Chapter 18 Kindness is not honesty
After a while, Tian wiped away his tears and wanted to get up to cook. This time it's not that she's going to be a good person and go to work. Instead, he has a heart, usually there is delicious food at home, and the Zhu family will volunteer to cook, and then steal a little. Mother-in-law Cao Shi knew about it, and she didn't say anything.
This time, the rabbit that his daughter caught by herself, did it herself, and secretly hid a little for her son and daughter to eat, which is also reasonable.
Yang Ning followed behind Tian and wanted to help. Tian felt sorry for his daughter, and originally wanted Yang Ning to rest, but he had something to say to her in his heart, but in the end he didn't say anything and let his daughter follow.
As soon as she entered the kitchen, Tian closed the door, and when she saw that there was only her and her daughter, and there was no one else, she breathed a sigh of relief, and called Yang Ning to her side softly, looking at her daughter's appearance, the words turned around three times in her mouth before she spoke, "Ning'er, my mother knows that you are arguing with your grandparents and protecting your mother." But so many people see you arguing with your elders, and this reputation spreads, which is not good for you. For unmarried girls, fame is especially important. ”
She said as tactfully as possible, and her tone was soft, for fear of hurting her girl's heart. Yang Ning knew that her mother was for her good, but she couldn't accept this truth.
"Mother, in the future, Xiao Nan will marry, do you want him to marry someone who can speak well, be spicy and capable and not suffer losses, or marry a wood who is only obedient and only knows filial piety to his elders?" Yang Ning asked Tian rhetorically, his tone was helpless, but he didn't rush.
"Of course, it's good to be capable, and you won't suffer." Tian replied without thinking.
"So," Yang Ning shrugged, "I'm so big, and the few families who come to propose marriage are all mothers who don't care about their sons, and they are not much better than my grandmother." Those mothers who love their sons don't propose marriage to me, haven't you thought about it, what's the problem? ”
Tian originally wanted to say that naturally they don't understand my daughter's goodness, and there will be discerning people to propose marriage. But when she thought about Yang Ning's words before and after, she also understood. Others don't mention their relatives, because they don't look down on her daughter's weakness.
She pondered carefully, just like her daughter before, she didn't dare to speak, she bowed her head when she saw someone, and she would only swallow it in her stomach if she knocked out her teeth like herself, if she said it to her son, she didn't want to, let alone others?
Yang Ning saw that Tian was thoughtful, as if he was a little enlightened, and continued to follow the path, "Mother, I used to have a reputation in the village, and everyone said that I was honest and obedient, but honest people were bullied wherever they went, so no one wanted to be a family with me, and they were afraid that I would be soft and unable to stand up, so that their children would be wronged." Therefore, being an honest person can only win an honest name and enjoy less than half of the benefits. ”
"Only by being kind can you accumulate blessings." Tian was a little dazed by what her daughter said, but her three views over the years were not so easy to be defeated, so she asked.
Yang Ning was stunned, before she finished her words, she was interrupted by her mother, and what Tian asked was exactly what she wanted to say next, it seemed that Tian more or less listened to her words.
"Mother, an honest man, he doesn't hold grudges, he works with his head down, and others beat him with ten mallets, and he doesn't dare to fight back. If you are honest, you are cowardly and afraid, cowardly and deceitful. And kindness and honesty are different, kindness is to treat people sincerely, the grace of dripping water springs to reciprocate, do things down-to-earth and not vain, but others toss and hit me, I naturally have a way to deal with it, others beat me with a mallet, I educate him; If he hears, forgive; If you don't listen, continue to hit my second mallet, I will return the third mallet, and I will never blindly tolerate compromise. Treat others with kindness and accumulate blessings, and others dare not bully. But if you treat honesty as kindness, blindly tolerate those who oppress you, say that you are angry at a small level, and say that you are abusing at a large level, how can you accumulate blessings? Yang Ning talked a lot, but he spoke slowly, for fear that Tian would not understand it if it was too fast.
