2019.9.23

Peng Peng didn't go to the toilet and ran to school as soon as he slipped through the smoke. I was worried about him because he had told me that he would rather poop inside his pants than interrupt the teacher's lecture. I said, "How embarrassing is that?" ”

He replied, "I don't find it embarrassing at all. ”

In his heart, does he feel more embarrassed to raise his hand and tell the teacher that he wants to go to the toilet?

At 9:48, I received a WeChat message from the head teacher, asking me to take Peng Peng home and change his pants. On the way there, I thought: I must not scold him or act angry, this will reinforce his bad memory. After receiving Peng Peng, I asked him, "I can't hold back in the first class?" ”

He replied: "I couldn't hold back after the first life science class, so I hurried to the toilet and couldn't hold back on the way." ”

I joked, "How many more times do you have to leak out before you remember to poop after eating?" ”

Peng Peng covered his mouth embarrassedly and laughed.

I then played: "It's the same with math problems, it doesn't matter if you make mistakes, just remember not to make the same mistakes in the future, maybe there will be times when you can't remember, remind yourself a few times and remember." ”

I asked him again: "Did you tell the teacher to pull your pants?" ”

He replied, "No, because I ran to the toilet so much that the teacher guessed." Oh, maybe it's the smelly smell that the teacher smells. ”

I saw him wash his soiled pants and carry them in a black plastic bag, and he explained that as soon as he came out of the toilet, Mr. Sun gave him the bag with wet pants.

Today, in the three groups of the lollipop sharing meeting, I discussed with parents the problem of beating and scolding their children. The topics are as follows:

There is a saying: beating is kissing, scolding is love. But just look at the children who were beaten up, you can know that beating is not kissing, scolding is not love, but an invisible injury. Scolding is the least energy-consuming, time-consuming family education, those who are used to being beaten and scolded, will not really "long memory" in a short period of time. As soon as a child is beaten, the child will immediately beg for mercy and apologize, but is this really the case? Maybe next time he will not change. In fact, it is the best way to educate your child clearly.

This immediately sparked a heated discussion among parents. Bo Mama's point of view is the most representative: it is very bad to intimidate, threaten, and violence against children. First of all, we need to adjust our emotions in order to better guide our children. Blindly venting our anger on our children, it seems that our irritable emotions are alleviated, but in fact, it aggravates our other emotions, such as regret and sympathy. Therefore, when encountering problems, parents should stabilize first, accept and understand the child's emotions first, and gently squat down and look at the child's eyes. Children's emotions need to be understood and accepted, but we can't condone children's behavior, we must be firm, wrong is wrong, and we must apologize if we apologize. I understand the child's emotions, and the child's behavior needs to be apologized.

I think I learned a lot from these mothers. Practice good advice and reap good results.

In today's monthly Chinese exam, Peng Peng said that the exam was very simple, and the basic questions in front of him were all memorized by himself. Reading comprehension is very handy with the methods taught by the Chinese teacher. The title of the essay is just right for the history lecture he listened to in Peng's father's car. He put it to good use. I'm looking forward to seeing Peng Peng's monthly exam paper and seeing what his essays are all about.

At the request of Mr. Yu, Peng Peng printed out the literary works he wrote on the website and did not pass them and handed them to his teacher, he wanted to know how the teacher evaluated this work?