Chapter 49: Shaker is the woman I love so much
If you know you're wrong, then you can still be saved.
If you don't even know what you're wrong, then there's no way to save it.
Shen Lang said: "Brother Gu, if one day, your cousin and child leave you, what should you do?" ”
Gu Yeqing was stabbed into the cranial nerve, and immediately said, "No! Ziying and children are my life, I can't lose them, I can't lose them in my life. ”
Shen Lang hit the nail on the head and said: "Then I'll tell you, if you take a concubine, your wife will definitely leave you with your children!" ”
Gu Yeqing shook his head and said, "I don't want to take a concubine, I never thought about it." ”
Shen Lang said: "The problem now is that Mrs. Meng will definitely let you take a concubine, and if you don't agree with her, she will cry and make trouble, and in the end you will compromise with a soft heart." The consequence of your compromise is that your cousin and child leave you, is this the result you want? ”
Gu Yeqing said bitterly: "No, I can't lose Ziying, and I can't lose my child...... Brother Shen, tell me, what should I do? What can I do to keep everyone happy, you tell me what to do? ”
Shen Lang said earnestly: "Have you ever thought that the current dilemma is caused by your repeated compromises? Mrs. Meng gave birth to you and raised you, and it is right for you to be filial to her, but filial piety is also divided into circumstances, and your so-called filial piety is connivance and foolishness. Mrs. Meng also saw this, so she will repeatedly force you to do what you don't want to do. Every time you compromise, it has become a new step for Mrs. Meng to become more intense, and it is your wife and daughter who are hurt the most. ”
Gu Yeqing is a fan of the person concerned.
Gu Yeqing thought that those compromises in the past were filial piety, but he didn't expect that these filial piety he thought were foolish and filial piety in the eyes of onlookers, and they were the culprits who destroyed family harmony and crushed the relationship between husband and wife!
Now that Shen Lang said that he was at the point, Gu Yeqing's mind was much clearer.
Gu Yeqing knew that he couldn't do anything to hurt his wife and daughter anymore, but the Meng family made Gu Yeqing helpless, and Gu Yeqing didn't know how to balance the relationship between his wife and mother......
Gu Yeqing said: "Brother Shen, how did you do it to make your uncle and aunt so fond of it?" ”
Shen Lang said: "I am not you, and my father-in-law and mother-in-law are not Mrs. Meng. But if I were you, and Shaker was harassed by my mother-in-law, I would stand by Shake's side for a while, and I would tell everyone that Shaker was the woman I loved deeply, and no one could bully her. ”
Gu Yeqing frowned and said, "But in this case, aren't you afraid that your parents will be sad?" ”
Shen Lang said: "The reason why Mrs. Meng makes things difficult for her cousin is, in the final analysis, because your husband is incompetent. If your cousin is wronged in the Gu family, you can stand up for her as soon as possible, I believe that no one in the Gu family will dare to despise her. The reason why Mrs. Meng unscrupulously let her cousin be treated unfairly again and again is because you, the husband, did not protect her well. You are afraid that Mrs. Meng will be sad, so that it seems that you are not filial, and what I want to tell you is that filial piety is not measured by compromises that have no lower limit. To put it mildly, Mrs. Meng threatens you with death to take a concubine, if you insist on not taking a concubine, I don't think Mrs. Meng is really stupid enough to take a rope to find a short-term view. ”
Shen Lang's words hit the nail on the head.
Gu Yeqing is also reflecting on himself, on what he has done over the years, and on the harm he has done to his wife and daughter......
Gu Yeqing finally realized where his problem was, realized that he could no longer continue to compromise, and he could no longer let his wife and daughter be wronged and hurt because of him, he had to stand up and tell everyone clearly and clearly that he would not accept a concubine, nor would he take a concubine, not in this life!