2019.10.31

Peng Peng asked me: "Today, Teacher Zhan said in the class again, whoever is the last person in the class to sit next to me in math or English, including those who do not follow discipline in class." Mom, why does she keep saying that? ”

"Well, the teacher probably has two intentions. One is to hope that your classmates will study as hard as you do, and the second is to allow you to socialize with different classmates. ”

"Then let's change classmates every day!" Peng Peng accepted it, saying that it was not enough to change a classmate to sit next to him every week.

Teacher Zhan called Zhu's name and said that she would sit next to me when she spoke in class. I said right away, I wish Zhu ** sat next to me. "Zhu is a girl who Peng Peng is suitable.

"Ah, are you loud? Did the teachers and classmates hear it? ”

"I used a medium voice, and Mr. Zhan pretended to go in and out of the left ear."

I thought to myself: Teacher Zhan listened to what Peng Peng said, and he should not say this in the future.

"Mom, you know what? A turning point similar to the 'Third Plenary Session of the 11th CPC Central Committee' happened to me. ”

"The Third Plenary Session of the Eleventh Central Committee?"

"Yes, the Third Plenum of the 11th Central Committee was a huge turning point. After the Third Plenary Session of the 11th Central Committee of the Communist Party of China, hasn't China undergone tremendous changes? I've also been through a huge turning point. ”

"What was that turning point?" While admiring Peng Peng's ability to comprehend, I asked curiously.

"I went from being unconfident to being confident, that is, I recognized myself."

I hid the surging in my heart and asked him, "Is it because you found out that other classmates have a lot of shortcomings, right?" ”

"I don't know. Mom, I'll tell you slowly. I used to love writing essays and was eager to show them to my classmates, but now I don't want to show them that much. ”

"Also, I didn't talk to anyone before, I only communicated by writing notes, but now I'm not afraid to talk to them."

I really didn't expect that. I was very mindful of what had happened in the past few days, and I had been thinking about it, and I had been hesitant to contact the teacher and ask her not to punish her classmates in this way. I patiently did not interfere, if I did, would the teacher not be convinced, think that I had interfered with her measures, and thus behave more disrespectfully to Peng Peng in another place. It had such an unexpected result.

Maybe it was because he discovered the weaknesses of his classmates, or maybe he learned that everyone has different shortcomings in one way or another, and today he choked the teacher in class. He can speak his heart openly, he no longer needs to be praised by others to affirm himself, he is observing, he is thinking, he is growing.