Family health education

2019.10.19

Bo Ma said: to accompany children, in addition to having a suitable method for their children, we need to have a delicate heart, think with our hearts, and feel with our hearts. I'll give you a random example. Helping the family to fold clothes, to put it mildly, helping the family to do housework allows children to understand the sense of family responsibility from an early age, and form a good habit of a hard-working and capable family expert. In a small way, what can we teach our children? Color: What color do you wear? Size: Dad's clothes are big and my clothes are small. Length: Mom's pants are long and my pants are short. Symmetrical: The two sleeves are symmetrical. Find the same: Please find the same socks. Numbers: Count how many pieces of clothing you've folded. Gender: Mom can wear skirts, but you can't wear skirts if you're a boy. Thickness: Shirt is thin and sweater is thick. Season: Wear short sleeves in summer and cotton clothes in winter. And so on and so forth, and so on, and so on. Another example is the matter of "eating apples", in different stages of growth, we have different priorities, so we will choose different methods. At first, apple shaved puree is fed with a spoon to exercise your child's mouth muscles. When you grow a little older, you can cut the apple into strips, hold it in your hand and eat it yourself, chew it, grasp it, and practice it. When you grow a little bigger, it's time for the apple to be cut into chunks, and you can pinch it up with your index finger and thumb to make a big chunk, so you can exercise finely, right? When we grow up a little more, or cut into pieces, at this time, give him a toothpick and a fork, is it more demanding for the degree of fine motor skills, and finally we are too much to eat the whole apple, peel and gnaw it ourselves, because we all eat apples like this, and in the end we always have to follow the crowd, and I will eat what others eat. These two examples are given to illustrate that in the process of raising children, we need to have a delicate heart, think with heart, and accompany us with heart.

We all know that early intervention is as important as possible and plays a pivotal role in our children's development. Some parents will pin their hopes on rehabilitation institutions, but in fact, rehabilitation institutions only play a guiding role. Just like students study, everyone is in the same class together, the same teachers, some learn well, and some are not so satisfied. There's an old saying: Kung Fu is outside the classroom. The most important thing is family rehabilitation education, with heart in every bit of life.

There are often institutions that take advantage of parents' eagerness to change and quick success, and exaggerate the role of some rehabilitation. We parents need to be immune to these exaggerated claims. There is no quick way for our child's intervention and education, and his wisdom growth is given bit by bit in your company and accumulated.

Bo's mother didn't find out that Bobo was Tang Bao until Bobo was more than two years old, and she began to consciously exercise Bobo from life. Xu Xu has never been to the institution for rehabilitation, relying on his grandmother's careful education, he is getting better and better. These successful experiences show that homeschooling is more important for our children.

Behind every excellent child is a parent who is patient and persevering and will educate. Rehabilitation is not only in institutions, all rehabilitation must eventually be generalized to life, return to society, family rehabilitation anytime, anywhere, as long as he is with the child, he can be rehabilitated.

Salute to all the hard working parents, grandparents!