heard that there was a lord Bo Tong in Honglu Temple in the past who was very affectionate, but his wife did not like Aunt Weng, and was finally forced to leave, and his wife vomited blood and died as soon as she returned to her parents' house, and it didn't take long for the lord Bo to die of depression." Although Cheng Mingyuan is young, he has a lot of anecdotes in Beijing.
"You know a lot at a young age," Cheng Pingqi said, "You have even heard about the events in the Xiping period, which shows that you usually put your mind on playing." ”
Cheng Mingyuan laughed dryly, "Father must have heard of this kind of anecdote." ”
"Not to mention, I heard that I drank with that Lord Yu and his wife," Cheng Ping sighed, "The two of them are indeed a loving couple, and Mrs. Yu is also a rare strange woman, who often goes out with Lord Yu to listen to plays and drink, and the two have a very strong relationship, which also makes Aunt Weng disliked." ”
Cheng Ping's eyes were full of envy, "Like a beautiful flower, like a year of water, it is enough to have a confidant in life." It's a pity that the world is pedantic, and in their eyes, the wife of IKEA and IKEA is like your mother, who forces her husband and children to move up every day with a straight face, and takes care of the housework in the back house. ”
Cheng Jin was silent, she didn't agree with Cheng Ping's contempt for Mrs. Cheng, Mrs. Cheng was also a talented woman, but after so many years of husband and children, she gave everything for the Hou Mansion, consumed the innocence of the year, and forced a beautiful woman into a backhouse woman, in which the bitterness is not something that Cheng Ping can understand.
But from her daughter's point of view, she can't criticize Cheng Ping for anything, he is born with a lazy personality who is unwilling to be restrained, but Mrs. Cheng was born in a scholarly family, her father and brother are both diligent and motivated people, she can't look down on Cheng Ping's unruly style, and she has a strong personality and sneers at him, and Cheng Ping may not have a good time in the past ten years of married life.
This kind of thing can't tell the right and wrong in black and white, it can only be said that they have different personalities, they are a pair of blind marriages and dumb marriages, mismatched mandarin ducks, if Mrs. Cheng marries into a scholarly family similar to her grandfather's family as the housewife, presumably life will not be so aggrieved, if Cheng Ping marries a gentle and petty-minded wife who respects him in everything, life can also be enjoyable.
But how many couples can be independent in the world?
"A few years ago, when Liu's miscarriage, I really had the idea of divorce my wife," Cheng Ping looked at the fields outside the car, the ordinary peasant family bent over to tend the crops, looking very hard, but his wife tied a headscarf beside him to help, at the feet of the two of them a four or five-year-old baby laughed mischievously, although the days were hard, but full of happy warmth, he felt in his heart, he was clothed and fed, but he could never experience such a husband and wife love.
Cheng Jin and Cheng Mingyuan were shocked, raised their heads and looked at Cheng Ping, about five years ago, Aunt Liu was seven months pregnant, but suddenly gave birth to a baby boy, the child was born out of gas, Aunt Liu also bleeded non-stop, almost died, although there is no evidence that it was Mrs. Cheng who did it, but Cheng Ping was still deeply suspicious of her, and then Aunt Liu fell ill and could not have children for life, Cheng Ping and Mrs. Cheng also completely tore their faces, and the two had a lot of trouble during that time, or the Empress Dowager Cheng came forward to suppress this matter.
"I have long been disgusted with your mother, if I insist on divorce my wife, the queen mother is afraid that she will not be able to have children, but to help me marry a famous lady as a wife. But one day I saw your mother hugging you and personally feeding you and wiping your face, and my heart softened again," Cheng Ping looked at Cheng Jin, "You four are your mother's heart, if she leaves the Cheng family, you will stay, can your mother stand it?" The four of you have a stepmother, can she treat you sincerely? Especially Ah Jin, who was born stupid, if there is really a stepmother entering the door, she will definitely not be able to tolerate you. Tiger poison does not eat children, although I take care of my own happiness, but I will not force you to a dead end, it is better for me to leave the house every day, far away from her, the two of them are also clean, and you are not close to me. ”
"Daddy, don't you have to say that," Cheng Jin pulled Cheng Ping's sleeve, if it was said that Cheng Ping's admiration and closeness before was deliberately acting for Mrs. Cheng, but now she is sincere, as a man, she can be so frank and unrestrained in front of her children, without pretending at all, no matter what outsiders say about him, in her heart, he is a gentleman, "No matter how you and A-Niang get along, you are all our fathers and mothers, and we treat you as close as we treat A-Niang, It is also filial piety. ”
"Your mouth is very sweet." Cheng Ping laughed, which man doesn't like a beautiful, cute and sweet-mouthed little daughter, he found a long-lost family happiness in these two children, and his hostility towards Mrs. Cheng is not as strong as before, "You two also remember that although Daddy is not in harmony with your mother, he is your father after all, and his heart is not fake." ”
"Ah Yuan, when your second brother was born, I named him 'Mingzhi' with the meaning of 'indifferent Mingzhi', so when you were born, I named you 'Mingyuan' with the meaning of 'quiet Zhiyuan', but your mother was entangled, not because I didn't like you and snubbed you, so I named you 'Yuan', presumably she has said these nonsense in front of you over the years......"
Cheng Mingyuan scratched his head a little embarrassed, Mrs. Cheng did curse Cheng Ping in front of him, "Daddy, I didn't take these words to heart......"
This is the truth, Cheng Mingyuan is a big-hearted person, otherwise he would not be as good as Cheng Mingqi, Cheng Ping is often not in the house, far away, anyway, he didn't think Cheng Ping treated Cheng Mingqi well, their father treated them equally.