When Tian heard his daughter's words, he only felt that it was like an empowerment, and the dark clouds covering his head opened a crack, and the sun shone in from it. She has never understood why she is honest, her father is respected, and she is doing well, but she is living a mess, listening to her daughter, she seems to understand a little. She is just honest, but not kind, when others hit herself again and again with a mallet, she didn't fight back, causing others to knock too much, it became a habit, and it was uncomfortable not to hit her twice a day.
And his own pair of children were also beaten with a mallet, the girl is yellow and thin, the son is shorter than children of the same age, the star is not full and does not develop well, they are all not taking care of the child, it is a sin, a mother can't protect the child, this is a sin!
Tian's eyes were sour, and he was about to cry again. But she also knew that it was useless to shed tears, so she silently made up her mind to stand up and no longer be a soft-faced person.
"My mother knows, I remember what you said." Tian touched Yang Ning's head, "Go and call Xiao Nan, quietly, don't alarm others." ”
Yang Ning didn't know what to do, but he still went to call Xiao Nan over. Yang Laosan stayed up late yesterday and hurried, and he was extremely tired at this time and had already fallen asleep. Yang Xiaoyi and Zhu seemed to be taking a bath, and the sound of the water was rattling, like a mandarin duck bath. Zhu's blood, I don't know how Yang Xiaoyi will do it. The hall was closed, and Yang Jinxiu's laughter and the smell of pastries came from inside. The doors of each room are closed, doing their own things, everyone seems to be a family of intimate people, but when the door is closed, it is like a stranger who rents a house together and does not interfere with each other.
Entering the kitchen, Tian's expression was serious, he boiled a pot of hot water, took out two bowls, like a thief, looked east and west, and made sure that there was no one, so he dug up two small spoonfuls of brown sugar, poured them into the water, and then gave Xiao Nan and Yang Ning a bowl each, and instructed, "Drink, this is the brown sugar that your father brought me a few days ago, drink it quietly, don't alarm others." ”
Xiao Nan picked up the water, took a sip of it, stuck out his tongue hotly, but his face was full of smiles, "It's so sweet, mother, you drink it too, be careful of scalding." As he spoke, he blew two mouthfuls and handed them to Tian. Tian didn't answer, and his eyes were sour again. My child has grown so big, it may be the first time to drink sugar water. This sugar Yang Xiaozhong brought to her with the front foot, and the back foot was asked by the Cao family, saying that it was for Yang Jinxiu to drink. Yang Jinxiu kept pastries all day long, so he kept it there and didn't drink it.
She took the sugar water, took a sip, and the good brown sugar was all old. She used to be timid, she didn't dare to take it out for the children to drink, and told herself that this is her honest duty, go to his honest duty, and in the future, she will live a good life, be a kind person, and not be an honest fool!
"My mother drank it, Xiao Nan drank it too, drink more, and I will grow taller to protect my mother." Tian handed the sugar water to Xiao Nan and went to see Yang Ning again.
Yang Ning was crying and laughing at this time, she didn't expect her words to persuade Tian so immediately, she listened to the persuasion, and in the blink of an eye, she took the sugar and flushed the water for her to drink. In the memory of the original owner, he had never enjoyed the treatment of drinking sugar water, and this time it was a shocking thunderbolt. Looking at Tian's reaction, she felt that it seemed to be a bit overkill, but at this time, she couldn't manage so much, and overcorrection was better than not changing at all. Where there is change, there is hope for the better.
Seeing that Tian and Xiao Nan were looking at her expectantly, she picked up the bowl and drank a few sips, then left half a bowl, saying that she didn't want to drink anything, and gave it to Tian. Tian was moved to tears again, but he held back. I ate a few more bites of Xiao Nan's treasured sugar steamed buns, praised Xiao Nan fiercely, and saw the appearance of eating sugar steamed buns, as if he was eating a full banquet of the Han Dynasty, obviously he looked at the sugar steamed buns and drooled, and he also wanted to let his sister and mother eat, and he was happy that God gave him a sensible younger brother, and he was sad and sad, and once again made up his mind that he wanted to make money and make a fortune to the local owner, so that this child could enjoy his happiness!
However, those things have to be considered in the long run, and now what I have to do is to stew this pot of rabbit meat first, so that everyone can have a good meal!