The pursuit of life by people of each social class is different, and in the final analysis, it is different values, so let's take a look at the differences between the three social classes in the pursuit of life.

Grassroots society pursues happiness.

As soon as we hear someone say, "I want to be happy all my life," we know that he is probably a member of the grassroots society. Life is about being happy, but happiness does not mean life. A person is happy when he is mediocre, he is happy when he is at ease, and he is happy when he has a good job. Happiness is a psychological need, not a value we are after. To put it bluntly, you see the pigs in the pigsty, they are well fed, they are sleeping, they are happy, but it doesn't take long for them to be killed, so there is another explanation for "happy" is: "Soon they will not be happy." "Especially since we are human beings, so we can't reduce the pursuit of life to the same level as pigs. We need to adjust our mood anytime and anywhere to make ourselves happy, but our happiness must be valuable and meaningful. If the grassroots society understands this truth, it will not be so unmotivated.

The middle class pursues wealth.

When it comes to middle society, let's first talk about the mistakes we should avoid. When we see a few bodyguards with umbrellas in a good car, and then a boss gets out of the car, many people will think that this is the middle class, and this view is wrong in my personal opinion. This kind of desperate display can only be done by the grassroots society that gets rich overnight and pursues happiness, and it is by no means the middle class.

Although middle-class people pursue wealth and are also vain, middle-class people probably don't hire bodyguards. Because although the middle class is not very smart, it is not too stupid, and the middle class knows a truth: it is very dangerous to hire bodyguards at every turn. Speaking of which, many people are very puzzled: wouldn't it be more stylish to hire bodyguards? In fact, hiring a bodyguard is telling people: my life is very valuable. And bodyguards are unreliable, first of all, bodyguards are also here to earn money, so there is really danger, and bodyguards will not fight for you for money. Secondly, since it is to earn money, if someone gives him more money, the bodyguard will betray you at any time.

And the people who have the guts to kidnap you are probably Jiangyang thieves. Let's put aside the moral and legal factors, just talk about the ability of these people: to be honest, they really can't be Jiangyang thieves without two moments, so if they want to kidnap a person, they must first inquire about this person, and through what channels do they inquire? Through your family? No way! You can only inquire through the bodyguard around you, as long as he gives the bodyguard enough money, the bodyguard will become the eyeliner they arrange by your side, and your every move is under their control, so if you don't hire a bodyguard, it's relatively safe, if you hire a bodyguard, it won't be long before you are kidnapped.

Don't think that those Jiangyang thieves will kidnap you casually, to be honest, people who mix to that level in that line are very face-saving, and they are afraid of being laughed at by their peers. When they took a lot of effort to kidnap a person, but accidentally tied up a poor ghost, not only can't get a penny, but also send you back safely, and lose the gas money of the car in vain, it's no wonder that you are not teased by your peers!

Therefore, he will conduct a full investigation of you before kidnapping you, and those Jiangyang thieves will send people to follow you, and they will not only find out whose car you borrowed, but also know that you bargained with an old lady who sold vegetables for a dime; Not only do they know which designer store you go to to buy clothes for vanity, but they also know which stall you go to buy underwear for cheapness. When he knew about these things, even if you asked him to tie you up, he wouldn't tie you up, and he said to himself, "You poor devil with a big appearance!" I tie you? Shall I still raise you? ”

The middle class is indeed desperately pursuing wealth, but in addition to the hypocritical entertainment on the surface, they are actually very stingy in their hearts. Therefore, if hypocritical entertainment is an external social attribute of middle-class society, then the stinginess in their bones is their internal social attribute. This is not contradictory, let me give you an example: if you see a person who has a lot of books, he doesn't want to lend you books, because he likes books so he has a lot of books, so he cares about books very much; A very rich person you lend him money, and he is not willing to lend it to you because he likes money, especially saving money. But it is precisely this kind of stingy social attribute that has become the protective color of the middle class, so not hiring bodyguards not only saves an extra expense, but also helps to hide one's wealth.

The high-level society pursues value.

In fact, it's not that the upper echelons of society don't want to be happy, nor do they don't want wealth. It is that the high-level society always worries about the world first, and then the world enjoys the joys of the world, so they rarely pay attention to personal likes and dislikes. And the money is enough for the high-level society, but it is definitely not the kind of casual situation of the grass-roots society, because the high-level society will give back the rest of the money to the society. They pay attention to the value of life, and they will use their limited life to do several things that are valuable to the country and society. They will give full play to the limited social resources that can be called upon, and exert the greatest value for the society and the country. When they feel that they have fulfilled the value of their lives, they will retire. I once wrote a poem, two of which are about the high-level society: "The sunset is beautiful in the middle of the sky, and the comfort is because of success".