2019.11.14

Please beat the problem with the child, not with the problem, beat the child.

This morning I saw an article about how parents should face their children's poor grades after midterm exams, which mentioned this sentence. I was very touched and shared it with the three groups of parents of Lollipop.

Parents who know that their child is Down and have found out about it from doctors and the Internet are often deeply affected by thunder. Many parents begin to have low self-esteem and feel that their children are inferior. This state of mind can have an extremely negative impact on a child's development.

In the process of growing up with Down's children, parents need to actively intervene early, and in this process that requires long-term perseverance, we parents will encounter many setbacks and difficulties. Before we find a positive and effective method, we tend to shorten it and attribute the cause of the ineffectiveness to the child's innateness, rather than continuing to seek ways to intervene. In other words: follow the problem and defeat the child.

After the children go to school, we face more problems and difficulties, academics, behavioral habits, etc., all kinds of problems emerge one after another, and we also have to face the complaints of teachers. Especially in the first year of school, it is stressful!

At this time, we really have to follow the children together to overcome these problems.

Don't think of inferiority, if you look down on your own children, who will look down on your children? Who will help your child?

It's always easier to give up than to stick to it. Every one of us understands this. When we encounter a problem, we should focus on how to solve the problem, rather than focusing on: Ah, he is so stupid, I can't teach him. Because he is Tang Baobao, he definitely can't learn!

No, children can learn it, even the most difficult math for them. The key is how to teach it, and whether it can be persevered?

The difficulty is just around the corner, let's go and beat it together!

"Tang Bao's Diary" Chapter 71 Standing with the child is hitting the hand, please wait a moment,

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